just browsing the site, and see some women complaining that she been away a week and on return finds many many PMs from single males that she as never spoken to before.>>>>>>>>
my question is, does this happen to all the ladies on here, it seems to me single males go through members list and just send PMs to the ladies hoping that someone is going to say Hi yes meet me and shag me!!!!
So do you all get these PMs i guess is what i wondered
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just browsing the site, and see some women complaining that she been away a week and on return finds many many PMs from single males that she as never spoken to before.>>>>>>>>
my question is, does this happen to all the ladies on here, it seems to me single males go through members list and just send PMs to the ladies hoping that someone is going to say Hi yes meet me and shag me!!!!
So do you all get these PMs i guess is what i wondered
It even happened to those who are not ladies... and the shitheads have the nerve to wonder why they get a shitty PM back - like I give a toss what they think
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Even I got one from a guy who thought I was a couple! Couple of what, you might ask? :shock:
Mal
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Quote by mal609
Couple of what, you might ask? :shock:
Couple of bollocks maybe? :grin:
Hi Jameson 
If you're referring to my earlier post, my main beef was that the PMs were pretty much "wanna shag" posts although I frequent the Doggers forum and my voyeuristic preferences are clearly stated! (aren't profiles great?)
Of course I have no issue in getting PMs from people who actually want to chat (and love getting them from people I've already gotten to know)....I just don't get the sense of the oneliners, like Blue says, the need to send back shitty oneliners is growing!
If you weren't referring to my post.....oops!
Serendipity :color:
If you're referring to my earlier post, my main beef was that the PMs were pretty much "wanna shag" posts although I frequent the Doggers forum and my voyeuristic preferences are clearly stated! (aren't profiles great?)
Of course I have no issue in getting PMs from people who actually want to chat (and love getting them from people I've already gotten to know)....I just don't get the sense of the oneliners, like Blue says, the need to send back shitty oneliners is growing!
If you weren't referring to my post.....oops!
Serendipity :color:
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OK, here's just some of the crap I've received recently:
"can i kiss ur body and be ur slave"
Errrrrr...... I let him answer that one :shock:
And this..........
hi blue, XXXXX here from XXXXXX, have u a mate i can take or do u know any single women"
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
And this, froma total chancer.....
"i was wondering if ever you allowed str8 males to join you?or while hubby is playing would you like to watch him while you have a male the same time?i am 100% str8 but ok with men doing there thing while i play with the lady please let me know thanks"
At least he said thanks :roll:
And, I have no idea what this following one is about, but I assume they think I'ma geezer, so I guess guys get shit PMs too!
"read the add there will be on carpark full of sad old gets like you. lol as the female of the couple speaks to my wife to be told where it would be we have done it 4 times before and it was a big hit .so if all you can do is slag couples off for trying why r u on this site."
If you recognise your own writing amongst any of that lot.... oh, the shame!
"can i kiss ur body and be ur slave"
Errrrrr...... I let him answer that one :shock:
And this..........
hi blue, XXXXX here from XXXXXX, have u a mate i can take or do u know any single women"
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
And this, froma total chancer.....
"i was wondering if ever you allowed str8 males to join you?or while hubby is playing would you like to watch him while you have a male the same time?i am 100% str8 but ok with men doing there thing while i play with the lady please let me know thanks"
At least he said thanks :roll:
And, I have no idea what this following one is about, but I assume they think I'ma geezer, so I guess guys get shit PMs too!
"read the add there will be on carpark full of sad old gets like you. lol as the female of the couple speaks to my wife to be told where it would be we have done it 4 times before and it was a big hit .so if all you can do is slag couples off for trying why r u on this site."
If you recognise your own writing amongst any of that lot.... oh, the shame!
Quote by bluexxx
"read the add there will be on carpark full of sad old gets like you. lol as the female of the couple speaks to my wife to be told where it would be we have done it 4 times before and it was a big hit .so if all you can do is slag couples off for trying why r u on this site."
If you recognise your own writing amongst any of that lot.... oh, the shame!
Recognise it? I don't even understand it! Can someone provide a translation?
yes it was your post that got me thinking, I suppose this sort of site will always attract those who think that you come on line PM someone and that night your shagging them..... OH if only!!!!!!!!!!!!!
still suppose not much can be done about it, suppose them sort will only be on short term and gone but problem being so many comin and going everyday. C'est la vie
still suppose not much can be done about it, suppose them sort will only be on short term and gone but problem being so many comin and going everyday. C'est la vie
Quote by foxylady 123
Ive had some corkers recently. Best one was this morning some one In, never heard of before, pms me with his telephone number!!!
Really :crazy:
Curses. On my list of "things to do today, urgent" was an item that read: Send a PM to that stunning chick with the amazing ass telling her your phone number (it's bound to get you a shag).
Guess I'll have to cross it off now. Oh, the disappointment!
It hasn't been as bad for me on this site but on another I get the same couple of guys sending me exactly the same message each time. They obviously just go through every females ads over and over again sending the same thing. Pisses me off cos I think oooo a new message then it's that twat I sent a thanks but no thanks to last week!
ops: 
now theres a thought. :shock: .................. Debs goes off to pm him back 
Quote by foxylady 123
Ive had some corkers recently. Best one was this morning some one In, never heard of before, pms me with his telephone number!!!
Really :crazy:
Surely he must have realised that you publish all of your PM's verbatum in the Cafe??
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Now i know i'm really new on here but sending random PM's just seems really sad and desperate, why dont people take the time to get to know people by joining in and reading the forums thats what i'm trying to do, Patience is a virtue and a bit of dignety goes along way too.
My 2 pence worth
Phil
My 2 pence worth
Phil
