I was ready about JADE how she has only 8 weeks to live :cry: I feel so sorry for her she is very young & she has lovely children and has gone through a lot over the last few years and with that comment on big brother ( Which I think she didn't mean)
Just makes me sad to know that she will be leaving to children behind and wont get to see them grow up and get married etc I cant even imagine what shes going through right now :cry:
She is hoping to marry jack tweed before she dies and has been wheeled around in wheel chair looking for a dress bless her even tho I do think jack is a arshole!!
On facebook some people have been great but some have been sooooo nasty why ffs and how can they be so cruel.
People think she is wrong to film her last 8 weeks or how ever long she has left and that she is wrong to make money out of it. FFS I think fair play to her its not like she is going to have the money and have a great life is it!! She is doing it for her sons and if it was me I would do the same.
So would you do the same or do you think she is wrong for doing it for money??. I think she is doing the right thing shes thinking of her sons and that's what any mother would do.
Sorry just been reading about it and think people having a go at her is so bloody out of order the poor woman wont even be here soon.
Myself is very upset for her.
Marie xxx
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I don't have any views as to how public she's making it to be honest, she's dealing with it the best way she knows how.
I feel for her and her family as I would for every other family out there dealing with cancer.
However, it does appear that she has had problems since she was 16 and pretty much ignored them so if the publicity does anything then it should be a reminder to all women to have a regular smear test done and follow up with the results.
I find myself saying the same thing I said in the other thread that people referenced
"If the end result of all this is that it turns into a rallying call for those with abnormal test results to get them to follow them up ASAP then it is worth it...
If the end result of all this is that people have a serious discussion/conversation about lowering the age for pap smear tests, then it will have been worth it.....
If the end result of all this is it helps just one person out there in the same position of denial the wake up call or the kick up the backside they need to get treatment and it saves just one life..... then I don't care what publicity she gets, it will have been worth it....."
Yes I read in the paper one girl thought she better go get a smear test to find out she has abnormal cells and is awaiting results and that's down to jade for speaking out.
Cancer is a horrid thing I lost my sister in law 2 years ago she had ovarian cancer which is harder to detect and my husband lost his friend last week with it which were going to funeral on friday but seems to be around a lot and its vary scary :cry:
But I was just horrified to see some comments that people have said about jade its just not on.
Marie xxx
I said last night to my other half that what I do find really sad is that she came from nothing to everything in a very short period of time - a real life Cinderella almost, only to have it all snatched away again :cry:
It is sad yes, but my opinion is the same as Splendid's on the other thread, we know nothing about the poor girl, know nothing about her life, her boys etc etc.,
We can empathise, sympathise, and feel sorry for her family, but what about the hundreds of other people her age, younger and older who are diagnosed each hour of each day?
That's why I kept out of the last thread.
Whatever your views or opinions on Jade as a person/celeb/whatever it's cruel for anyone to say she deserved to get it. No one DESERVES to get this dreadful disease and I hope her continuing treatment works for her.
I don't know her,she's not part of my life...i feel nothing for her!
I feel for her so much, knowing no matter what she does or says the result in weeks or months will be the same.... she wont get to see her boys 1st days at big school, 1st girlfriends or anything. She lived her life in recent years through the media and in some ways its the only way she knows how to make money. As a celeb you dont get death in service like you would as a teacher etc so as distasteful as people may think it is to be filmed being so ill she knows its the only way to be able to provide for her boys in the future.... The poor girl cant do right for doing wrong.
On a seperate note, it struck me personally how young she was to have had cancer. Until this made news I had been able to brush off my abnormal cell results. I am 29 and had my 1st abnormal result early 08, I didnt really give it much thought as a cousin had also has abnormal cells a few yrs previous and so I knew it could all turn out ok - but shortly before I had my 2nd smear to check if they were stil abnormal (6 months from the original) we all heard about Jade ... I didn't go into a panic but it hit home the real importance of getting checked. As it goes they were still abnormal and I was referred to the hospital for a review, had myself checked in December, had some cells removed in Jan and go back in July for a 6 month review .... but it just goes to show its not just older people who get cancers. If mine hadnt been detected they could have become cancer, if in doing her programme Jade makes one woman get tested then good for her.
Cervical cancer and the risk of getting it is also a very good reason to use condoms when playing, its the HPV virus that causes the abnormal cells which MAY in time become cancer. The more unprotected sexual partners you have the greater the risk you have of getting this virus.
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This and many other celeb deaths and illnesses have brought awareness. This, for me, is why it is positive for why there should be some publicity.
Jade is openly saying she is doing what she is doing for her sons,to help them have a secure future. Good on her.
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I do feel so sorry for Jade having lost both parents. I know what she and her nearest and dearest are suffering
In my opinion, Jade & everyone else out there who has been diagnosed with the big C or any other terminal illness has my whole hearted respect.
My Dad passed away after two weeks of being diagnosed with stomach cancer. It was very sudden & unexpected however looking back he would have not wanted to suffer a long drawn out painful illness.
I also know some one who has been suffering with the big C for 10 years now. The pain he suffers makes me want to cry. So in a way I'm glad my dad didn't have to go through all that.
It may be selfish on my part saying this however for a loved one to see some one suffer so close breaks my heart. My daughter remembers her Grandad as a healthy, funny man & not some one deteriorating slowly.
Jade, my respect x
