paul....not sure about either....but I have a 6 inch tongue and can breath through my ears !!!! lol
Everyones tastes and bodies are different - thank god!
Some women actually prefer average cocks over anything special, and technique is high up on the list for any woman. Most important of all is that mental spark.
And then there is the question of what type of fun we are talking about - oral, anal or virginal? lol
It's easier to measure the length of things than the diameter, and most people tend to ask about length rather than width.
On the internet men mostly work by internet inches, which are basically double what real life inches are. BTW I have a 12 inch cock. Maybe you would me to send you proof by sending you a cockshot taken using a wide angled lense taken at a very advantageous angle? lol
I never think of measuring my cock when erect as my mind is normally otherwise engaged. If I was being intimate with someone, I would find it a bit off-putting that they would suddenly produce a tape measure or a bit of string. Perhaps I am not kinky enough...lol
I am not actually clear about my 'size' I always say I am average (about 6") though one partner I had insisted I was big!??!