Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login

lack of confidence

last reply
14 replies
967 views
0 watchers
0 likes
ok I`m one of those guys whose really shy in the shower ( AFTER THE GAME) because when I`m flaccid I don`t think ( know ) I`m not terribly well endowed, however when erect I`m told that I am fine, had a couple of encounters and seem to have performed ok . but its this thing when naked in front of other men. am i worrying un-necessarily?
Yes, nobody is looking at your cock when you're in the shower. Most men will look almost anywhere else than there because of the risk of being labelled 'gay' dunno
Quote by robhambledon
ok I`m one of those guys whose really shy in the shower ( AFTER THE GAME) because when I`m flaccid I don`t think ( know ) I`m not terribly well endowed, however when erect I`m told that I am fine, had a couple of encounters and seem to have performed ok . but its this thing when naked in front of other men. am i worrying un-necessarily?

I know a couple of guys who feel the same way as you. They feel that the other(possibly bigger) guy may feel superior because he is bigger. Personally i dont think they would but hey what do i know im only a girl.
Louise xx
Quote by robhambledon
ok I`m one of those guys whose really shy in the shower ( AFTER THE GAME) because when I`m flaccid I don`t think ( know ) I`m not terribly well endowed, however when erect I`m told that I am fine, had a couple of encounters and seem to have performed ok . but its this thing when naked in front of other men. am i worrying un-necessarily?

Wouldn't you be more shy if you were sporting a stonking hard-on in the shower-room??!! lol :lol: :lol:
Seriously though, a) size isn't everything b) there will always be guys with bigger or smaller cocks than you and c) "from small acorns great oak trees grow" - cocks increase in size disproportionately, in other words a guy with a flaccid 4 inches might go up to a six-incher when fully aroused whereas a guy with a flaccid 3 inches might harden up to a meaty 7 inches. You just never know!!!
In our experience men are either growers or non-growers
growers - start out with little wrinkly walnutwhip-like willies that become stiff and enlarged to very nice thank you size
and
non-growers - willy is roughly the same size wether hard or not, the only change on arousal is the direction it points
both types have within them large, medium and small varieties
and speaking personally we are far more attracted to the person than the cock. so dont worry and carry on having the showers - clean is always good.
Quote by Laff_n_Chilli
wrinkly walnutwhip-like willies

classic, a perfect description - just reminded me of one I saw recently which turned out very nice indeed!! lol wink
pink x
All fella's are different. Some sclongs that are impressive when flaccid do not actually grow when erect, rather the mast is just lifted. And others which are smaller can grow substantially when erect lol .
And of course theres the lucky buggers whos impressive sleeping micky gets even bigger when aroused.evil
But regardless, its true what they say, its not the size of the pencil its the quality of the writing that counts! cool
Friday x
Quote by Laff_n_Chilli
In our experience men are either growers or non-growers

Or as I have heard it:
Grow-ers
or
Show-ers
tc
h xx
I agree with most of the points above.
There is also the phenomenon of foreshortening: the angle you are looking down at your own penis makes it look shorter than it is.
See also:
Quote by MikeNorth
I agree with most of the points above.
There is also the phenomenon of foreshortening: the angle you are looking down at your own penis makes it look shorter than it is.
See also:

So thats what its called, I look down and can't see anything, I was blaming it on burgers and was gonna diet, but now its foreshortening I can kick the diet into touch and go large on the burgers.
Quote by curvynhorny
Or as I have heard it:
Grow-ers
or
Show-ers
tc
h xx

What about us blokes that are growers and showers..........

best marrow in show 3 years in a row (not shown in picture ;) ). :smug:
Quote by robhambledon
but its this thing when naked in front of other men. am i worrying un-necessarily?

Yes! If the ladies are happy who cares what other blokes think ....?