married single male swingers

17 Apr 2006

agree on this ,if your in a club and meet some one for the first time you dont know anything about them ,a easy trap to fall different sites and lots of adds ,we have found that the world of swinging is a very small one ,couple s we have replied to or had emails off some where down the line a few times something has come about and a few cpls or singles we have been planning to meet up with we have found out there was something just not are not judgeing them its just not for us to meet any one who are cheating on there partners,each to there own and all that ,but if the male of this thread has some problems with the mrs ie lack of sex ,its something that has to be sorted out indoors ,so there are people out there who are not bothered to play whatever your status all we can say is good luck but you might feel better if you tell the wife ,

17 Apr 2006

Quote by PoloLady
totally agree with you there foxylady........i also hate the thought that im alright to have sordid sex with but im not wife material l

Do you know that thought has never entered my head once whilst swinging - and I would be extremely worried if it did :shock:
well, wouldnt it be boring place if we all felt the same? i dare say that many of the thoughts that do enter your head have never entered mine! biggrin

18 Apr 2006

surely this is a contradiction in terms

18 Apr 2006

Im married with 2 kids, my wife has NO sex drive, never has, I have a tidyish sex drive so want to meet for sex, although on here is virtually impossible. sad

18 Apr 2006

Quote by m1970
Im married with 2 kids, my wife has NO sex drive, never has, I have a tidyish sex drive so want to meet for sex, although on here is virtually impossible.

If she never has, how did you get the kids? Did you wait until after you married before discussing sex drive or the lack of it?

18 Apr 2006

Quote by m1970
Im married with 2 kids, my wife has NO sex drive, never has, I have a tidyish sex drive so want to meet for sex, although on here is virtually impossible.

Same here mate I've a tidy sex drive, I hoover it on a regular basis lol

:lol:

18 Apr 2006

Quote by sheddy
Same here mate I've a tidy sex drive, I hoover it on a regular basis :lol:

Bloody hell, your shed has a drive? And you hoover it? Now that IS posh :shock:

18 Apr 2006

Quote by freckledbird

Same here mate I've a tidy sex drive, I hoover it on a regular basis :lol:

Bloody hell, your shed has a drive? And you hoover it? Now that IS posh :shock:
Easier than sweeping I'm getting on in years you know confused

:?

18 Apr 2006

Quote by freckledbird
Im married with 2 kids, my wife has NO sex drive, never has, I have a tidyish sex drive so want to meet for sex, although on here is virtually impossible.

If she never has, how did you get the kids? Did you wait until after you married before discussing sex drive or the lack of it?
sex didn't really bother me in those days, sex is not everything and i respect my missus for that, what am i supposed to do?
I don't want affairs, just want to meet people in the same sitution as myself for regular or one of's.

18 Apr 2006

Quote by m1970
sex didn't really bother me in those days, sex is not everything and i respect my missus for that, what am i supposed to do?
I don't want affairs, just want to meet people in the same sitution as myself for regular or one of's.

Incoming!! ....................

18 Apr 2006

Quote by m1970
Im married with 2 kids, my wife has NO sex drive, never has, I have a tidyish sex drive so want to meet for sex, although on here is virtually impossible.

If she never has, how did you get the kids? Did you wait until after you married before discussing sex drive or the lack of it?
sex didn't really bother me in those days, sex is not everything and i respect my missus for that, what am i supposed to do?
I don't want affairs, just want to meet people in the same sitution as myself for regular or one of's.
my advice is to drop the subject on here and try talking to your partner about your relationship. wink

18 Apr 2006

Quote by sheddy
Im married with 2 kids, my wife has NO sex drive, never has, I have a tidyish sex drive so want to meet for sex, although on here is virtually impossible.

If she never has, how did you get the kids? Did you wait until after you married before discussing sex drive or the lack of it?
sex didn't really bother me in those days, sex is not everything and i respect my missus for that, what am i supposed to do?
I don't want affairs, just want to meet people in the same sitution as myself for regular or one of's.
my advice is to drop the subject on here and try talking to your partner about your relationship. wink

no point, tried it and failed, if you don't like something erm you don't like it. Im not leaving her just because she doesn't like sex.

18 Apr 2006

Quote by m1970
no point, tried it and failed, if you don't like something erm you don't like it. Im not leaving her just because she doesn't like sex.

But she may leave you if you cheat on her.....
T shirt owner here and not proud of it.

19 Apr 2006

this is just a long shot but have you asked her what she does like?
H.x

19 Apr 2006

Quote by m1970
no point, tried it and failed, if you don't like something erm you don't like it. Im not leaving her just because she doesn't like sex.

Maybe she just doesn't like sex the way you've both been doing it so far. dunno

Depending on how young the kids are and if she's home with them all day, she may find it hard to switch off the 'Mummy' mode and find her sex goddess mode again. Creating the right ambience and giving her enough time to relax and get into the mood is essential if you are to get that spark bac again.
Playing away from home, whether in a affair or swinging, is a recipe for disaster unless she is the most understanding wife in the world !

19 Apr 2006

Quote by freckledbird

Same here mate I've a tidy sex drive, I hoover it on a regular basis :lol:

Bloody hell, your shed has a drive? And you hoover it? Now that IS posh :shock:
it's a typo, he meant to say he types sex drivel

19 Apr 2006

Quote by H-x
this is just a long shot but have you asked her what she does like?
H.x

smoking, shopping and eastenders rolleyes

Seriously she doesn't like sex, been with her since she was 16, so thats 18 years. if she was here now (hope not) she would tell you the same. Its like some girls on here, I bet they are on the other side of the scale, can't get enough.
Anyway, I don't want to harp on too much because what i am doing is wrong but can anyone blame me. Ill have to be ever so secret. smile