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My wife (Rachel) asked me why do men always say - for example "Why do men alway say I have a 9" cock and its thick" when what she really wants to know is how thick his cock is. Rachel says women feel girth more in most cases than length, sometimes men can be to long for comfort.
Oh and don't forget what girth is lol wrap a tape measure round the base of the cock not to be confused with diameter for example 6" girth would = " Diameter
I can hear the jokes to this question already I'm being a dickhead :lol:
Answers on a postcard please wink
paul....not sure about either....but I have a 6 inch tongue and can breath through my ears !!!! lol
Never really understood why women want to know either, unless it is to avoid the extreme in either small or large, I don't ask women "how big is your fanny" although some do have what can only be described as a "bucket fanny".
I do know most women get more pleasure from girth than from length and that there is more chance of taking a good girth than a very long length to it's fullest, it also helps if it can hit the sides wink
In truth the more important body bit here is the brain, first last and always, all the size and girth in the world doesn't help if it is attached to the guys forehead, what he does with it and the rest of his abilities is more important. By the same token someone with small length or girth can use other techniques to pleasure a woman to the same extent as "size gifted" men.
It is a bit like Big Boobs v Small Boobs, most men love to see a nice cleavage but when it comes to playing with them the smaller boobs seem more popular, more manageable, more firm lol many women feel the same about willies, a champion specimen can look good and excite the mind but many like the feel of balls n hips slapping against their bottom and that cannot always happen if the guy is too long.
Staying power is also another aspect that can be more important than actual size.
All that said I still get people in chatrooms asking me "ASL" which I know means "Actual Size and Length" :twisted:
Everyones tastes and bodies are different - thank god!
Some women actually prefer average cocks over anything special, and technique is high up on the list for any woman. Most important of all is that mental spark.
And then there is the question of what type of fun we are talking about - oral, anal or virginal? lol
It's easier to measure the length of things than the diameter, and most people tend to ask about length rather than width.
On the internet men mostly work by internet inches, which are basically double what real life inches are. BTW I have a 12 inch cock. Maybe you would me to send you proof by sending you a cockshot taken using a wide angled lense taken at a very advantageous angle? lol
The Point I was making is why men don't measure their girth while they have a tape measure in there hands.
The other way to measure it is to see which will wrap round your cock a £5, £10, or £20 note wink and if your broke forget it lol
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paul....not sure about either....but I have a 6 inch tongue and can breath through my ears !!!! lol

Now Now Dean don't tease Rachel you know she has a soft spot for you wink :wink:
I am poor so cant use a £5 note or any other note but I know my girth is big because I could afford a postage stamp and that only just fits round it.
Gifted or what lol
The easiest way to measure girth with a piece of string then put the string against a tape measure to see the answer
When measuring length tape at the top not the bottom, ie only the bit that can penetrate no underneath back to the balls because you cannot penetrate to that depth, on average take 2" off what anyone says about their length. like women take £20 off the price tag of shoes or dresses they buy :lol:
Its amazing what you can do with a piece of string wink . I found and interesting study about cock size, very scientific but also very educating, all is not how it would seem to us men on what women like. 100 women took part in the study, Rachel said she wished she was one of them lol
I wonder how many people would guess the length & Girth the women most liked??
I never think of measuring my cock when erect as my mind is normally otherwise engaged. If I was being intimate with someone, I would find it a bit off-putting that they would suddenly produce a tape measure or a bit of string. Perhaps I am not kinky enough...lol
I am not actually clear about my 'size' I always say I am average (about 6") though one partner I had insisted I was big!??!