I hope I have put this in the right section, I am after opinions. I want to know if people think that manners are a thing of the past in all sorts of swinging. I know they have virtually gone in doggin (waiting for interior lights etc)but I think the manners in clubs and on sites like this are also getting worse. I dont only think its the single guys (who normally get the bad press) that are to blame either. I look forward to hearing others comments.
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Interior lights flashing when dogging isn't a sign of manners is it? more etiquette or hidden signals but certainly not manners.
In regards to the clubs, it seems no different now to what it was eons ago, some just dont get the scene/situation, some just want what they can get and will stop at nothing to get it/get to the front of the queue etc..but nothing different over the years, the same pack mentality and all that goes with it applies now to some just as it has over time.
In general terms, holding back when driving/ thanking someone for waiting/holding a door and the standard please/thankyou well I'm with you on that, so many more people seem so much more ignorant to what I can remember in years gone by, a little bit of common courtesy does not go amiss, a smile at the till, a friendly happy smile from the postie/milkman (yup I still have milk delivered) and so on, well it does seem most can't be arsed which is a shame.
However, just because a person doesn't smile/wait/hang back in their car to let you through/open a door, say please/thankyou and other such pleasantries/manners ..well it doesn't mean I have to be the same, sometimes it actually seems to pee people off when you do show manners.
It's just how it is, it's not going to change.
In regards to the clubs, it seems no different now to what it was eons ago, some just dont get the scene/situation, some just want what they can get and will stop at nothing to get it/get to the front of the queue etc..but nothing different over the years, the same pack mentality and all that goes with it applies now to some just as it has over time.
In general terms, holding back when driving/ thanking someone for waiting/holding a door and the standard please/thankyou well I'm with you on that, so many more people seem so much more ignorant to what I can remember in years gone by, a little bit of common courtesy does not go amiss, a smile at the till, a friendly happy smile from the postie/milkman (yup I still have milk delivered) and so on, well it does seem most can't be arsed which is a shame.
However, just because a person doesn't smile/wait/hang back in their car to let you through/open a door, say please/thankyou and other such pleasantries/manners ..well it doesn't mean I have to be the same, sometimes it actually seems to pee people off when you do show manners.
It's just how it is, it's not going to change.
Warming the Bed
I'm a big believer in 'you get back what you give out'
My standards have never dropped and can't say I've seen a decline in others.
So in answer: No I don't think manners are a thing of the past, in swinging or in life.
My standards have never dropped and can't say I've seen a decline in others.
So in answer: No I don't think manners are a thing of the past, in swinging or in life.
