Can anyone help me understand? Last night I went out with a female friend of mine of many years and we ended up drinking way too much. We had a great chat about everything (including swinging, which she's curious about, but just getting her head around) and ended up having a nice long snog, but then she said that she could never sleep with me because "I was too nice".
Now this is the third time that this has happened to me in my life and I'm still a bit baffled, especially as I don't consider myself to be unusually "nice".
What exactly does it mean? Is it a gentle way of saying "I like you as a friend but there is no way I fancy you enough to drag you to bed", or is it a way of saying "I don't want to damage a valued friendship"? Or is it simply that we drank too much and ended up kissing without realising what was happening? But, on the other occasions drink wasn't a factor.
Has this happened to any other guys? I think this definitely needs the women's perspective to give an insight.
How honest do you want the answer to be? :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Maybe you should start wearing trackie bottoms, fake bling and football socks! That'll stop women thinking your nice :P
Sex with a friend works pretty well, although getting texts at 3am because they are drunk and horny can be a tad inconveniant since i dont drive :P i'd get in a taxie straight away but i live in the town centre and it would cost me a fortune :cry:
I think blokes are pretty simple beings (or maybe its just me) women are a lot more complicated....so my head is starting to hurt trying to work this one out so I'll go back to my quantum physics where I've more chance of finding answers
I think it was the drink.
"I don't want to lose you as a friend", the biggest load of sh*t going, is she saying that if she becomes your partner she won't be your friend?, your partner should be your best friend.
What she should say is " I don't fancy you and it was the drink", that's the mature thing to say, but she probably does not want to hurt your feelings.