Hi
I have met the most wonderful women. We have been together for a year. We are very much in love. She told me early in our relationship that she had a colourful past. I would say so...we are well matched and love each other very much. She has stopped her random guy pick ups now we are together. Before I met her, I kind of floated round the edges of swinging, every now and again
My question is this....the first time i organised a group for her I could not handle seeing her being used. The second time a friend had to be with her to make sure everything was safe. I could not be in the room. Since then we have had 3somes with guys and I feel fine about it. We have talked at length about it.
I have read quite a bit about the female point of view. Which seems to distill down to feeling desired, making their partner happy, no emotional attachment. 'I open my legs and provide a service'...
I am more relaxed about it but wondered what both men and women here felt. To the men, how did you deal with it/your emotions? To the women. What does it mean to you? Don't you feel you're letting your partner down. Is it just sex?
I guess it's a two way street. Built on trust.
Look forward to your replies.
J
