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your comments please is it looks or is it the person inside you fancy does age come intoi it there are some very active older people out there
Personally, I'm often attracted to a person beacuse of the way they look, but if they don't match up with a personality then its doesn't matter how attractive they are.
But ultimatly I'll talk to anyone regardless of how they look, and usually end up attracted to them on some level.
Age is sometimes an issue, but only because I may not have enough in common with an older person. Not many 60 years old can neck 15 tequilas in a row and still get up and dance!!!!!
Both I'm a greedy fooker me lol :lol:
Quote by man50
your comments please is it looks or is it the person inside you fancy does age come intoi it there are some very active older people out there

Presumably you are referring to yourself and want to hear that some people will shag 'active older folks'? lol :lol: Is your question about looks, personality or age?
Yes, there are some very active older folks out there. :twisted: But then, a 30 year old is an older person compared to a 20 year old. A 50 year old person is older compared to a 30 year old. It's all relative really.
Your question is looks or personality?
I have both! :rascal:
wink
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your comments please is it looks or is it the person inside you fancy does age come intoi it there are some very active older people out there

Both here....
And yes, age played a very big part in when i was looking for meets.
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Both I'm a greedy fooker me lol :lol:

yes weve heard!!
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Personally, I'm often attracted to a person beacuse of the way they look, but if they don't match up with a personality then its doesn't matter how attractive they are.
But ultimatly I'll talk to anyone regardless of how they look, and usually end up attracted to them on some level.
Age is sometimes an issue, but only because I may not have enough in common with an older person. Not many 60 years old can neck 15 tequilas in a row and still get up and dance!!!!!

I agree with redangel
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Both I'm a greedy fooker me lol :lol:

yes weve heard!!
:dry: can I just add don't beleave everything you hear about me as normally it comes from people who have never even met me wink
Not sure what looks means. If someone turns me on then that look turns me on. Fashion magazine 'good looks' are just plain meaningless dunno
But, and I know there'll be a little giggle from the ladies at the back, I make love with me brain. If the quality of the person is not right then it will never be a turn-on for me.
That's why an orgy wouldn't do it fer me but a threesome where the lady I like, is made to feel really special would.
So I guess I'm in the personality camp - but I'm not sure.
i wanted to know what attracted people to each other was it looks personality or age i am just curious to find out rolleyes :roll:
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i wanted to know what attracted people to each other was it looks personality or age i am just curious to find out rolleyes :roll:

So what attracts you? It's good form to give your opinion/preference when you ask questions of the forum members. Don't roll your eyes if people haven't given the response you wanted.
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i wanted to know what attracted people to each other was it looks personality or age i am just curious to find out rolleyes :roll:

Would common sense not dictate that it's a combination of all three ?
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i wanted to know what attracted people to each other was it looks personality or age i am just curious to find out rolleyes :roll:

just wondering.....is this a feeling sorry for myself thread?
Dammie what's common sense?? dunno bolt
Quote by redangel
Personally, I'm often attracted to a person beacuse of the way they look, but if they don't match up with a personality then its doesn't matter how attractive they are.
But ultimatly I'll talk to anyone regardless of how they look, and usually end up attracted to them on some level.
Age is sometimes an issue, but only because I may not have enough in common with an older person. Not many 60 years old can neck 15 tequilas in a row and still get up and dance!!!!!

:thumbup:
Quote by da69ve
i wanted to know what attracted people to each other was it looks personality or age i am just curious to find out rolleyes :roll:

just wondering.....is this a feeling sorry for myself thread?
Stop being so cynical Dave - people don't do that!
Or try to draw attention to themselves by asking wink
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Dammie what's common sense?? dunno bolt

It's the first thing I throw away when I get pissed or horny :grin:
wink
Or horny and pissed.
Or just horny.
Or just pissed.
Is there a pattern forming here ???????
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i wanted to know what attracted people to each other was it looks personality or age i am just curious to find out rolleyes :roll:

just wondering.....is this a feeling sorry for myself thread?
Stop being so cynical Dave - people don't do that!
Or try to draw attention to themselves by asking wink
Me cynical.....never!...... lol
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Dammie what's common sense?? dunno bolt

It's the first thing I throw away when I get pissed or horny :grin:
wink
Or horny and pissed.
Or just horny.
Or just pissed.
Is there a pattern forming here ???????
Aha!!...... So that's what happened last night then... I wondered where mine had gone as well rotflmao
i think looks come first as in many cases u see a person, even if its a profile pic, b4 you get 2 know then, after all if you opened a profile and saw a pic of someone u though was ugly how many peeple can honestly say they'd think oh well ok they ugly but they could be nice so we'll ask if they want 2 meet anyway? i would say not many, but then personality comes into it after all could you shag someone you really didn't get on with even if they was good looking? but then i suppose taking it the other way round if you got to know someone that u didn't find attractive i think if you really get on in time ouu find things that are attractive in them that maybe you didn't spot str8 away, hummm i know what i mean lol
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Dammie what's common sense?? dunno bolt

It's the first thing I throw away when I get pissed or horny :grin:
wink
Or horny and pissed.
Or just horny.
Or just pissed.
Is there a pattern forming here ???????
Aha!!...... So that's what happened last night then... I wondered where mine had gone as well rotflmao
I suppose that would depend on whether you were horny or pissed :grin:
:bolt:
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I suppose that would depend on whether you were horny or pissed :grin:
bolt

Both :giggle:
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i wanted to know what attracted people to each other was it looks personality or age i am just curious to find out rolleyes :roll:

Why are you rolling your eyes at the kind people who took their time to answer sensibly?
As Dambuster rightly said (never thought I'd see myself writing that! wink) it's a combination of looks and personality.
I was in love with a man who was 24 years older than me - we had a 3 year relationship and were able to sustain it because we had things and interests in common and yes I found him very attractive.
I don;t rule anyone 'out' because they are older or younger - my brain doesn't work like that. I may find a woman sexy or a man - if the chemisrty is there then why fight it?!!
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still looking for the person with both but my answer would have to be either. I can be shallow and have had some great times with people who I have dated entirley for there looks(although these are the relationships that sour the quickest) and have had great times with people who have turned me on by there spirit alone.
I think everyone has something to offer, so try them all :twisted: :twisted:
As somebody rightly pointed out that when I stated that I had looks and personality I should have backed my claim up by uploading my picture!

:karaoke: ... don't cha wish ya girlfriend was hot
like me.... :karaoke:
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weve met a couple who are out of our age bracket..(as in weve made a certain age the limit)..............but they are so attractive and have such a nice personallity that we will play with them...........they ring our bells....and hopefully they`l let us ring the`yers... :twisted: ...........you know who u are lol...............but as fare as personality and looks goes.........we used to look for looks alone....but quickly found that, they may be the most attractive cpl in the world.....but the attitude freaked us out.........so a mix of both is good :twisted:
scarilly looks vaguely like my mum when she was younger???!!
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As somebody rightly pointed out that when I stated that I had looks and personality I should have backed my claim up by uploading my picture!

:karaoke: ... don't cha wish ya girlfriend was hot like me.... :karaoke:
innocent

I'm in Love :inlove: ......no seriously i'm in LOVE!!
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your comments please is it looks or is it the person inside you fancy does age come intoi it there are some very active older people out there

Looks may attract initially but personality then kicks in and if it ain't there then forget it!