Little old Debs been over doing it!

2 Jan 2006

I was warned by a very good mate on here to slow down. with me swinging ........that was 5 months ago.....did I listen ?..............No :doh:
But after 6 months of swinging and little sleep.......... chancing all-round the country....... smoking too much........ drinking to much ........and yes shagging to much. rolleyes

........ it all finally court up with me about 5 weeks a go :crazy: ................memory loss depression loosing weight and thoughtfulness ect
There was one thing that brought me back to as close as I will every get to normality is........... that I upset a very good mate of mine!....that I will for a long time regret sad

My mates here mean a lot to me ............. they have been supporting me through the tuff times I have had at home! And my god I love um! :inlove:
Ok Ok I here ya whatâ€™s me point? lol

Well some advice first to newbieâ€™s......... take your time!................listen to others in what they have to say..... I have had a great time but it affected my health! :(
This swinging is not just for shagging........ its meeting peeps with the same interest ......its a community ..........and if you are genuine we will accept you with open arms ......and help with as many problems you may come across....... not only in swinging ........but life in general
Thank you all that in the last few months that have supported me!.......... I came in to this site with no will power.. Low self a steam ...........and very sensitive .........didnâ€™t think any one would except my eccentricity ........... I am well and truly touched!
Thank you!........... passionkiss

ps i am not expecting repleys here ........i am more interested in the number of peeps that read this!

2 Jan 2006

was typing my reply but Steph got there first, so I'm just gonna say 'ditto' babes. biggrin

2 Jan 2006

Debbs you are one of the best people I have met off this site and like Steph says you have a heart of gold. I know you have been through a lot and you no doubt still have many issues to deal with. Hope you won't be leaving us though as we love you to bits.
Hugs and kisses.
LC kiss

2 Jan 2006

Glad you've taken the advice given to you.
You take it easy kiss

It will get better

2 Jan 2006

Quote by Lovecommando
Hope you won't be leaving us though as we love you to bits.

I have to admit at one point i did think that... sad

............sorry ...........but thats because of my ill health and not noing whrere i am going.............but in the last few days my head has stoped to you lot! passionkiss

How could i every of thought that :doh:
from now on i will promise i will always be as nutty :crazy: ............. but happy! biggrin

...just slowing down a little............ instead of having or meeting 10 men or women a day...........only 5 now rotflmao

2 Jan 2006

Quote by debbiewebs
from now on i will promise i will always be as nutty :crazy: ............. but happy! ...just slowing down a little............ instead of having or meeting 10 men or women a day...........only 5 now

things are not the same round here any more Debs, but without you, it wouldnt even be worth logging on.
I truly hope things work out for you, but please dont leave us :cry:

2 Jan 2006

i havn't posted a reply as i had posted on another site and didn't want to just keep repeating myself
If you need time out take it m8 your friends will still be here for you kiss

2 Jan 2006

I must admit that as read through this post that we were about to lose one of the stars of SH, but I realise that Debs is only slowing down and not stopping completely. I hope I have read it properly.

2 Jan 2006

Quote by debbiewebs
from now on i will promise i will always be as nutty :crazy: ............. but happy! ...just slowing down a little............ instead of having or meeting 10 men or women a day...........only 5 now

Debbie babes kiss

sometimes we all need a little step back just to recharge our batteries,
charge them on full power babes and you'll be feeling like your old self in no time :kiss: you have plenty friends in here that will always be here for you
hugs n Kisses
Lucy xxxxxx :rose:

2 Jan 2006

So many men, so little time...
Yup, I'd echo everything said thus far. Just pace yourself, and you'll get through all us blokes (well, the genuine ones anyway) soon enough...
And then you can start all over again biggrin

Seriously though, isn't quality better than quantity?

2 Jan 2006

Hi there! I'm new but it sounds like you're a cool person, and thankfully it seems you have gotten over the worst of your problems! Also, you're eccentric too? Excellent, good to know they accept people like us here!

2 Jan 2006

Quote by lucyweebaps
Debbie babes sometimes we all need a little step back just to recharge our batteries,

Isn't that the truth lol

Debs sweetie look after yourself as no one else will :kiss:
Shireen
xxx

3 Jan 2006

Debs
You are one special Lady, and I consider us to be good friends
If you want my mobile number for a chat, PM me and I will give it to you
Anyway, keep in touch
Love NC
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

3 Jan 2006

Quote by stuartrossy1
Your eccentricity is what makes you, who you are and you should never change that! After all we are, who we are and thats it!

And gawd is she eccentric

:rotflmao:
She makes me look sane :shock: :shock: :shock: and that takes some doing :rotflmao:
Debs kiss

Shireen
xxx

3 Jan 2006

Quote by Shireen_Mids
And gawd is she eccentric :rotflmao:

Not sure if thats meant to eccentric or electric, because she certainly lights up my world when she enters it smile

3 Jan 2006

:therethere:
Sorry to hear you've burnt yourself out a bit hun, but I'm sure you'll pick up after a bit of rest and relaxation.
And does this mean you'll be sat in the corner at the next Munch we see you at with a Babycham? :shock:
Hope you're on the mend hun. :kiss:

3 Jan 2006

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3 Jan 2006

debbiewebs
Don't know you to well but have had many happy hours reading your post's and it just wouldn't be the same here without you arround.
you can't go noooooooooooooo i will seek you out and smack your arse for you

:smackbottom: lol

glad your head is better though babe :therethere:
and hope you stop on here for many years to come
Shaz xxx

3 Jan 2006

hi debbiewebs,just read ur post and tho you dont want a reply all im gonna say is as im a newbie trying to make my way and meet many friends as poss on here,will go steady,thanx for the advice you sound like a top lady,hope we meet someday xx