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While we're all in here laughing and whingeing and philosophising and chatting and flirting and arguing and talking bollox and escaping from 'out there' and doing whatever it is we come here for, there's a few people in the background who we tend to overlook.
It's easy to take Swinging Heaven for granted because all we perceive is a well-oiled machine that's just... well... there!
We probably don't think much about the time and effort that went into putting the whole thing together in the first place, or the huge task taken on by those generous few who've chosen to donate their time to keep it all running smoothly without asking for any reward.
Out of curiosity, I did some Googling to compare SH with other sites like it - what's the biggest, the most active, the most accessible, the best run etc site of this kind?
And what I found is that there are no other sites of this kind, not really. Not just in this country, but anywhere in the world! Nowhere could I find another website that offers everything we take for granted here absolutely free. Nowhere could I find another lifestyle site of this kind with a real community.
And nowhere could I find another site of this magnitude created and run not for popularity or praise, or personal gain or power, but purely out of genuine generosity, a desire to help people enjoy themselves, and a deep philosophical commitment to everyone's freedom.
It has, of course, its ups and downs, and like many others I resign myself to what I see as an obvious fact that any large community will have its occasional clashes, but lately I've been thinking - the shapers and movers behind the scenes must sometimes stare incredulously at the screen wondering why they bother.
Theirs is a largely thankless task, and I for one have never taken the time to properly express my appreciation for all that Mark and Helen and the team have done, and continue to do, for all of us.
I know they don't do it for recognition, but I want to recognise them anyway. Mark has often said that SH is what all of us make it, and that's very true, but it's equally true that without him and the 'Heavenly Helpers', there'd be no SH for the rest of us to make.
So I want to say, and I hope you will join me, a very sincere Thank You Very Much, to Mark and to Helen and to all the Mods for all that they have given us. The site is appropriately named, because it truly is run by Angels.
From the bottom of my heart, I thank you all.
Ice
Hear hear, Ice. Good point, well made. I wholeheartedly agree.
:cheers: Hear Hear!!!! I'm only newish to the site but well done to those who made it, it's an excellent site with everything you could possibly need! Thank you to all those who make it possible for us dirty naughty people to get together and shag each others brains out hump :mrgreen:
People in society today are often far to quick to complain and slow to praise. We would like to add our thanks to the list for all those who make this site not only possible but such good fun and at times thought provoking.
The Lady and I have, hopefully, made friends that we otherwise would not have so easily met had it not been for this site.
So a huge big thank you to all involved in keeping this running so smoothly but also to those regular contributors to the forum and especially to those who have made us both feel so welcome......you know who you are kiss passionkiss
LadyFeeBee and the Laird
Absolutely!
In the computing world, you get used to nobody saying anything when things are running smoothly, but the complaints certainly start flying when something goes wrong!
I would also like to add my praise and thanks to Mark, and everyone else who helps to keep the site running as well as it does.
A good job, well done!
-Phil.
WELL SAID thanks to all in volved who make this site possible passionkiss
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luv sexyann xx
Anyone else have a secret crush on Mark as our benevolant overlord?
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Good post ice, I agree with everything you said, but I would like to add...............ummm............ I agree! lol
A little quote from the 'this is a free site' page, if people are feeling generous:
Occasionally people offer to pay us money. They also suggest we should make Swinging Heaven a pay-for site. To them we say this, not across the top of the site, but here, where only people who've bothered to read this far can see - we actually are the busiest Swinging site in the UK, and it's simple to see why. Everything is open and free and you'll find yourself surrounded by people who actually care, including us. So, to repeat, we don't want to make this a pay-for site and never will. As for paying us 'donations'; just think how much you'd like to give us and then, instead, put it towards a charity of your choice. If you'd like to put it towards a charity that we support then try the Outsiders Trust .
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To the powers that be for an excelent comunity.
Well said Ice. :thumbup:
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Anyone else have a secret crush on Mark as our benevolant overlord?
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If I admitted to that it would no longer be a secret!!! redface
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Anyone else have a secret crush on Mark as our benevolant overlord?
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If I admitted to that it would no longer be a secret!!! redface
same here surprisedops: :oops:
Nice one Ice totally agree...Hats off to the SH team .....
well OK then ... everything off for the SH team !!!! lol :lol:
Bleeding hell.
It's always the elusive ones that get the attention dunno rotflmao
"hear, all ye good people, hear what this brilliant and eloquent speaker has to say!"

I agree with the honourable pointy nosed Member from London.
Eloquently put Arnold and puts a lot of stuff into perspective... and there I was thinking you were going to post about Rememberance Sunday judging from your subject line. smile
Thank you Mark et all.
That outsiders site is fab, I know a couple of people who might be interested to join, although they may be a bit shocked to find where i got the link lol!
Couldnt agree more with those sentiments Ice
my thanks to you all lol
love and repect to u all you are top quality
Could not have said better ourself's
THANK YOU SH biggrin
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love and repect to u all you are top quality

Too fecking right we are, but who let you in??? :shock: lol :twisted:
Quote by Ice Pie
While we're all in here laughing and whingeing and philosophising and chatting and flirting and arguing and talking bollox and escaping from 'out there' and doing whatever it is we come here for, there's a few people in the background who we tend to overlook.

What are you talking about??
Theses 'computational thingamyjigs' just sort themselves out.
Dont they...?????? wink :wink:
Dxxx
ps Just like to say thats a joke before I get hung,drawn,quatered and worst of all banned!!! :wink:
thanx ,it is a truly remarkable site kiss
Hats off to Mark and the rest of the Mods....! worship :worship: :worship: :worship: