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If one of your mates was not into swinging or sharing but you got strong positive vibes from his girlfriend would you be tempted to invite her to a munch behind his back? confused He's not a very good mate smile
the munch itself is a social vanilla gathering, what were you planing to do with your mates girlfriend at the munch confused :?:
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NO

same here
Quote by fatman
If one of your mates was not into swinging or sharing but you got strong positive vibes from his girlfriend would you be tempted to invite her to a munch behind his back? confused He's not a very good mate smile

You have no right to invite a anyone to a munch who is not a member of swinging heaven. End of discussion.
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If one of your mates was not into swinging or sharing but you got strong positive vibes from his girlfriend would you be tempted to invite her to a munch behind his back? confused He's not a very good mate smile

You have no right to invite a anyone to a munch who is not a member of swinging heaven. End of discussion.
But my answer would still be no. I have a friend who is a member here, but he has only post 13 times last time I looked (I PM'd him as soon as I saw it was him, he hasn't posted since!), fi his girlfriend made it clear that she wanted me then I would decline to her offers, I would also not offer to take her to a munch, I think it would be ok or me to invite her to a social meet without him, as long as she knew the social context of the meet, whether he did or not, but I would not support her cheating on him nor him cheating on her.
Chris
does your mate know you dont think hes a very good mate?
does your mate know you only see him to see his g/f?
i would nt want you at a munch or any other swinging heaven event evil
i dont think you get this site at all do you confused: rolleyes
all the "swingers" on this site(well all the ones ive been fortunate to meet) are honest moral, people :shock: biggrin
you dont sound either.
it's not up to us to run other people's lives, if folks wanna cheat they'll cheat, but it's a bit silly asking daft questions about it here surely, if you wanna shag her mate, do it, but you don't need to tell the world or involve others imo... and i'm glad to hear the much scene isn't into encouraging cheating, some are elsewhere.
Good mate or not,you really need not ask the question,No
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If one of your mates was not into swinging or sharing but you got strong positive vibes from his girlfriend would you be tempted to invite her to a munch behind his back? confused He's not a very good mate smile

Glad I don't know you, because you don't sound like much of a mate.
Fatman, cheat on a mate ??? you'll be drinking his castlemaine xxxx next. I'ts cardinal.
just goes to show why i just love this place dont it, honest straightforward answers to simple questions smile
OK my answer is an equally honest NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
and if there wasnt the risk of having a mod coming downt hard on me (hmmm, thats not such a bad idea with some of them tho /me licks lips in anticipation ) I would say in graphic detail what I think of anybody that would be so low as to walk out behind the back with a m8's g/f, even to a social event. Its wrong, its immoral, its downright nasty
If you did he certainly wouldn't be any kind of mate afterwards. Actions have consequences...
Well your obviously just interested in shagging her and you don't really care about your not so good mate......but why bother telling us all about it......was you expecting anyone to be on your side about this one.....?......to ease your mind maybe?
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He's not a very good mate smile

He may well not be, but your even less of one. You obviously don't realise what SH is about. May be you've already cheated with her and are just seeing what peoples reactions might be? mad
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If one of your mates was not into swinging or sharing but you got strong positive vibes from his girlfriend would you be tempted to invite her to a munch behind his back? confused He's not a very good mate smile

Well for a start I wouldn't invite a non member to a munch that I was organising, and I wouldn't presume to invite anyone to a munch that someone else was organising. Maybe you're not familiar with how the social side of Swinging Heaven actually works?
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He's not a very good mate smile

and neither are you.
fatman joins Swinging Heaven on.......................... 11th January 2005
fatman ends his Swinging Heaven career on............. 24th January 2005
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I doubt you have ever had a shag on here, I have even bigger doubts that you ever will. Another one helping to destroy the reputation of single men in particular and men in general.
Judy

i don't think he's ever had a shag anywhere judy love to honest about it... as my hubby would say... only got one good fuck in him, and that's holding him together... fatman honey you aint going to make many mates here, you don't treat your mates right.
Hey hon,
This friend of yours obviously isn't really one of your friends. If he was, you really wouldn't be thinking about the actual possibility of shagging your mates girlfriend.
Its your life. Shit happens every day round about us. Make some of that shit your own shit and not other people's. You want her. Have the arrogance to go for her. When you are ready, ifever, whenever, come back and show us a bit of your personality.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
With friends like this who needs enemas ?
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With friends like this who needs enemas ?

A fair few if the last SMB was anything to go by :shock: :shock: :shock:
Venusxxx
Fat man so pose your mates g/f came along with you to a swinging munch (dosint have to be, and probably would not be from this site)
What happens if she told him what a great time she had a party, and she told him that you had invited her??
Wow! Thanks for all your replies. I take it I shouldn't ask her. :giveup: I'll try plan B :twisted:
Quote by fatman
Wow! Thanks for all your replies. I take it I shouldn't ask her. :giveup: I'll try plan B :twisted:

What?
Get your own girlfriend and stop behaving like a cad?
I have obviously touched a sensitive nerve with alot of people who are possibly trying to forget a similar experience so I am sorry if I have upset anyone redface
No...not to a mate, now matter how loose a mate.
Scoot.
Don't think it's anything to do with similar experiences Fatman. The people who have responded all appear to think you're a bit of a git to even think of doing what you were thinking of doing.
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I have obviously touched a sensitive nerve with alot of people who are possibly trying to forget a similar experience so I am sorry if I have upset anyone redface

so we have all been shits at some point in our lives then?......is that what you are trying to say?
No I was thinking more towards people having their partners do a similar thing ie their partners cheating on them
So you're saying some of our partners have been shits then?
/passes Fatman a shovel