looks or personality

18 Jun 2006

Quote by naughtynymphos1
i think looks come first as in many cases u see a person, even if its a profile pic, b4 you get 2 know then, after all if you opened a profile and saw a pic of someone u though was ugly how many peeple can honestly say they'd think oh well ok they ugly but they could be nice so we'll ask if they want 2 meet anyway? i would say not many, but then personality comes into it after all could you shag someone you really didn't get on with even if they was good looking? but then i suppose taking it the other way round if you got to know someone that u didn't find attractive i think if you really get on in time ouu find things that are attractive in them that maybe you didn't spot str8 away, hummm i know what i mean lol

My God, I know what you mean as well!! :shock: wink

I read the first half of yer post and thought 'Ah that's why NN hasn't jumped all over me at the last munch'. :wink: But then I read the second half and I thought 'There's hope fer me yet!'
Which all goes to show that it's a complex mix of different things. Wouldn't it be boring if it was just one thaing!!

18 Jun 2006

Quote by man50
your comments please is it looks or is it the person inside you fancy does age come intoi it there are some very active older people out there

Looks.

18 Jun 2006

Quote by man50
your comments please is it looks or is it the person inside you fancy does age come intoi it there are some very active older people out there

Oh...... and er, a big cock :rascal:

18 Jun 2006

Before i joined the scene i would have said i had a type, but meeting people socially and on one to ones, i actually dont anymore, i have played with people i would never have imagined i would have previously but the personality of these people has been attractive to me.
All i can say is if you like someone you like them plain and simple and you cant help who you are attracted to be it male or female.
Earthy xx

18 Jun 2006

Personality!

18 Jun 2006

Quote by earthchild
Before i joined the scene i would have said i had a type, but meeting people socially and on one to ones, i actually dont anymore, i have played with people i would never have imagined i would have previously but the personality of these people has been attractive to me.
All i can say is if you like someone you like them plain and simple and you cant help who you are attracted to be it male or female.
Earthy xx

What she said :thumbup:

18 Jun 2006

On first meeting/ glance , I definately do have a very particular 'type' and will be attracted on looks alone :smitten: ... now that might last for oooo about 5 seconds til I discover they're a bit of a twat, or it might be that they can spark some interest on top of just being eye-candy.
I cant play with people I just dont 'fancy', it doesnt matter how fantastic a person they are. Sometimes I grow to fancy people through their personality, sometimes I dont dunno

But by far, the people who attract me the most are the ones with whom I 'click', who I feel comfy with drinking coffee, talking with at silly o'clock, and generally make an effort with me more than relying on looks to make the grade wink

18 Jun 2006

I t may take less than 5 seconds for you to realise I'm a bit of a twat Dark

18 Jun 2006

Quote by osker99
I t may take less than 5 seconds for you to realise I'm a bit of a twat Dark

:shock: I think you might regret saying that lol

18 Jun 2006

fantastic, did you just save me a job?
lol

18 Jun 2006

Quote by Darkfire
fantastic, did you just save me a job?

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Oooooooo I hate to say I told you so, Osker
No, I don't actually :lol:

18 Jun 2006

:doh: - shite, I just looked at the photo, and I fear it may be I who regrets saying that lol

bollox

18 Jun 2006

OMG I hope someone out there goes for personality - or I've had it. sad

But what do we take as being good looks? For me, someone who is happy, interested in me and lively is going to look far more attractive than someone who is moody and self-absorbed.

18 Jun 2006

Quote by Darkfire
On first meeting/ glance , I definately do have a very particular 'type' and will be attracted on looks alone :smitten: ... now that might last for oooo about 5 seconds til I discover they're a bit of a twat, or it might be that they can spark some interest on top of just being eye-candy.
I cant play with people I just dont 'fancy', it doesnt matter how fantastic a person they are. Sometimes I grow to fancy people through their personality, sometimes I dont
But by far, the people who attract me the most are the ones with whom I 'click', who I feel comfy with drinking coffee, talking with at silly o'clock, and generally make an effort with me more than relying on looks to make the grade

So glad she said all that, saves me typing it.
H.x

18 Jun 2006

thanks for that thought they were all hidden, not sure how that happened

18 Jun 2006

Quote by osker99
thanks for that thought they were all hidden, not sure how that happened

you have one pic, that is visible on your profile itself. I didnt see the others (it says there's 4).
But I'd like to :rascal:

18 Jun 2006

think I've hidden it now(by getting shot of it ) theres nothing wexciting just more shampoo shots. but thank you anyway dark

18 Jun 2006

what was that abouut it taking less than 5 seconds??????

18 Jun 2006

my sense of humour, I'm afraid. Lathough I seem to have upset Fb sum how in my short time here oh well hopefully can make amends

18 Jun 2006

yeah, pick ya lip up and stick the picture back on ffs lol

18 Jun 2006

Quote by osker99
my sense of humour, I'm afraid. Lathough I seem to have upset Fb sum how in my short time here oh well hopefully can make amends

Eh? You haven't upset me at all!
God, some people are so bloody paranoid :shock:

18 Jun 2006

sorry fb, problem with txts emails posts is you can read a lot into them that isn't there tone etc, and when you're a natural born pesimist its probably not a good thin
redface

18 Jun 2006

Quote by osker99
sorry fb, problem with txts emails posts is you can read a lot into them that isn't there tone etc, and when you're a natural born pesimist its probably not a good thin

You're absolutely right. That's why I suggested that you re-read them to ensure that you understand them. Although it doesn't help when people use text speak and don't punctuate/spell correctly.

18 Jun 2006

Quote by Darkfire
yeah, pick ya lip up and stick the picture back on ffs

Yes do
I went to have a quick perv and there was nothing there.
I though Darkfire just said it to wind me up till I saw this redface

18 Jun 2006

Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
yeah, pick ya lip up and stick the picture back on ffs

Yes do
I went to have a quick perv and there was nothing there.
I though Darkfire just said it to wind me up till I saw this redface

HLB I am far from winding.
he REALLY needs to get those pics back up !!! :inlove: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
on second thoughts, I might keep this one all to myself :lol:

19 Jun 2006

can you judge people by just looks alone are people that shallow i am not on a personal crusade or anything i just wanted to know what people think
ps i take it a shag is out of the question then

19 Jun 2006

Quote by man50
ps i take it a shag is out of the question then

you have to gain at least 100 shag points before you get your free shag :giggle:

19 Jun 2006

Quote by man50
can you judge people by just looks alone are people that shallow i am not on a personal crusade or anything i just wanted to know what people think
ps i take it a shag is out of the question then

Yes you can judge people just by their physical appearance - if you're that sort of person! Personally I find people who are only interested in the surface stuff a total turn-off.
If a persons name is something 'like' stud or handsome or good_looking I think well they have tickets on themselves! rolleyes

Anyway, why do you refuse to share your opinions seeing as you keep asking for (and getting) everyone elses?

19 Jun 2006

i prefer personality fun loving people myself looks can be so deceptive its whats inside that counts people can be any shape or form it doesn't matter to me i wouldn't say no to a baywatch babe tho
ps only kidding to be really honest i prefer genuine people who i can have a conversation with i like to expand my mind whats left of it as you get older so does that answer your questions or do you want more

19 Jun 2006

Quote by man50
i prefer personality fun loving people myself looks can be so deceptive its whats inside that counts people can be any shape or form it doesn't matter to me i wouldn't say no to a baywatch babe tho
ps only kidding to be really honest i prefer genuine people who i can have a conversation with i like to expand my mind whats left of it as you get older so does that answer your questions or do you want more

That's fine, I just like to know the persons view who is asking the questions.
I'd like to think that most people on here held similar views.