As a dedicated voyeur and having enjoyed a fairly recent great encounter where "just watching" was the only thing on offer and the only thing wanted, I was asked yesterday if I thought I might be in the wrong place here on SH.
I've dwelt on it overnight and I feel confident that I am in the right place, but it also occurred to me that it might well be seen as a fringe activity, as it were. I'd be interested to hear what the consensus view is.
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Is voyeurism a real form of swinging?
Sex God
Yes, it is
If you enjoy watching then go for it and just enjoy!! Its a very simple pleasure enjoyment.
Life is for living. I dont see that its for others to judge what your personal tastes are. If you know what you like then you cant go wrong. There are plenty of chat rooms dedicated to people like yourself and there is nothing stopping you setting up your own room of course.
Sex is multi-faceted. Sex is fun :twisted:
Life is for living. I dont see that its for others to judge what your personal tastes are. If you know what you like then you cant go wrong. There are plenty of chat rooms dedicated to people like yourself and there is nothing stopping you setting up your own room of course.
Sex is multi-faceted. Sex is fun :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by JTS
Lots of people like watching more than joining-in.
Many doggers prefer watching over joining-in with the action. In fact, it's the ones who only want a shag who ruin it for the others.
Absolutely.
Those who believe that voyeurism is not a valid swinging activity should think again -- I mean all you exhibitionists would have no fun at all if it wasn't for us voyeurs!
And it is not more fun to join in. Joining in might be fun, granted, but it is just as much fun, or even more so, to sit back and watch, if that is your inclination.
Quote by winchwench
Of course it it! There are many, many facets to sexual hedonism. "Swinging" is simply a word which has come to encompass many of them.
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It's the pleasure & enjoyment principal
I will presume they invited you?
therefore pleasure & enjoyment was in full effect amongst all parties & in this context a swinging moment can be said to be had by all
Hope you will :sleeping: soundly at night now!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :doh:
Orgasminator
Back to the original topic – If you enjoyed watching, and they enjoyed being watched then both parties are happy and who the hell cares what anyone else thinks is “right and proper” to this site. The site is whatever its members want to make of it, provided we remain within the guidelines and AUP.
Sex God
Yes.
There are more voyeurs at swinging clubs than many people realise - I mean people who turn down invitations to join in.
There are more voyeurs at swinging clubs than many people realise - I mean people who turn down invitations to join in.
Looking forward to meeting some more exhibitionists in that case 
Quote by delsutton
As a dedicated voyeur and having enjoyed a fairly recent great encounter where "just watching" was the only thing on offer and the only thing wanted, I was asked yesterday if I thought I might be in the wrong place here on SH.
I've dwelt on it overnight and I feel confident that I am in the right place, but it also occurred to me that it might well be seen as a fringe activity, as it were. I'd be interested to hear what the consensus view is.
This is a topic sort of done many times but in different forms.
The question is....what constitutes a swinger? Well the dictionary definition is " A person who engages freely in promiscuous sex or
a member of a couple, especially a married couple, who exchanges sexual partners".
Now that is the proper definition but as we all know, there are many people on here who do not do the above, so are they swingers and should they be on this site?
There are people who just chat on here, who just use the Forums or people who either just go on cam or like to watch the cams. For me to be a swinger is what it says in the dictionary. We are a couple who swap partners. If you just enjoy watching the cams then you are a voyeur, or of course if you like watching people having sex. There are words for everything but....you are not a swinger if you are a voyeur or an exibitionist. Now I will get slated again by saying that but for those who do not agree, then check the dictionary meaning of the word. Are they wrong?
Bottom line though is this site caters for one and all, whether you meet or dont meet, or just want a chat with people on here do not meet or swing but use the site for their own enjoyment, which is fantastic. They are my views but am sure people will not agree with me, but hey ho some things never change.
But Del whatever you do as long as you are having fun then that is all that matters. 