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Levels of blokes being bi..

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.. prompted by the Closet Bi Guys thread smile
I wondered, are there different levels of a bloke being bi that still allow him to almost still fit into the straight box and therefore feel good about it?
See, I'd put male:male rimming right up there at the top end of the scale as I know some downright filthy bi blokes who will only do that when they are really, really, really revved up! But then others would class male:male kissing in the same way but would have no issue licking a man's arse! (sorry, no other way to say it!) ;-)
I've put down a few below:
- Will meet another bloke 1:1
- Will only entertain cock with female involvement
- Will suck cock with female help
- Will suck cock alone like a greedy whore
- Will wank a bloke off
- Will eat cum and like it
- Will rim another bloke
- Will kiss another bloke, big, blokey, tonguey, man kisses!
- Will fuck another bloke like he paid for it
- Will get fucked until their teeth chatter (or fall out!)
- Will massage another bloke
- Will cuddle another bloke
... are there any others I've missed and where do they feature on the/your scale.. or in your fantasies I guess?
x
Ohhhhh - good thread BIoke. I shall let *Him* speak for himself (for once lol ) though
*Her*
Thanks for your permission Her :P lol
I guess still being at the "curious" L-plate (or V, whichever you prefer!) stage and having had bugger all experience aside from a very brief handjob, it's kinda hard to say from a personal perspective.
I can understand where you're coming from though BIoke. I've heard people talking on the subject before and it does seem that there are guys that consider themselves straight, but will entertain different levels of man on man contact.
Would it be too annoying to just put it down to the "rich tapestry of life" and to try to work out what I enjoy? Think I'll ease myself in gently to begin with...
I'm going to stop now - FAR to many double entendres in this reply....
*Him*
i cant even comment am way too busy drooling over blokes avatar :twisted:
I think there are other levels, at least for me.
I have straight on my profile as I would not do any of your list with a male, that looks like a male, but would do all of the list with a convincing pre-op tarnasexual (Shemale/ladyboy)
So not sure where I fall dunno
*Mr Bluefish*
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I think there are other levels, at least for me.
I have straight on my profile as I would not do any of your list with a male, that looks like a male, but would do all of the list with a convincing pre-op tarnasexual (Shemale/ladyboy)
So not sure where I fall dunno
*Mr Bluefish*

That's like a hairy spider that dresses in ladies clothes yeah? :rascal:
Great point :thumbup: I'd completely overlooked the TV/CD/TS dynamic here...
I suppose it works the same for women too. I dabble occasionally in the bi thing - there are things I am very comfortable doing with women and some which would be more heat of moment.
Interesting...
Im glad you brought up the female side of things Nola, cause I dont consider myself to be bi, but I also dont consider myself to be straight. There are somethings I would just love to do with another girl, but there are other things which would have me running to the hills. Also, it would depend on the situation and if it was just girl on girl, or if it was part of a couple/group thing.
Also, going back to the male side of things, what about males who 'touch' another male as part of a threesome situation, prossibly if the girl is giving them both oral at the same time, penis touches penis. Does this make them bi in some form or other? What about double penetration, cock touch cock, does that count?
Great thread Bloke and certainly got me thinking wink
It is a good thread.
I consider myself to be a strait woman yet I do like kissing women and touching boobs and sucking nipples but I don`t feel this makes me bi or even curious, and I have let women have oral sex with me but I don`t think I could be the one doing the licking for them, so I`m not sure what I am dunno
I can see you missed is 'will be sucked off by a man' & the closely related 'will be wanked off by a man'
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Im glad you brought up the female side of things Nola, cause I dont consider myself to be bi, but I also dont consider myself to be straight. There are somethings I would just love to do with another girl, but there are other things which would have me running to the hills. Also, it would depend on the situation and if it was just girl on girl, or if it was part of a couple/group thing.
Also, going back to the male side of things, what about males who 'touch' another male as part of a threesome situation, prossibly if the girl is giving them both oral at the same time, penis touches penis. Does this make them bi in some form or other? What about double penetration, cock touch cock, does that count?
Great thread Bloke and certainly got me thinking wink

Personally, I think this would only count if the guy gets something from it. Cocks are bound to touch during dp or a sword fight in someones mouth but the guy may be getting off from the whole 'dirty bird' experience rather than his cock touching another.
As for the girl thing ... I describe myself as bi-selective. I will play with girls and do pretty much anything with them but the girl/mood/time/place has to be right. When I do it, I do it for my pleasure (and of course the other girl's pleasure). I won't do it just because guys like to watch and to be honest, Mr Fun has seen it that many times that the novelty has kind of worn off!! So I am way past the curious stage but wouldn't necessarily consider myself to be bi. Bi-selective isnt an option on profiles though!! lol
We have been to swinging clubs over many years and I have never ever seen any guy on guy play.
It is just not acceptable in a social environment. Even though a lot of guys we have met confess that they have had male to male contact of some description.
Also a few of the couples we have met the guy also admits to " playing " in some capacity with another guy.
So if it is as widespread as I think it is why do guys continue to either deny it, or keep it hidden?
Is it still really that socially unacceptable even in the swinging scene?
I guess it is. You only have to look at the chat rooms to see that the bi/gay chat room is nearly always full....that must tell you something?
It is just not acceptable still unless of course in private circumstances. lol
Well have heard it all on here now.
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We have been to swinging clubs over many years and I have never ever seen any guy on guy play.
It is just not acceptable in a social environment. Even though a lot of guys we have met confess that they have had male to male contact of some description.
Also a few of the couples we have met the guy also admits to " playing " in some capacity with another guy.
So if it is as widespread as I think it is why do guys continue to either deny it, or keep it hidden?
Is it still really that socially unacceptable even in the swinging scene?
I guess it is. You only have to look at the chat rooms to see that the bi/gay chat room is nearly always full....that must tell you something?
It is just not acceptable still unless of course in private circumstances. lol

Good points Mr Kents.
In the same way, when a thread like this gets posted you know females will always be happy to post and reveal whereas there are very, very few blokes who feel comfortable doing it. There is obviously still prejudice, even in this kind of environment.
Oh and brucie.. yes, I call it the 'he who shouts loudest' syndrome. I've seen similar behaviour from 'straight' blokes at Dogging sites. Only to see the same blokes with their cock in a TV's mouth later on when they think nobody is watching innocent
There was one particular user on here who used to have a pop at my 'gay/bi-ness' every time I posted a couple of years back, particularly in the Dogging section of forum. The day I found him in the bi room he told me he was lost and had 'got stuck in there' lol
Quote by brucie
I've seen similar behaviour from 'straight' blokes at Dogging sites.

whats a nice boy like you doing in a dogging site?...
Things he really shouldn't be doing with nice men like you mostly... lol
Quote by BIoke
I've seen similar behaviour from 'straight' blokes at Dogging sites.

whats a nice boy like you doing in a dogging site?...
Things he really shouldn't be doing with nice men like you mostly... lol
:laughabove::laughabove:
- Will meet another bloke 1:1
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- Will suck cock with female help
- Will suck cock alone like a greedy whore
- Will wank a bloke off
- Will eat cum and like it
- Will rim another bloke
- Will kiss another bloke, big, blokey, tonguey, man kisses!
- Will fuck another bloke like he paid for it
- Will get fucked until their teeth chatter (or fall out!)
- Will massage another bloke
- Will cuddle another bloke
Yes to all the above here :-D hi bloke by the way, long time no speak matey wave
Im bi, nothing much is off limits sex wise but one thing i cant do is fancy men, i just dont dunno
Dont get me wrong i know the difference between a good looking fella and a minger but i dont fancy men.
So in conclusion,for me its all about the cock, the ass, the sex, the spunk the rimming the fucking.....etc etc....i think you get my point ;)
Quote by Dino
- Will meet another bloke 1:1
-
- Will suck cock with female help
- Will suck cock alone like a greedy whore
- Will wank a bloke off
- Will eat cum and like it
- Will rim another bloke
- Will kiss another bloke, big, blokey, tonguey, man kisses!
- Will fuck another bloke like he paid for it
- Will get fucked until their teeth chatter (or fall out!)
- Will massage another bloke
- Will cuddle another bloke
Yes to all the above here :-D hi bloke by the way, long time no speak matey wave
Im bi, nothing much is off limits sex wise but one thing i cant do is fancy men, i just dont dunno
Dont get me wrong i know the difference between a good looking fella and a minger but i dont fancy men.
So in conclusion,for me its all about the cock, the ass, the sex, the spunk the rimming the fucking.....etc etc....i think you get my point ;)

Any you can do all that if you dont fancy someone? :dunno:
Quote by Funlovers2009
Any you can do all that if you dont fancy someone? dunno

Yep. I reckon you can. I can find people sexually attractive without fancying them. For me, 'fancying someone' brings with it elements of emotional attachment whereas finding someone attractive on a sexual level can be just that.
Sometimes there are folk that combine the two, but I can happily play with someone I only find sexually attractive and don't necessarily fancy.
Quote by Dino
Yes to all the above here :-D hi bloke by the way, long time no speak matey wave

Wow - another blast from the past... hope you're well you filthy bi man x
Quote by Funlovers2009
- Will meet another bloke 1:1
-
- Will suck cock with female help
- Will suck cock alone like a greedy whore
- Will wank a bloke off
- Will eat cum and like it
- Will rim another bloke
- Will kiss another bloke, big, blokey, tonguey, man kisses!
- Will fuck another bloke like he paid for it
- Will get fucked until their teeth chatter (or fall out!)
- Will massage another bloke
- Will cuddle another bloke
Yes to all the above here :-D hi bloke by the way, long time no speak matey wave
Im bi, nothing much is off limits sex wise but one thing i cant do is fancy men, i just dont dunno
Dont get me wrong i know the difference between a good looking fella and a minger but i dont fancy men.
So in conclusion,for me its all about the cock, the ass, the sex, the spunk the rimming the fucking.....etc etc....i think you get my point ;)

Any you can do all that if you dont fancy someone? :dunno:
Yep, swinging for me is about enjoying sex,not fancying people.
A great attitude and honesty rather than good looks, tall dark toned, bla bla is far more important imho.... mind you, im a bit of a sucker for a nice nice cock though wink sucker.....cock...hehe...did you see what i did..... i made a knob joke lol
I`ll get me coat confused??:
Quote by BIoke
Yes to all the above here :-D hi bloke by the way, long time no speak matey wave

Wow - another blast from the past... hope you're well you filthy bi man x
Im dangerously well Bloke thanks for asking, how the hell are you me ole tart? well and good i trust wink
Quote by Sarah
:wave: Dino....
kiss

Ey up Sarah, how are you me lovely ?? :wink:
Quote by Dino
- Will meet another bloke 1:1
-
- Will suck cock with female help
- Will suck cock alone like a greedy whore
- Will wank a bloke off
- Will eat cum and like it
- Will rim another bloke
- Will kiss another bloke, big, blokey, tonguey, man kisses!
- Will fuck another bloke like he paid for it
- Will get fucked until their teeth chatter (or fall out!)
- Will massage another bloke
- Will cuddle another bloke
Yes to all the above here :-D hi bloke by the way, long time no speak matey wave
Im bi, nothing much is off limits sex wise but one thing i cant do is fancy men, i just dont dunno
Dont get me wrong i know the difference between a good looking fella and a minger but i dont fancy men.
So in conclusion,for me its all about the cock, the ass, the sex, the spunk the rimming the fucking.....etc etc....i think you get my point ;)

Any you can do all that if you dont fancy someone? :dunno:
Yep, swinging for me is about enjoying sex,not fancying people.
A great attitude and honesty rather than good looks, tall dark toned, bla bla is far more important imho.... mind you, im a bit of a sucker for a nice nice cock though wink sucker.....cock...hehe...did you see what i did..... i made a knob joke lol
I`ll get me coat confused??:
I suppose its each to their own hey. I have to fancy someone to have the great sex but then I'm shallow as fook :lol:
Quote by Funlovers2009
I suppose its each to their own hey. I have to fancy someone to have the great sex but then I'm shallow as fook lol

:lol2: I am the same as you Funlovers... There has to be something there to make me want to have sex with them ;)
Quote by Shireen

I suppose its each to their own hey. I have to fancy someone to have the great sex but then I'm shallow as fook lol

:lol2: I am the same as you Funlovers... There has to be something there to make me want to have sex with them ;)
there are quite a few however who`s only requirement is a pulse :eeek:
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there are quite a few however who`s only requirement is a pulse :eeek:

Only cos necrophilia is dead boring.
:giggle:
I'll fetch me coat...... bolt
Quote by Lizaleanrob
there are quite a few however who`s only requirement is a pulse :eeek:

Warm and still twitching can be enough if her looks aren't offensive.
Quote by Dino
- Will meet another bloke 1:1
-
- Will suck cock with female help
- Will suck cock alone like a greedy whore
- Will wank a bloke off
- Will eat cum and like it
- Will rim another bloke
- Will kiss another bloke, big, blokey, tonguey, man kisses!
- Will fuck another bloke like he paid for it
- Will get fucked until their teeth chatter (or fall out!)
- Will massage another bloke
- Will cuddle another bloke
Yes to all the above here :-D hi bloke by the way, long time no speak matey wave
Im bi, nothing much is off limits sex wise but one thing i cant do is fancy men, i just dont dunno
Dont get me wrong i know the difference between a good looking fella and a minger but i dont fancy men.
So in conclusion,for me its all about the cock, the ass, the sex, the spunk the rimming the fucking.....etc etc....i think you get my point ;)

Any you can do all that if you dont fancy someone? :dunno:
Yep, swinging for me is about enjoying sex,not fancying people.
A great attitude and honesty rather than good looks, tall dark toned, bla bla is far more important imho.... mind you, im a bit of a sucker for a nice nice cock though wink sucker.....cock...hehe...did you see what i did..... i made a knob joke lol
I`ll get me coat confused??:
I agree with Dino. I can't believe I would ever need to put those words together in the same sentence :-).
I'd be gay if I didn't enjoy sex with women. I fancy very very few women, in a 'whoa look at that' kind of way, whilst I fancy loads of guys. But I prefer the company of women socially, as I can talk about hair, clothes and make-up...
Sexually, I like both about equally. Both at the same time is even better >:}
And I'll happily swallow, rim, hump, snog etc with whoever I get to play with...
So who wants to come over lol biggrin