We hi to you all, a little about me. I'm 28yrs old living in Nottingham I am a Police Officer but i'm here to make new friends so no slagging off please, jokes i can take abuse i can't. Looking to find new friends due to the job i find it hard to make friends and i'm a little shy too.
So enough of me, hope to chat to you all soon. Anyone wanting to give me tips and hints please feel free to do so.
Craig
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Hi Craig
I am a single male who is now established & been accepted by couples and singles. Here’s the best advice I can give to single males trying to get established in the swinging scene…….
1. Always be open & honest about what you are looking for. No-one likes making the effort to meet someone only to find out that they are looking for different things.
2. Never say you are gonna meet someone & then not turn up. People hate timewasters.
3. Meet people just for socials if that is all they are offering. If they are impressed with you then the sex will come naturally. As I community isn’t just about sex, it’s about people just meeting up as friends too & having a relaxed meet with no pressure.
4. Be willing to go out of your way to meet people. Don’t forget……you are the one who is wanting to meet people who are already established on the swinging scene & therefore, they will not go out of their way to meet you as they already have a circle of friends who they know are genuine & easy going.
5. And probably most important DON’T EVER SEEM DESPERATE TO MEET PEOPLE. Don’t push someone to meet & if someone says no then that’s what they mean. A lot of people get put off by someone being overkeen & see it as a kind of stalking.
6. Have a look in the message boards & see what people have put into those. This will give you some sort of idea as to the kind of ad to post. And always post in every board that applies to you as this will give you more chance. (Don’t forget to keep checking them regularly too as a lot of people forget to check & miss out)
7. If you can manage a weekend off work, try going to one of the various clubs that are available all over the country or go to a open party invitation thats been posted in here. This will show people that you are genuine.
8. When filling in a section on your ad to what your looking for more information you give about your self the more your profile will stand out more people will read it and take you more seriously as you have taken more time & effort over what your looking for .
Not a lot else that I can add really apart from BE PATIENT If you keep trying and are patient then it will happen eventually. Don’t be put off by a few negative replies. I must have had hundreds of negative replies before I got my first meet. But once I got my first meet I have found it a lot easier to meet people.
I really hope this has helped.
If you need to know anything else or need more advice, then you can PM me
Marcuso
I am a single male who is now established & been accepted by couples and singles. Here’s the best advice I can give to single males trying to get established in the swinging scene…….
1. Always be open & honest about what you are looking for. No-one likes making the effort to meet someone only to find out that they are looking for different things.
2. Never say you are gonna meet someone & then not turn up. People hate timewasters.
3. Meet people just for socials if that is all they are offering. If they are impressed with you then the sex will come naturally. As I community isn’t just about sex, it’s about people just meeting up as friends too & having a relaxed meet with no pressure.
4. Be willing to go out of your way to meet people. Don’t forget……you are the one who is wanting to meet people who are already established on the swinging scene & therefore, they will not go out of their way to meet you as they already have a circle of friends who they know are genuine & easy going.
5. And probably most important DON’T EVER SEEM DESPERATE TO MEET PEOPLE. Don’t push someone to meet & if someone says no then that’s what they mean. A lot of people get put off by someone being overkeen & see it as a kind of stalking.
6. Have a look in the message boards & see what people have put into those. This will give you some sort of idea as to the kind of ad to post. And always post in every board that applies to you as this will give you more chance. (Don’t forget to keep checking them regularly too as a lot of people forget to check & miss out)
7. If you can manage a weekend off work, try going to one of the various clubs that are available all over the country or go to a open party invitation thats been posted in here. This will show people that you are genuine.
8. When filling in a section on your ad to what your looking for more information you give about your self the more your profile will stand out more people will read it and take you more seriously as you have taken more time & effort over what your looking for .
Not a lot else that I can add really apart from BE PATIENT If you keep trying and are patient then it will happen eventually. Don’t be put off by a few negative replies. I must have had hundreds of negative replies before I got my first meet. But once I got my first meet I have found it a lot easier to meet people.
I really hope this has helped.
If you need to know anything else or need more advice, then you can PM me
Marcuso
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Thanks for that, Like i said firstly i'm here to make new friends with open minded people, Don't get me wrong meeting people for some fun as well is alway a good thing but like you said this may come in time.
Thanks for your time in replying and maybe we'll chat again soon
Craig
That's no problem Craig, I think all single males have been where you are at one stage. Another way to get yourself known would be chatting in the chatroom if you have time. They are basically a good crowd and we have some real laughs in there.
See you in there soon.
Take care
Marcuso
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:welcome: 
Sex God
craig !!!
:welcome: to the site! as another single male, i can only echo every single word bi_curious_man had to say! fecking good advice!!!! you may just find it exceeds your wildest expectations, and in many other ways!!! just no arrests when people complain bout the dogging ok?????
neil x x x ;-)
:welcome: to the site! as another single male, i can only echo every single word bi_curious_man had to say! fecking good advice!!!! you may just find it exceeds your wildest expectations, and in many other ways!!! just no arrests when people complain bout the dogging ok?????
neil x x x ;-)
Warming the Bed
Hiya Craig... How ya doing mate?
There have been loads of newbies latley... I think you should host another meeting for us all
There have been loads of newbies latley... I think you should host another meeting for us all
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Dont worry i don't think i'll be doing any arresting, but i might use me cuffs
Although i must admit they do hurt.
Anyone wanting to pm me please feel free and thanks to everyone for the welcome so far
Must admit to having bruised one of my wrists once on some handcuffs
and had trouble explaining it away LOL May i just say theres some mighty fit looking females pic here, i'm going to enjoy getting to know you all. Just so you know the cuff's!!! I had a full weekend learning how to use them and i'm really not sure if fluffy stuff will be enough to make them kinky but hey, I'm willing to try :P
Sex God
A BIG WARM WELCOME from me to Craig....... 
The people here are a mad bunch, and lovely with it.......but be warned ...................nobody as yet has mentioned the A word...........................................................................................................................................ADDICTION !!!!!! phew now that I said that I'm outta here......
The people here are a mad bunch, and lovely with it.......but be warned ...................nobody as yet has mentioned the A word...........................................................................................................................................ADDICTION !!!!!! phew now that I said that I'm outta here......
Hello Craig
And a very big welcome from me too.
Join in the conversations in the Cafe and you will find that the SH community contains people from every walk of life. Not all are swingers, many are here for the social side which takes some beating I can tell you. There are some very warm and caring and honest human beings on here. They will take you for who you are and not what job you do - the majority will have no preconceptions!
So kick off your shoes, draw up a chair, get yourself a long drink - beacuse once you get chatting on here you will find it so hard to tear yourself away!
Hugs, Alex x x x x
And a very big welcome from me too.
Join in the conversations in the Cafe and you will find that the SH community contains people from every walk of life. Not all are swingers, many are here for the social side which takes some beating I can tell you. There are some very warm and caring and honest human beings on here. They will take you for who you are and not what job you do - the majority will have no preconceptions!
So kick off your shoes, draw up a chair, get yourself a long drink - beacuse once you get chatting on here you will find it so hard to tear yourself away!
Hugs, Alex x x x x
Orgasminator
Hello Craig
Love a man in a uniform xxxxx
Love a man in a uniform xxxxx
Sex God
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:welcome: to the site. I think you've come on with the right attitude TBH.
As said before. pull up a chair and have a read. And please, don't be scared to post on a thread if you've got something to say. You may get a reply, you may not. It's nothing personal if you don't. Just keep plugging away and you'll soon settle in.
:welcome: to the site. I think you've come on with the right attitude TBH.
As said before. pull up a chair and have a read. And please, don't be scared to post on a thread if you've got something to say. You may get a reply, you may not. It's nothing personal if you don't. Just keep plugging away and you'll soon settle in.
:welcome: :welcome: :welcome: :welcome: :welcome:
I'm a bit of a newbie in the forum myself hun (well i am really), and have found it great fun sooooooo far! (I go to the chatroom frequently too, although my time seems to be more split)
They are all a great bunch of people in :swingingchair: Heaven. (A bit
but fab!)
Have fun,
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
I'm a bit of a newbie in the forum myself hun (well i am really), and have found it great fun sooooooo far! (I go to the chatroom frequently too, although my time seems to be more split)
They are all a great bunch of people in :swingingchair: Heaven. (A bit
but fab!)Have fun,
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
