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Quote by Lizaleanrob
the problem with that is, if the only thing that makes a couple interesting is the female posting then you single guys are a bit buggered, as you have nothing to fall back on
flipa

:shock: heh
I agree with foxy, meat, gem, Liz et al. and personally I thrive on the social mix you can get from meeting off the net. But I definitely see Mids' point because... the kind of person that chooses to self-identify as "professional"/include this in their profile is doing so to take a very particular stance with regards to class, income, education etc. Whether they are professional or not matters little, what matters is that they choose to make a point about it. A phrase to match is "enjoy the finer things in life", or sometimes "a good standard of living". I am here to escape from social convention not to celebrate it, so sometimes these terms and phrases can put me off - if you'll excuse me saying this, they often smack of middle-class smugness (I have no problem with the middle classes, but I do have a problem with smugness!).
Quote by pebble
But I definitely see Mids' point because... the kind of person that chooses to self-identify as "professional"/include this in their profile is doing so to take a very particular stance with regards to class, income, education etc. Whether they are professional or not matters little, what matters is that they choose to make a point about it. A phrase to match is "enjoy the finer things in life", or sometimes "a good standard of living". I am here to escape from social convention not to celebrate it, so sometimes these terms and phrases can put me off - if you'll excuse me saying this, they often smack of middle-class smugness (I have no problem with the middle classes, but I do have a problem with smugness!).

Unless someone with professional on their profile states that they only wish to meet people like them then surely it is only another description/label like fat, thin, age etc.
Lots of interesting comments on profiles here so we've ammended ours so as not to offend anyone.
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But I definitely see Mids' point because... the kind of person that chooses to self-identify as "professional"/include this in their profile is doing so to take a very particular stance with regards to class, income, education etc. Whether they are professional or not matters little, what matters is that they choose to make a point about it. A phrase to match is "enjoy the finer things in life", or sometimes "a good standard of living". I am here to escape from social convention not to celebrate it, so sometimes these terms and phrases can put me off - if you'll excuse me saying this, they often smack of middle-class smugness (I have no problem with the middle classes, but I do have a problem with smugness!).

Unless someone with professional on their profile states that they only wish to meet people like them then surely it is only another description/label like fat, thin, age etc.
Lots of interesting comments on profiles here so we've ammended ours so as not to offend anyone.
I'm offended by the use of percentages in a profile
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Dave_Notts
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I'm offended by the use of percentages in a profile
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Dave_Notts

Only cos you can't work them out. :giggle: Maybe there should be a maths for swinger's session. We could do the sums on naked bodies. biggrin
Quote by foxylady2209

I'm offended by the use of percentages in a profile
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Dave_Notts

Only cos you can't work them out. :giggle: Maybe there should be a maths for swinger's session. We could do the sums on naked bodies. biggrin
I would like to put my name down for the first lesson :bounce:
Dave_Notts
Quote by pebble
the problem with that is, if the only thing that makes a couple interesting is the female posting then you single guys are a bit buggered, as you have nothing to fall back on
flipa

:shock: heh
I agree with foxy, meat, gem, Liz et al. and personally I thrive on the social mix you can get from meeting off the net. But I definitely see Mids' point because... the kind of person that chooses to self-identify as "professional"/include this in their profile is doing so to take a very particular stance with regards to class, income, education etc. Whether they are professional or not matters little, what matters is that they choose to make a point about it. A phrase to match is "enjoy the finer things in life", or sometimes "a good standard of living". I am here to escape from social convention not to celebrate it, so sometimes these terms and phrases can put me off - if you'll excuse me saying this, they often smack of middle-class smugness (I have no problem with the middle classes, but I do have a problem with smugness!).
That's what I wanted to say and what I meant but don't have the educational skills to say it so eloquently, I like to meet people of all different backgrounds but not when they have to push it in my face because that, to me, means it is very important to them.
Some who say it doesn't matter in this thread are the same people who have said in other threads "no text speak" is that not a similar thing that they don't feel they would be in the same sort of social circle ?
Quote by MidsCouple24
That's what I wanted to say and what I meant but don't have the educational skills to say it so eloquently, I like to meet people of all different backgrounds but not when they have to push it in my face because that, to me, means it is very important to them.
Some who say it doesn't matter in this thread are the same people who have said in other threads "no text speak" is that not a similar thing that they don't feel they would be in the same sort of social circle ?

I wouldn't say so. Text speak is very hard to read and the sense of it can be impossible to understand. There is one place for text speak and that is in a text to someone who understands it. It isn't a snobbery thing, ot is a "I have no idea what you are trying to say" thing.
Quote by MidsCouple24
Some who say it doesn't matter in this thread are the same people who have said in other threads "no text speak" is that not a similar thing that they don't feel they would be in the same sort of social circle ?

rotflmao Being in the same social circle and the same swinging circle can be two very different things for some people, depending on what they're looking for out of the scene. Social circles and swinging circles could be complete polar opposites, or could have a massive overlap depending on their interests, and a whole heap of other things.
Yep, text speak in messages is quite often a "I have no idea what you're trying to say", as foxy just wrote. Personally, I feel the same about PM's. If I can't read what they're saying I am just going to junk it (only if it is truely terrible though, like they've just wiped their bum across the keyboard and then hit send! lol ). However, my specific point in the text thread was applied to the vanilla world and how it's especially un-nerving (for me particularly) when you get inappropriate messages or those typed in 'teenage style' text speak and how individuals reply to this. Especially when they're from someone you don't want to upset!
kiss LG. x
One thing that gets up our nose are friends requests from people we have never spoken with.
We are led to believe that some similar sites allow automatic access to private galleries to friends, and maybe this might be the motivation for some people. However as far as we have ever known the only benefit, for want of a better word, offered by SH is being able to see when each other are online.
So what's the point in claiming to be friends with someone who you never interact with?
The profiles/ads that make me smile are the ones which say "only looking for local meets", but they don't share their location details! :doh: :lol2:
What puts me off ....
1. Profiles with pics of only the female half of a couple. It's like these people think that as long as we're attracted to the female, nothing else matters!
2. "I'd like to know more ...." but when I go and look at their profile, it says absolutely nothing about them. banghead In my personal opinion, winks are lazy. If you cant be arsed to write a short message, don't bother!
3. Blank profiles.
4. People describing themselves as 'hot' (or words to that effect) in their profile text/username. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, just because you view yourself as 'hot' doesn't mean that I will agree. If you are that far up your own arse then I probably wouldn't want to meet you no matter how 'hot' you actually are!
5. Black guys asking me if I would like a 'big black cock'. To me, the colour doesn't matter (as long as it isn't green/blue/sky-blue-pink-with-yellow-polka-dots, etc.) I am not racist in any way shape or form but find that too many black guys rely on this stereotype a little too much. There is a lot more behind my decision to meet someone or not, than the colour and size of a cock.
6. Single girls who only meet with their husbands .... you are not single, get a couple's profile!!!
7. People who have clearly not read our profile and send us messages asking us for things that we have already stated that we wont do within our profile text.
and last but not least .....
8. 'Professional!' I'm sorry but WTF has your job got to do with your hobby? When I meet, I really don't give a monkey's chuff what you do for a living, how much you earn or how big your house is and when I get a message telling me this information I send a swift reply asking why I would need this information to decide if I want to fuck them!
In my opinion, these people fall into the 'up their own arse' category, along with the 'hot' people!
I know that the professional thing has been kind of done to death in this thread but I view a professional as someone who requires certain qualifications to do their job. I do fall into this category (although unfortunately I'm not loaded with a mahoosive house) but I really don't feel the need to tell everyone what I do for a living. I can hold a decent conversation but can also be as crude as the next person. I like to have a laugh and a good time on a meet, not spend the evening hearing about just how important someone is.
As far as I am concerned, I am better than no-one and no-one is better than me!
Quote by Funlovers2009
What puts me off ....
1. Profiles with pics of only the female half of a couple. It's like these people think that as long as we're attracted to the female, nothing else matters!
2. "I'd like to know more ...." but when I go and look at their profile, it says absolutely nothing about them. banghead In my personal opinion, winks are lazy. If you cant be arsed to write a short message, don't bother!
3. Blank profiles.
4. People describing themselves as 'hot' (or words to that effect) in their profile text/username. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, just because you view yourself as 'hot' doesn't mean that I will agree. If you are that far up your own arse then I probably wouldn't want to meet you no matter how 'hot' you actually are!
5. Black guys asking me if I would like a 'big black cock'. To me, the colour doesn't matter (as long as it isn't green/blue/sky-blue-pink-with-yellow-polka-dots, etc.) I am not racist in any way shape or form but find that too many black guys rely on this stereotype a little too much. There is a lot more behind my decision to meet someone or not, than the colour and size of a cock.
6. Single girls who only meet with their husbands .... you are not single, get a couple's profile!!!
7. People who have clearly not read our profile and send us messages asking us for things that we have already stated that we wont do within our profile text.
and last but not least .....
8. 'Professional!' I'm sorry but WTF has your job got to do with your hobby? When I meet, I really don't give a monkey's chuff what you do for a living, how much you earn or how big your house is and when I get a message telling me this information I send a swift reply asking why I would need this information to decide if I want to fuck them!
In my opinion, these people fall into the 'up their own arse' category, along with the 'hot' people!
I know that the professional thing has been kind of done to death in this thread but I view a professional as someone who requires certain qualifications to do their job. I do fall into this category (although unfortunately I'm not loaded with a mahoosive house) but I really don't feel the need to tell everyone what I do for a living. I can hold a decent conversation but can also be as crude as the next person. I like to have a laugh and a good time on a meet, not spend the evening hearing about just how important someone is.
As far as I am concerned, I am better than no-one and no-one is better than me!

See same as us, well except parts of number 5, I agree that some people think that a profession (fireman, soldier professional) will get them a shag without the need of anything else like personality but cannot agree about the colour only being important if they are multi-coloured and then, therefore unacceptable, Sasha has a number of psychedelic vibrators and loves them just as much as black or white willies lol
Yes single girl profiles, Sasha has one because she does meet on her own, that means without me being present in the room, not watching, not joining in, but we hate it when you click on a single girl profile and the first thing you read is "partner will watch or join in if requested"
Hot, gorgeous, stunning and all the rest ..... of course they are, everyone is hot, gorgeous and stunning to someone, but not to everyone.
There are a lot of things I have said put us off a profile, but not always to the exent that we would not contact or respond to the people, sometimes there are redeeming factors that make us look beyond the annoying things (that is annoying to us not to everyone).
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Quote by Mids
the length of time on site with no SHREP for real meets.
huge list of friends but no SHREP for meeting

There is a school of thought that would probably tell you that people who've been on the site a long time but don't use SHREP to share their conquests to all and sundry are exactly the kind of people youshould be talking to? If you value discretion that is.
I don't use SHREP and I never will. It's nonsense Mids. Long term members who've run the gauntlet as far as being accepted on here know it's bullshit. I have some concerns actually all of a sudden as to whether you're clued up enough to understand that? Reason being I go on what you have to say for yourself, not what someone I don't know from Adam has to say about you.
for once, good point lol. we get ours without it
Quote by foxylady2209
Snobbery can also come from all levels of education and backgrounds.
Pictures tell me lots about what I think the person is like too, as do their posts in the forums or their banter in the chat rooms. Yes, the way someone posts in here can be deal breaker for us or a king maker where we wouldn't normally have looked.
kiss LG. x

I do find that there is more negativity towards 'education' & ' prefessionals' from people who don't consider themselves in that group than the other way round. I am what you might call a 'highly educated professional'. But one thing that I have learned is that book-learning is bugger all to do with real life and I am nowhere near as clever as some 'uneducated' people I have met. But I have been told that people have felt intimidated - well, get me on a bed and go for my clit and you will see just irrelavent that is. biggrin I certainly don't reject sexual partners on the basis of their CV. And people from any 'level' can be ignorant and unpleasant to be with.
oh. you finaly got my point, never pre-judge any one till you meet them. and no, i will never meet you ( due to distance ect. nothing else. sounded bad )
Quote by meat2pleaseu

ABSOLUTELY as I said we are not the kind of people for them, they are way above our social standing and capacity both in what they enjoy socially and what they would enjoy discussing, I have no illusions about my education standards or abilities and am honest enough to admit it.

You might be missing out. I went to a standard comprehensive school and left with average results. I want to college and did a trade based course. One of the best people i've ever met on swinging sites was a multi millionaire, very high up lawyer who was educated at private school, occasionally socialised with royals and is basically a proper old money posh totty type wink - and we get on fantastically, chatting about a wide range of subjects with very little attention paid to any financial, social, educational or other differences between us.
I've met with people of a similar background to mine who i could happy beat senseless with a cricket bat lol
yes, you got it spot on. who is to say who is a w****r
For most of us who are put off by people who have themselves described as "Professional" it is not all about thier qualifications, it is about thier need to tell everyone, I am sure there are many professionals in swinging who never mention it, in conversation or on thier profiles, they are what they are at work and they are what they are in thier swinging lifestyle.
Those that do feel the need to tell everyone about thier qualifications fall into 3 main categories ....
Some are seeking thier peers, other professionals, people with a similar background and education level with whom they believe they will be more compatible and enjoy the same vanilla leisure time activities.
Some are up thier own arses and are not qualified in the ways of the professional but do what they consider to be a job above others and feel a need to call themselves professional, like I said my window cleaner does a very professional job of my windows, the guy who collects my bin does a very professional job of it, most Asda staff are excellent at thier jobs, they do them in a very professional way, some people use a lot of skill to do the work they do, skill, experience and dedication but it does not make them professionals in the achedemic sense of the word.
Some think that putting professional on thier profiles will get them more meets because many others put the same thing.
So it's not really about the word or the qualifications it is about the people who use it and why that puts some others off meeting them, in the same way that our very long profile puts off others.
i know lords, ladies, knights of the realm, brickies, roofers, you name it. a tosser will always be a tosser. sorry to be blunt but never judge any one till you have met them. and i don't mean in our way. we can write anything on here, it doesn't mean thats what we are or who we are. or even our pics are real. meet people, thats when you find out
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What puts me off ....
1. Profiles with pics of only the female half of a couple. It's like these people think that as long as we're attracted to the female, nothing else matters!

That's a broad brush statement. Should we really put photo's of our male half online even though we are only looking for single males to meet our fem?
Quote by Funlovers2009
5. Black guys asking me if I would like a 'big black cock'. To me, the colour doesn't matter (as long as it isn't green/blue/sky-blue-pink-with-yellow-polka-dots, etc.) I am not racist in any way shape or form but find that too many black guys rely on this stereotype a little too much. There is a lot more behind my decision to meet someone or not, than the colour and size of a cock.

We agree in principle. After all, if I walked into a bar and asked if anyone had seen a black bloke, I'd be accused of racism. So therefore it's bizarre that people reverse engineer racism when they think they will achieve something from it. However, that said, personal preferences are important and as such Mrs T prefers white guys, it's all about facial features, not colour.
Quote by Funlovers2009
7. People who have clearly not read our profile and send us messages asking us for things that we have already stated that we wont do within our profile text.

Oh boy that's infuriating, really infuriating. We often look at profiles and think 'hello, this sounds good' only to read some small niche or phrase which clearly denotes the 'target' is not looking for a meet with a couple like us. So we don't bother to make contact. Why should we? We know what we are looking for from this site, and we do't change our preferences, so why should we attempt to change someone else's? Likewise why do people that clearly don't meet our profile insist on telling us we are missing out?
Quote by Funlovers2009
8. 'Professional!' I'm sorry but WTF has your job got to do with your hobby? When I meet, I really don't give a monkey's chuff what you do for a living, how much you earn or how big your house is and when I get a message telling me this information I send a swift reply asking why I would need this information to decide if I want to fuck them!
In my opinion, these people fall into the 'up their own arse' category, along with the 'hot' people!
I know that the professional thing has been kind of done to death in this thread but I view a professional as someone who requires certain qualifications to do their job. I do fall into this category (although unfortunately I'm not loaded with a mahoosive house) but I really don't feel the need to tell everyone what I do for a living. I can hold a decent conversation but can also be as crude as the next person. I like to have a laugh and a good time on a meet, not spend the evening hearing about just how important someone is.

Quote by MidsCouple24
I agree that some people think that a profession (fireman, soldier) will get them a shag without the need of anything else like personality

I can't help but feel piqued by these statements. Is David Beckham a professional footballer? I only ask because he doesn't need any qualifications to do his job, just a talent. Is Russell crowe a professional actor? What about Cliff Richard? Professional singer or not? Philip Schofield or Holly Willabooby? Alan Sugar? The list goes on.
I totally understand the sentiment that there is a certain type of individual that feels aloof when they state they are professional, and they generally are stuck up their own arses. But there are many people who are professional who don't allow such things to cloud their own self judgement.
And yes mids, I do take your comment as an intended sideways dig. Especially after it comes a mere few posts after I posted I am a firefighter.
Just for the record, for all to see; We do not mention our careers on our profile or in or ads. Neither do we state we are 'professional' in them, but then again maybe we should, then we could be tarred with the same brush.
Oh wait... We already are.
Quote by Funlovers2009
8. 'Professional!' I'm sorry but WTF has your job got to do with your hobby? When I meet, I really don't give a monkey's chuff what you do for a living, how much you earn or how big your house is and when I get a message telling me this information I send a swift reply asking why I would need this information to decide if I want to fuck them!
In my opinion, these people fall into the 'up their own arse' category, along with the 'hot' people!
I know that the professional thing has been kind of done to death in this thread but I view a professional as someone who requires certain qualifications to do their job. I do fall into this category (although unfortunately I'm not loaded with a mahoosive house) but I really don't feel the need to tell everyone what I do for a living. I can hold a decent conversation but can also be as crude as the next person. I like to have a laugh and a good time on a meet, not spend the evening hearing about just how important someone is.

Quote by MidsCouple24
I agree that some people think that a profession (fireman, soldier) will get them a shag without the need of anything else like personality

I can't help but feel piqued by these statements. Is David Beckham a professional footballer? I only ask because he doesn't need any qualifications to do his job, just a talent. Is Russell crowe a professional actor? What about Cliff Richard? Professional singer or not? Philip Schofield or Holly Willabooby? Alan Sugar? The list goes on.
I totally understand the sentiment that there is a certain type of individual that feels aloof when they state they are professional, and they generally are stuck up their own arses. But there are many people who are professional who don't allow such things to cloud their own self judgement.
Yes but that's the sports world again isn't it, like FIFA and the FA making thier own laws and yes often with the "theatrical world", but certainly in sport it was adopted as a way of distinguishing between an amateur (someone who does not earn thier full time income from sport and often relies heavily on sponsorship) and a "professional being someone whose income comes from the sport they do (possibly in these days of advertising and endorsements no longer thier main income), the theatrical world being the same as amateur unpaid actors and paid actors, so whilst I concede your point it is not quite the same thing.
And yes mids, I do take your comment as an intended sideways dig. Especially after it comes a mere few posts after I posted I am a firefighter.
I can assure you that no sideswipe was intended, I should have read what you said before typing this but for the record where I stand ..... if you mention your trade as part of the thread or with a reason in a profile eg: do shift work with the fire service, nursing service, military etc it is not the same as "Fireman seeks fun females and couples" kinda advert, or the going to Afghanistan next week seeking a meet before I go/just got back from Afghanistan seeking single fem (for sympathy shag use the DOW board in the FPO). Then yes I do think those people are trying to substitute a respected trade for a personality or ability to project themselves as people in thier own right.
not a lot really!! profiles with no pics ,winks and pictures where behind the subject looks like they have been robbed or the house looks like its been just searched by the local drug squad,
pet hate roll of toilet tissue in the background in bedrooms ect dunno
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What puts me off ....
1. Profiles with pics of only the female half of a couple. It's like these people think that as long as we're attracted to the female, nothing else matters!

That's a broad brush statement. Should we really put photo's of our male half online even though we are only looking for single males to meet our fem?
I did say that this is what puts 'ME' off ... as you are only looking to meet a single males to meet your fem, 'I' wouldn't contact you anyway and so in answer to your question, no 'I' would not expect you to put up photo's of your male half for my benefit. However, if you were a couple, who wanted to meet us as a couple and play as a couple, I would expect to see the male half of your couple on your profile or at least in pics sent in a message to us.
Quote by Funlovers2009
5. Black guys asking me if I would like a 'big black cock'. To me, the colour doesn't matter (as long as it isn't green/blue/sky-blue-pink-with-yellow-polka-dots, etc.) I am not racist in any way shape or form but find that too many black guys rely on this stereotype a little too much. There is a lot more behind my decision to meet someone or not, than the colour and size of a cock.

We agree in principle. After all, if I walked into a bar and asked if anyone had seen a black bloke, I'd be accused of racism. So therefore it's bizarre that people reverse engineer racism when they think they will achieve something from it. However, that said, personal preferences are important and as such Mrs T prefers white guys, it's all about facial features, not colour.
Quote by Funlovers2009
7. People who have clearly not read our profile and send us messages asking us for things that we have already stated that we wont do within our profile text.

Oh boy that's infuriating, really infuriating. We often look at profiles and think 'hello, this sounds good' only to read some small niche or phrase which clearly denotes the 'target' is not looking for a meet with a couple like us. So we don't bother to make contact. Why should we? We know what we are looking for from this site, and we do't change our preferences, so why should we attempt to change someone else's? Likewise why do people that clearly don't meet our profile insist on telling us we are missing out?
Quote by Funlovers2009
8. 'Professional!' I'm sorry but WTF has your job got to do with your hobby? When I meet, I really don't give a monkey's chuff what you do for a living, how much you earn or how big your house is and when I get a message telling me this information I send a swift reply asking why I would need this information to decide if I want to fuck them!
In my opinion, these people fall into the 'up their own arse' category, along with the 'hot' people!
I know that the professional thing has been kind of done to death in this thread but I view a professional as someone who requires certain qualifications to do their job. I do fall into this category (although unfortunately I'm not loaded with a mahoosive house) but I really don't feel the need to tell everyone what I do for a living. I can hold a decent conversation but can also be as crude as the next person. I like to have a laugh and a good time on a meet, not spend the evening hearing about just how important someone is.

Quote by MidsCouple24
I agree that some people think that a profession (fireman, soldier) will get them a shag without the need of anything else like personality

I can't help but feel piqued by these statements. Is David Beckham a professional footballer? I only ask because he doesn't need any qualifications to do his job, just a talent. Is Russell crowe a professional actor? What about Cliff Richard? Professional singer or not? Philip Schofield or Holly Willabooby? Alan Sugar? The list goes on.
I totally understand the sentiment that there is a certain type of individual that feels aloof when they state they are professional, and they generally are stuck up their own arses. But there are many people who are professional who don't allow such things to cloud their own self judgement.
And yes mids, I do take your comment as an intended sideways dig. Especially after it comes a mere few posts after I posted I am a firefighter.
Just for the record, for all to see; We do not mention our careers on our profile or in or ads. Neither do we state we are 'professional' in them, but then again maybe we should, then we could be tarred with the same brush.
Oh wait... We already are.
I do understand what you are getting at here about not needing qualifications to do a job but I feel that people who write 'professional' on their profile are trying to indicate that they do have a certain level of education, status or have reached a higher level in their employment. Otherwise, couldn't they could just say that they have a job??
Either way, as I previously stated, it doesnt matter to me what they do or dont do. Having a good job, or in fact having any job is not in my criteria when arranging a meet.
I'm not sure why you feel you are being tarred with any brush. Yes you have stated your professions in this thread but not on your profile or any ads. In my book you are therefore not in the 'up my own arse' category lol
I hope I have explained myself a bit better this time.
Listing oneself as "professional" in small ads/personals in local paper or free ads used to always mean "hooker". Listing as a "businessman" was to invite response from the professionals. wink Maybe things have changed.
I guess you can say whatever you like on profile, if it puts people off then perhaps it's meant to, who knows what people are thinking when they publish these things.
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not a lot really!! profiles with no pics ,winks and pictures where behind the subject looks like they have been robbed or the house looks like its been just searched by the local drug squad,
pet hate roll of toilet tissue in the background in bedrooms ect dunno

This did make me chuckle! lol
When it comes to pictures we understand totally that some people cannot put identifiable pictures in thier public profile, I wonder why some don't put non-identifiable pics in there, faces/tattoos etc blotted out, full body shots from the rear, but each to thier own. for us pics are important, we do need to find people sexually attractive to make us feel we want to have sex with them, we understand that for many this kind of attraction is not important whatsoever, for others it is the penis size, or the age and so on.
If there are no pictures we move on, if people with no pics contact us we explain our preference to them and wish them lots of fun, no pictures or pictures of close up body parts does nothing, the only time we find it annoying is when we do explain but they come back to us saying "we do have pictures" we check again only to find they are group fun pictures and you don't know who is who or which man and woman you would actually be meeting or they are just close up pussies n cocks.
Can I ask ? does any man on here arrange a meet JUST BECAUSE he likes the look of a womans pussy whne she has a close up picture with her legs open ? or do there need to be other factors involved, (yes I know the size of some willies does attract some women which is why I ask the men only).
Quote by MidsCouple24

If there are no pictures we move on, if people with no pics contact us we explain our preference to them and wish them lots of fun, no pictures or pictures of close up body parts does nothing,
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Mids
Please have a look at our profile and see what you think :doh:
Can I ask......what would be wrong with folks verifying them selves on cam in chat?
We are quite happy to open a private room and both go on cam, which tbh......would be quicker to do than read your profile rolleyes
We have spoken to MidsCouple24(Sasha) in chat, and would presume its the female of the couple, but never seen either of you on cam.........so how do we know its Sasha?
Your profile could mean as little as ours does.........if you're not genuine wink
And for the record, judging by your posts complaining you can't get meets, we have no problem getting them :thumbup:
Whats ya theory on that one poke lol
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We have spoken to MidsCouple24(Sasha) in chat, and would presume its the female of the couple, but never seen either of you on cam.........so how do we know its Sasha?
Your profile could mean as little as ours does.........if you're not genuine wink
And for the record, judging by your posts complaining you can't get meets, we have no problem getting them :thumbup:
Whats ya theory on that one poke lol

How can it have been Sasha you spoke to, when Mids clearly states in his signature that Sasha does not use this site?
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I may not support your views or opinions but I do support your right to have them and state them, neither do I insist that you ever agree with any views or opinions I have. (Jed because Sasha does not use this site)
I tend not to bother attempting to meet people who show photos with their heads missing. more often than not there is an ugly scar on the scalp, where the brain was removed.
Where you only see body parts, these have been arranged in a mortuary. missing feet? its been a long time since WW1 but apparently Trench Foot is still around.
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We have spoken to MidsCouple24(Sasha) in chat, and would presume its the female of the couple, but never seen either of you on cam.........so how do we know its Sasha?
Your profile could mean as little as ours does.........if you're not genuine wink
And for the record, judging by your posts complaining you can't get meets, we have no problem getting them :thumbup:
Whats ya theory on that one poke lol

How can it have been Sasha you spoke to, when Mids clearly states in his signature that Sasha does not use this site?
Quote by MidsCouple24
I may not support your views or opinions but I do support your right to have them and state them, neither do I insist that you ever agree with any views or opinions I have. (Jed because Sasha does not use this site)

was going to say "we" but as j is not here, "i" agree with lilnfil in general ( don't know couple mentioned). we are out to play on thursday, sunday and one day tba. all from this site and our profile isn't the most dynamic. we vet via text.
I would like to add I the 'professional' aspect of this debate.
On our profile we have used the word 'professional' an stated that we would like to meet like minded people. This term has not been used to describe our educational/employment status or lack of! We have used the terms a a polite way to say - no chavs.
I (Mr Z) am happy to admit that I have working class root and do not associate education/employment status with class. There are plenty of rich chavs where I live. We used the 'professional' term or this reason and see it as the most appropriate and polite way to filter out chavs - regardless of background.
When we have met with other couples, they seemed to have appreciated using the professional term as it gives them confidence that we are not likely to be morons. I am therefore surprised it irks some people when our feedback for it has been positive.