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Lap Dance Clubs (for women)

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Woooohooo just watching Las Vegas on Sky One and the girlies are out at a Lap Dance club.
I'd love to go to a proper lap dance club in the UK but ......
a) are there any primarily aimed at women?
b) anyone know of any that aren't sleazy and that i'm not going to be the only female (bar dancers)in there?
We've one here in Derby but it's right on the main drinks drag and I'd not be comfortable with somewhere local. I hate being the focal point of anything necessarily so don't fancy having a load of men gawping at me for being the only female customer in the club IYKWIM.
C x
I don't know of any for women - but if you find one..... arrange a night out there please :twisted:

This should do it smile
If not then I'll happily do it myself wink biggrin
Haven't been to one anywhere in England yet, but in the states, most clubs are very welcoming to women, from topless to full nude to go-go.
And the dancers love to perform and/or give lap dances to women. (my friend is a former stripper so I have heard from some authority)
Can't imagine there would be much difference over here?
I suppose there is absolutely no real point to my replying... but I am checking out a strip club on sunday near us, shall I let you know what it was like?
xxx
ms okcy
I've gotta be the only woman in the world that doesn't like these dancing men confused Really does nothing for me other than make me feel embarrassed for them :?
I remember the hey day of the Chippendales, urgh it revolted me :? blokes dancing about all oily and greasy, stroking themselves with that "I am fucking gorgeous, just look how gorgeous I am, look at me ......... oooh hold on, just saw myself and WOW I must stroke myself more, bet you wish you could get a bloke half as gorgeous as me don't you" look in their eyes. rolleyes
Not a sexist thing here either, cos not overly keen on the whole lap dancing club thing, whether it male or female. That "pay me money, I will dance and stroke myself so you can look and appreciate how gorgeous I am" attitude.
I'm saying all this tho - I have never seen male or female dancers so could well be, in fact, probably entirely wrong. I just don't like the shallow concept behind it all, it's enough to keep me away. :?
Misschief - kiljoy :?
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I've gotta be the only woman in the world that doesn't like these dancing men confused

One of two wink
Now dancing women :twisted:
I'm not the biggest fan of male "strippers" either Misschief, so I'm right with you there .... I was thinking more along the lines of female dancers (I don't care less if they actually get all their full kit off either.
Male lap dancers would be fine but I want to go watch not be sleazed on LOL
C x
Quote by MISSCHIEF
I've gotta be the only woman in the world that doesn't like these dancing men confused Really does nothing for me other than make me feel embarrassed for them :?
I remember the hey day of the Chippendales, urgh it revolted me :? blokes dancing about all oily and greasy, stroking themselves with that "I am fucking gorgeous, just look how gorgeous I am, look at me ......... oooh hold on, just saw myself and WOW I must stroke myself more, bet you wish you could get a bloke half as gorgeous as me don't you" look in their eyes. rolleyes
Not a sexist thing here either, cos not overly keen on the whole lap dancing club thing, whether it male or female. That "pay me money, I will dance and stroke myself so you can look and appreciate how gorgeous I am" attitude.
I'm saying all this tho - I have never seen male or female dancers so could well be, in fact, probably entirely wrong. I just don't like the shallow concept behind it all, it's enough to keep me away. :?
Misschief - kiljoy :?

Well that serves me right for getting on my high horse and not reading the thread properly :roll: redface surprisedops:
Thought you were on about men dancing clubs, oops!
But either way, still don't like the concept behind it, whatever the sex of the dancers lol
Sorry, as you were, just ignore my completely irrelevant posts rotflmao Sorry!
ooh. I meant clubs with women dancers.
and that's where i'm headed on sunday. never been to a club with male strippers... I'm afraid it just doesn't do it for me, except if I needed a really good laugh. (whenever I think of male dancers/strippers I think of the SNL chippendales sketch with patrick swayze and chris farley...)
I know a nightclub down here in London that has male strippers,its in Streatham!
Nowadays you see women at such clubs normally as couples. First many are very smart and not sleazy. Me my friends and colleagues have spent £000' in one evening on drinks girls and tips. Most of my experience has been via corporate hospitality. It can be very pleasant if the company is right. I even been and not had a private dance. I would say give it ago but it can be a very expensive night if your not carefull
tazman
Well that serves me right for getting on my high horse and not reading the thread properly icon_ icon_ icon_
Thought you were on about men dancing clubs, oops!
But either way, still don't like the concept behind it, whatever the sex of the dancers lol
Sorry, as you were, just ignore my completely irrelevant posts Sorry!

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I've gotta be the only woman in the world that doesn't like these dancing men confused

One of two wink
Now dancing women :twisted:
Yep like dancing women :twisted: .......... better then men............ dont ask me why dunno
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This should do it smile
If not then I'll happily do it myself wink biggrin

I'll take that as a no, then :)
Quote by Calista
I'd love to go to a proper lap dance club in the UK but ......
a) are there any primarily aimed at women?
b) anyone know of any that aren't sleazy and that i'm not going to be the only female (bar dancers)in there?
C x

Are we talking women for women, or men for women? There's one in my home town where women customers are welcome (and I know some women who have been there and had a great time), but the lapdancers are also women.
Mike.
Calista there are two in Sheffield where women are welcomed.
My friend Vicky has been a couple of times.......
I'd lovvvvvvvvvvvvveee to go so if ever you are out and about round here then shout
And La Chambre is just over the road too :twisted:
Cathy x
Quote by MISSCHIEF
I've gotta be the only woman in the world that doesn't like these dancing men confused Really does nothing for me other than make me feel embarrassed for them :?

It's not just you Misschief, I went to a lapdance club in Vegas on a hen weekend. The club had male dancers upstairs, it was definitely not arousing, just funny..the only good bit was when the (very tasty) dancer told me to slap his arse, I left the biggest and reddest handprint on him :twisted:
A fun way to waste $20 but not a turn on, I'd probably have have done better downstairs with the female dancers!
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Calista there are two in Sheffield where women are welcomed.
My friend Vicky has been a couple of times.......
I'd lovvvvvvvvvvvvveee to go so if ever you are out and about round here then shout
And La Chambre is just over the road too :twisted:
Cathy x

oooh will have to arrange something .. Sheffield isn't too far away from here smile Might feel less conspicuous with a couple of females :) :)
I'll pm you tomorrow :twisted:
C x
ive been to male stripper night s
just a good night out with the girlies
but not sexy at all
female lap dancers are sooooooooo much more sexy
We've been to our local club a couple of times now and had a really enjoyable evening. All the girls we have chatted to have been very nice.
They have started to do ladies nigghts once a month now where they have male dancers in for the evening.
There's a girly (lesbian/bi) club in London, which has female erotic dancers / pole dancers / strip show.
Meant to be a bit different in that it's by women for women, but never been so don't know how good it is.
Quote by Calista
Calista there are two in Sheffield where women are welcomed.
My friend Vicky has been a couple of times.......
I'd lovvvvvvvvvvvvveee to go so if ever you are out and about round here then shout
And La Chambre is just over the road too :twisted:
Cathy x

oooh will have to arrange something .. Sheffield isn't too far away from here smile Might feel less conspicuous with a couple of females :) :)
I'll pm you tomorrow :twisted:
C x
Errrrrr... pwease don't forget me! :twisted:
Wibbly
xx
Quote by WibblyWobbly
Calista there are two in Sheffield where women are welcomed.
My friend Vicky has been a couple of times.......
I'd lovvvvvvvvvvvvveee to go so if ever you are out and about round here then shout
And La Chambre is just over the road too :twisted:
Cathy x

oooh will have to arrange something .. Sheffield isn't too far away from here smile Might feel less conspicuous with a couple of females :) :)
I'll pm you tomorrow :twisted:
C x
Errrrrr... pwease don't forget me! :twisted:
Wibbly
xx
Oii, don't forget me either,
I can see a Sheffield night out coming on :twisted:
We went to one not that long ago, not sleazy and had no problem with women in fact women get in half price...
Chris
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is that the Candy Bar?

Yes it is ocky.
Count me in too if this is a girlie night, will try and make it if somethings arranged! lol
Quote by mistress_sassy
is that the Candy Bar?

Yes it is ocky.
I've heard a lot about that, only good things....it's supposed to be a LOT of fun, and girls only.
Thinking it's time I checked it out in person...
Quote by ockysweeties
is that the Candy Bar?

Yes it is ocky.
I've heard a lot about that, only good things....it's supposed to be a LOT of fun, and girls only.
Thinking it's time I checked it out in person...
Women watching lap dancing women ... ooo-err :twisted:
ps: Your 69th hug ... was me :-)
Quote by mistress_sassy
There's a girly (lesbian/bi) club in London, which has female erotic dancers / pole dancers / strip show.
Meant to be a bit different in that it's by women for women, but never been so don't know how good it is.

I think you're talking about rude girls - my girlfriend's been with a couple of her mates. She says she found it a bit much but then she was taken there with no warning and suddenly all these girls started getting nekkid. She didn't say she wouldn't go again though!