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Martians and Venusians

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I got a reply on a post in 'Lets Meet Up' telling me not to be too hasty in waiting for replys to posts for meets as I had only been on here for 18 months and made 26 posts - so I thanked the advice givers and got thinking......
Men seem to be programmed to just expect women to be as immediately interested in getting together as they are, and also seem to be under the misguided thought that because people post on or view this site they are just going to turn up and shag. I too have been guilty of this impertinent behaviour and for that I apologise.
We men, truely appear, on the whole, to be from another world, and as a message to new comers to the site - patience truey is a virtue and I suspect one will reap the rewards and benefits of a little more of it when posting and getting frustrated when throngs of lustful women do not immediately materialise.
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Now that is a breath of fresh air!! wink

I totally agree. wink
John
When you compare the ratio, the women have a greater pick of the blokes than the blokes do of the women on here.
Still, isn't it every blokes dream to have 100s and 1000s of women worshipping at their feet, satisfying their every need?
Maybe that could explain it
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I got a reply on a post in 'Lets Meet Up' telling me not to be too hasty in waiting for replys to posts for meets as I had only been on here for 18 months and made 26 posts - so I thanked the advice givers and got thinking......
Men seem to be programmed to just expect women to be as immediately interested in getting together as they are, and also seem to be under the misguided thought that because people post on or view this site they are just going to turn up and shag. I too have been guilty of this impertinent behaviour and for that I apologise.
We men, truely appear, on the whole, to be from another world, and as a message to new comers to the site - patience truey is a virtue and I suspect one will reap the rewards and benefits of a little more of it when posting and getting frustrated when throngs of lustful women do not immediately materialise.

Shouldn't that read thongs of lustful women? :undecided:
:grin: :grin:
Seems perfectly sensible to me!
My concept of swinging (if it were to happen!) would be with like minded people.
The only way to meet like minded people is to get to know them.
Hence this site/forum/cafe/chatroom etc.
For what its worth , from a womans perspective, the 2 best meets i have ever had, were with men who had spent ages talking to me on msn.
By the time we actually met we knew each others minds inside out and it dispensed with all the awkward silences and stuff
Just a thought!!