getting to meet people off here, we have met 1 cool couple so far and we are eager to meet more but does this really happen?
Prehaps we are just frustrated.....lol
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Its so hard
Yes it happens yes it works and yes it takes time people need to to get to know you its a fact of life I am a single guy so I wont be meetin loads of couples or single girls but I have had so much fun. I have gone to two munches which are bloody fab places to meet and greet people so find out when one is no near you or close enough for you to get to. It will happen just wait and see.
Other word be patient, which i believe we all are. We all should understand this, swinger community it's not just about having sex with lots of people, its about friendship and having fun together. So it would take time. Hope i haven't said any thing wrong, cos most of hte time i do not really make sence and say wrong thing at the wrong place. Oh well I am still young and learning. lol.
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Other word be patient, which i believe we all are. We all should understand this, swinger community it's not just about having sex with lots of people, its about friendship and having fun together. So it would take time. Hope i haven't said any thing wrong, cos most of hte time i do not really make sence and say wrong thing at the wrong place. Oh well I am still young and learning. lol.
No worries, blade001, they sound like very wise words to me.
Very wise indeed.
Carpathian
my wife and i have only met one couple so far too but life can be a sod when four people are working and women have there problems it can be easy to think you are being messed around at the last minute. yes there are time wasters blokes making out there women etc but its just experience and confidence. ie get a cheap mobile phone so you can use that number and exchange numbers early on to see who is worth wasting time on,also just keep reading the adds and noting likely email addresses and see if they conflict with other adds and have patience its worth waiting until you find the right people, in the end a bad experience could put you of the scene completely good luck
Sex God
Lisa-Andy, if you've met one couple already, you know it works. It's true, the more people get involved the trickier it gets to arrange, especially if everyone works. Try a club, if that's your cup of tea, that might be easier.
Mod
Hi Lisa and Andy
I don't recall chatting with you on Saturday, but you will find patience and politeness works absolute miracles on here. By getting involved with the forums, you can figure out peoples personalities, whether they are genuine or not and how other people react with them. I have met quite a few people from here and none of them were through ads. They could see who I was from here, before deciding to take things further and made some really excellent friends
. If the friendship part works first, everything else will fall into place. Keep trying, you will get to meet the right people eventually - I certainly did!! :lol:
Mal
I don't recall chatting with you on Saturday, but you will find patience and politeness works absolute miracles on here. By getting involved with the forums, you can figure out peoples personalities, whether they are genuine or not and how other people react with them. I have met quite a few people from here and none of them were through ads. They could see who I was from here, before deciding to take things further and made some really excellent friends
. If the friendship part works first, everything else will fall into place. Keep trying, you will get to meet the right people eventually - I certainly did!! :lol: Mal
Sexpert
I am another poor soul who didnt get there..
I have cum across some good people in the past
, and hopefully I will cum across some more in the future if it's meant to be. 
Hopefully that munch on our side of the pennines will happen soon, Alex.
I have cum across some good people in the past
, and hopefully I will cum across some more in the future if it's meant to be. Hopefully that munch on our side of the pennines will happen soon, Alex.
Sex God
Aggghhhh, someone else I didn't talk to on Saturday! Mind you, with all the squeals of "BLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO", when people recognised me (well actually it was Kit who recognised me 
) , I couldn't possibly talk to everyone 8) 