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Lonely world

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themorningdj54
Forum Virgin
rolleyes There must be thousands of people out there that just need to comunicate and pair up to find affection and a meaning to life, yet very rarely does one find it, men and women should wear coloured badges to identify their status in life as to things like (happily married and not interested) (unhappily married and looking for fun) (looking for a partner)or like me loads of affection waiting to give to a similarly placed female
Funlovers2009
Sex God
Think I would need lots of badges or a rainbow one! .... happily married, looking for fun, men and women , etc, etc, sure many of us on here would be the same! lol
Keep looking, she's out there somewhere and you can have fun till you find her xx
Unknown User
Once upon a time, wedding rings indicated that someone was in a relationship and not looking for anyone else. But saying that, I wear one and I'm open to offers (male and female) wink In edit, I should add that I am not looking for another relationship, in case anyone was in any doubt rolleyes
How many men would want to wear the 'I'm available' badge when their wives are not around, yet be confined to the 'unavailable' category when she is? To be fair, I'm sure there are a few women in that situation too.
Unknown User
I was just going to say, it would come as a suprise to some partners if their OH started wearing "In an unhappy relationship" badge, especially if they didnt know it was unhappy :shock:
So maybe badges aren`t the right way to go.
On a posotive note, i met my beloved on here, he was the first guy i chose to meet as a single fem and after a few months we decided to stop seeing others and just see each other. Neither of us were particularly looking for love but we found it :love: So keep looking and you never know who you might bump into.
anais
Sex God
Like finding a needle in a haystack - init? lol
Unknown User
what about a
"the problem is not that my wife does not understand me...the problem is that she does"
Badge biggrin
Reacher
Unknown User
yes, a lonely world it is indeed.... full of dispair and the lowest of... sorry... chin up people... all come good in the end, eh what?
lp
webster
Sexlightened
I have been with the same lady for 18 years - married for 13 - 14 of them (anniversay 29/07) she left me last year the day after her surprise 40th birthday party - - - ohhhhhhhhh the joy!!!!! I have been sidelined between careers and children. This weekend I commited adultery (we're not divorced yet) and I had a lovely time - the guilty pleasure was not the sex, it was enjoying the company.
It is easy to be lonely even within a relationship, it is up to us to do something about it.
Sara_2006
Sex God
is it actually classed as adultary when you are separated :shock: or is this more of a case of a state of mind that you feel that way because you are not over her.
everyone just give yourselves time and chill to the swinging way of life and attend socials/ munches and the friendships where you can be honest with someone/some few may well follow
i have been fortunate that i have made some very good friends that i can talk to them about anything and all they do is support me. sometimes they agree with me sometimes its a discussion because they dont, but they never judge me they just accept. yes i am lucky to have such friends but i also believe its because of swinging and having the openness to be able to voice opinions that may go against the 'norm'
as far as badges go nah leave them to kids birthday cards and and old ladies broaches lol
Steve
Sex God
Its still lonely ....
webster
Sexlightened
Adultery is the voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and another person who is not his or her spouse. In most cases and especially in Western countries, only the married party is said to have committed adultery, and if both parties are married (but not to each other) then they both commit separate acts of adultery.
But yes I'm not over her!
Getting better every day though and last week was a turning point, I actually got compliments - very unusual for me lol.