married single male swingers

13 Apr 2006

Quote by cc_7up
Often it's the male of a couple who initiates interest in swinging with the female going along with the female then gets right into it however what's a chap to do when she says ok i've tried it but it's not for me?
There are 3 main routes he can take as i see it.
1. Forget about swinging. :shock:
2. Obtain her permission to swing as a single male. (rare)
3. Swing behind her back / cheat. ( recipe for trouble) :uhoh:
Any more that you can think of?
cc_7up

Well if the guy has an irresistable urge to swing, to go to clubs, to play with his balls, to meet new people, enjoy a great social life and to make the cut, then maybe he should take up GOLF instread.
Just a thought. wink

13 Apr 2006

Quote by cc_7up
Often it's the male of a couple who initiates interest in swinging with the female going along with it.

Utter bollox, sorry rolleyes

:gagged:

13 Apr 2006

Quote by freckledbird
Cheetah will be here soon

well Tarzan was king of the swingers wink

13 Apr 2006

Quote by freckledbird
Cheetah will be here soon

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

13 Apr 2006

Quote by Dawn_Mids
Often it's the male of a couple who initiates interest in swinging with the female going along with it.

Utter bollox, sorry rolleyes

:gagged:
IIRC it was Shireen who mentioned it first here....All be it by accident but none the less.... biggrin

13 Apr 2006

Yep it was :lol2:
Shireen
xxx

13 Apr 2006

I started using the chatroom at SH while Ian was at work for a couple of days.
I placed and ad, then decided to tell him :giggle:

13 Apr 2006

Quote by partyman
What's the betting that where sex with a female is on offer, what you don't know won't huirt you?
It'a not the principle of what constitutes swinging that is at stake here, it's what I bet is the dual standards faced by men compared to women.

partyman,
i like to think i have a pretty damn good memory as far as threads on here go, cos i've pretty much read every one . . . .
i KNOW FOR A FACT that there are many married but allegedly single ((( bi? dunno

)))fems on here, and how many threads can i count tearing them to threads?
((( hang on a minute while i do a search . . . . )))
oh . . . . hardly any! what a surprise! rolleyes

neil x x x :P

13 Apr 2006

Quote by Dawn_Mids
Often it's the male of a couple who initiates interest in swinging with the female going along with it.

Utter bollox, sorry rolleyes

:gagged:
Ok Dawn
The problem still remains for the person when their partner wants out of swinging or doesn't want to get into it and the person still wants to swing which brings us back to to the starting post .
cc_7up

13 Apr 2006

Quote by neilinleeds
i KNOW FOR A FACT that there are many married but allegedly single ((( bi? )))fems on here, and how many threads can i count tearing them to threads?
((( hang on a minute while i do a search . . . . )))
oh . . . . hardly any! what a surprise!

neil x x x :P

Because they don't come here moaning that nobody wants to meet them? And yes, I agree with Partyman - it's probably very easy for some couples seeking bi females to 'overlook' the fact that their 'find' is married and cheating.

13 Apr 2006

Quote by freckledbird

i KNOW FOR A FACT that there are many married but allegedly single ((( bi? )))fems on here, and how many threads can i count tearing them to threads?
((( hang on a minute while i do a search . . . . )))
oh . . . . hardly any! what a surprise!

neil x x x :P

Because they don't come here moaning that nobody wants to meet them? And yes, I agree with Partyman - it's probably very easy for some couples seeking bi females to 'overlook' the fact that their 'find' is married and cheating.
so it has nowt to do with their marital status, and everything to with them bitching and moaning about it? that's not how it reads though is it?
i KNOW a good few married fems, who swing alone, and whether they have their husbands consent or not, the question was never, as far as i can see, asked of them? ((( clearly though, i can't back that up, cos it breaches discretion! )))
that is somewhat different to the way married men are treated? and anyone who has been on here for any length of time KNOWS that that is true? oh yes they do!
neil x x x ;)

13 Apr 2006

Quote by neilinleeds
i KNOW a good few married fems, who swing alone, and whether they have their husbands consent or not, the question was never, as far as i can see, asked of them? ((( clearly though, i can't back that up, cos it breaches discretion! )))
that is somewhat different to the way married men are treated? and anyone who has been on here for any length of time KNOWS that that is true? oh yes they do!

Neil you might know a good few married women here without their partners consent, I don't know for definate that I do dunno

However if they posted asking opinions I would say exactly the same thing as I have now and would still refuse to play with a married female OR male.

13 Apr 2006

I think that the male married swingers who are playing away come and moan about nobody wanting to meet them more than the women married swingers who are playing away, is all I was saying Neil. Probably because some couples are more keen to meet bi fems and don't ask as many questions, as you pointed out.
Suppose it's the same ratio as single male moaners to single female moaners. That is, there aren't many single females who complain that nobody will meet them, are there?

13 Apr 2006

:thumbup: @ Dawn & FreckledBird
Shireen
xxx

13 Apr 2006

Quote by freckledbird
Suppose it's the same ratio as single male moaners to single female moaners. That is, there aren't many single females who complain that nobody will meet them, are there?

Lies, damned lies and STATISTICS time...there are more single men on the scene than single women, so there will be more male voices of any sort than female, discontented voices as much as anything else.
Secondly, as seems to been agreed, the chances are that female swingers gain much readier acceptance, so will fulfil their desires, so will have no cause to come on here to moan.

13 Apr 2006

bit heavy for a thursday night, isn't time we got back onto shaved bollocks rolleyes

13 Apr 2006

Anyway, it's getting late...
"time for bed" said

13 Apr 2006

Quote by partyman
Suppose it's the same ratio as single male moaners to single female moaners. That is, there aren't many single females who complain that nobody will meet them, are there?

Lies, damned lies and STATISTICS time...there are more single men on the scene than single women, so there will be more male voices of any sort than female, discontented voices as much as anything else.
Secondly, as seems to been agreed, the chances are that female swingers gain much readier acceptance, so will fulfil their desires, so will have no cause to come on here to moan.
I wasn't saying anything about numbers (or quoting any lies or statistics, actually) of single males or single females, just that we see more single males moaning than single females. And your second point, was actually my point - they(single females) have little or no cause for complaint.

13 Apr 2006

I got a permission slip to "play away" and I'm STILL gonna moan I cant find any fun.... biggrin

13 Apr 2006

Quote by partyman
Suppose it's the same ratio as single male moaners to single female moaners. That is, there aren't many single females who complain that nobody will meet them, are there?

Lies, damned lies and STATISTICS time...there are more single men on the scene than single women, so there will be more male voices of any sort than female, discontented voices as much as anything else.
Secondly, as seems to been agreed, the chances are that female swingers gain much readier acceptance, so will fulfil their desires, so will have no cause to come on here to moan.
Supply and demand eh? smile

cc_7up

13 Apr 2006

Quote by Dawn_Mids

i KNOW a good few married fems, who swing alone, and whether they have their husbands consent or not, the question was never, as far as i can see, asked of them? ((( clearly though, i can't back that up, cos it breaches discretion! )))
that is somewhat different to the way married men are treated? and anyone who has been on here for any length of time KNOWS that that is true? oh yes they do!

Neil you might know a good few married women here without their partners consent, I don't know for definate that I do dunno

dawn, my point is . . . very rarely has the whole question of consent been raised? i don't know what their status is re: consent? the point is . . . i can't say they've often been asked all that muched? unlike married men?

Quote by Shireen
I am with Dawn and Ian on this one I am afraid... If you dont have your partners permission then it's not swinging...

hmmmmm . . .

Quote by Shireen_Mids
:thumbup: @ Dawn & FreckledBird
Shireen
xxx

shireen . . . . your :thumbup: was to this post . . .

I think that the male married swingers who are playing away come and moan about nobody wanting to meet them more than the women married swingers who are playing away, is all I was saying Neil. Probably because some couples are more keen to meet bi fems and don't ask as many questions, as you pointed out.

how does that square with your earlier post about consent / swinging?

Quote by PartyMan
Lies, damned lies and STATISTICS time...there are more single men on the scene than single women, so there will be more male voices of any sort than female, discontented voices as much as anything else.
Secondly, as seems to been agreed, the chances are that female swingers gain much readier acceptance, so will fulfil their desires, so will have no cause to come on here to moan.

EXACTLY! :thumbup:
i'm gonna log out now and go to bed? :P
neil x x x ;)

13 Apr 2006

Quote by freckledbird
I wasn't saying anything about numbers (or quoting any lies or statistics, actually

the "Lies, damned Lies and Statistics" reference is an old quote from Lloyd-George, (at his dismay that a good statistician can roll out figures to prove anything), going back about 100 years. I just like to use that phrase whenever getting involved in any sort of number crunching or stuff like that. Nothing personal intended wink

13 Apr 2006

Quote by neilinleeds
I am with Dawn and Ian on this one I am afraid... If you dont have your partners permission then it's not swinging...

hmmmmm . . .

Quote by Shireen_Mids
:thumbup: @ Dawn & FreckledBird
Shireen
xxx

shireen . . . . your :thumbup: was to this post . . .

I think that the male married swingers who are playing away come and moan about nobody wanting to meet them more than the women married swingers who are playing away, is all I was saying Neil. Probably because some couples are more keen to meet bi fems and don't ask as many questions, as you pointed out.

Yes my :thumbup: was to that post......
We dont slag married blokes off for seeking extra martital sex but we also dont meet them...... Sorry Neil but I think you are taking this as a personal attack on you and it's not..... I dont condone men OR women seeking extra marital sex without their partners consent.... End of!

14 Apr 2006

Quote by Shireen_Mids
We dont slag married blokes off for seeking extra martital sex but we also dont meet them...... Sorry Neil but I think you are taking this as a personal attack on you and it's not..... I dont condone men OR women seeking extra marital sex without their partners consent.... End of!

Shireen

14 Apr 2006

From someone not in the in crown I can see both points of view here. Seems like a bit of ganging up going on, give it a rest you are not going to agree.
Mr Tweeky

14 Apr 2006

Quote by Steve_Mids
I got a permission slip to "play away" and I'm STILL gonna moan I cant find any fun....

14 Apr 2006

Quote by Steve_Mids
I got a permission slip to "play away" and I'm STILL gonna moan I cant find any fun....

Seems to be an echo round here confused

14 Apr 2006

Quote by Shireen_Mids
Yes my :thumbup: was to that post......
We dont slag married blokes off for seeking extra martital sex but we also dont meet them...... Sorry Neil but I think you are taking this as a personal attack on you and it's not..... I dont condone men OR women seeking extra marital sex without their partners consent.... End of!

nowhere did i suggest that you were making a personal attack on me? dunno

equally, i truly hope you didn't think my post was a personal attack on you? confused

it really IS time for bed now i think? :?
neil x x x ;)

14 Apr 2006

Quote by tweeky
I got a permission slip to "play away" and I'm STILL gonna moan I cant find any fun....

Seems to be an echo round here confused

Yup

14 Apr 2006

Quote by Steve_Mids
I got a permission slip to "play away" and I'm STILL gonna moan I cant find any fun....

Seems to be an echo round here confused

Yup

Dam, this is gonna sound awful
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