Well after a few eventful meets and meeting some good friends the time is right to leave swinging heaven for good!!!
You ask why!!!
An unknown person on swinging heaven has decided to print all our pictures off our profile and is know asking for money and if we dont give it him within 7 days hes going to publish the pictures to neighbours work collegues and make life very hard for us
We came on swinging heaven to have fun and not to be blackmailed so the person who is doing this i hope you are proud to every couple on here my advice is do not put any pics on your profile just leave them in your private album
We did not put face pics on here or we didnt even use our real names so we were careful but with threats to do this is not a nice feeling facebook closed twitter closed and now sh has to go thanks everyone its been fun
you do know blackmail is illeagle in any shape or form and carries a hefty prison sentance if thier going to ruin your life
then ruin thiers get the police involved
i had a similar problem with someone from here and i went to the police for advice and help, they were very good so i sugest you do that
If you didn`t put face pics on and didn`t use your real names how is this person going to make others believe its you, plus the fact this person has obviously been having a good mooch through SH doors himself/herself
OMG!! Thats horrible!! :eeek:
Do you know who this person is?? If not the police would surely be able to find out through their IP address??
I would take everyone elses advice and get the police involved.
I will seriously think about moving our pics! This just proves that not everyone here is here for fun!
Let admin sort it,raise a support ticket or mail me .
having done SH and such like; where else can you go now?
ya daft bugger!
anyway it's not that bad. anyone who uses the internet, social networking etc. comes across material such as this untold times, so i don't think they are going to be that interested for too long.
you may have to live down a period of embarrassment but it will pass over soon enough.
call the blackmailer's bluff, I expect nothing more will happen.
maybe its an out of work NOTW hacker.
So now you're famous!
No you can't put sliced tomato on top, it ruins a good quiche that!
I cant think of a food I dislike more than a cooked salad tomato.
Hope you get it sorted out. Not sure how you got blackmailed but if it's via SH account then SH should be able to help out re where the message came from. If from email, then you could trace via (as someome mentioned) IP via Internet Service Providers and/or Police. Go get them - best of luck!
Sounds delish, I love those sweet baby plums cooked too.
I'm not sure what to make of this but if it is a real life situation not an attention seeking post (because there are some really weird people kicking about)then i feel for you.
However, there are a few massive holes in the information you have given.
If it was someone unknown then think through the people you have met who actually know who you are via the site, as this is the first solution.
The fact that they posted it through your door or sent it via royal mail shows they know your address, have you had swinging meets at your house or been followed home after a meet up?
Another option and one that people often dont realise is that if you use a wireless connection or dongle to log onto the internet people in your wireless broadband signal strength area can log onto your connection and see what you are looking at online, they would have to be close. This maybe a disgruntled neighbour who happened upon nicking your unlocked wireless connection to use the internet and saw you using swinging heaven and therefore had access to your account while you were online opn the site.
There are various ways this could have transpired if it is actually happeneing but cancelling all your accounts on fb twitter SH etc is pointless, the damage is done in terms of getting useable balckmail material.
The police will find it diffiult to trace them as they have left no electronic forensics unless they have contacted you by email or phone. They may be able to get DNA or finger prints from letters but that is if the person is on the DNA database.
How did they ask for payment? this could be key and central to how to trace them get in touch via PM if you want any help I work in this sort of sector and may be able to provide some asistance to the local police force if they want to pursue the case.
Cooked tomatoes have good cancer preventing properties. I love a good fried tomato but it has to be very fried :twisted: Almost to the point its falling apart, great with traditional fried breakie.