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A few months ago there was suggestion to create a new section for mature swingers as people like myself seem to be forgotten or regarded by others as past it. Mature people still enjoy sex at any age and in the company of others and maybe are more respectful of the wishes of others. Majority of the adverts placed by ladies or couples always seek young men or ladies and oder men especially seem to be discarded. I would like to hear the opinions of others or even suggestions for mature people to have fun
Hiya Teluk wave
I think that there is room for everyone in swinging. Just the other day there was a thread about someone saying they were told they were too young to swing. It just comes down to preferences.
You just gotta find the right person(s) for you, yeh it takes time, it does with most people, regardless of age. I really wouldn't be too worried about it, for some it is quite an issue, but for others age really doesn't come into it. Preferences have to be respected just as much as you want your own to be.
Good luck and have fun! biggrin
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Majority of the adverts placed by ladies or couples always seek young men or ladies and oder men especially seem to be discarded.

We should be so lucky! In my experience, I prefer to meet women who are older than me but most don't tend to trust those under 25. I'd like to think I've displayed on here that I'm capable of intelligent conversation as well as the other but alas a lot of the time it counts for nothing.
Bugger, I didn't answer your question properly at all did I confused Read it once, thought I knew it all and just typed something completely irrelevant rolleyes
As for the separate section thing, not sure that would be a good move - I would feel like I'm missing out on meeting some fantastic people, albeit just socially, just because we weren't in each others shagging range :?
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A few months ago there was suggestion to create a new section for mature swingers as people like myself seem to be forgotten or regarded by others as past it. Mature people still enjoy sex at any age and in the company of others and maybe are more respectful of the wishes of others. Majority of the adverts placed by ladies or couples always seek young men or ladies and oder men especially seem to be discarded. I would like to hear the opinions of others or even suggestions for mature people to have fun

I take your point, but I think having a "specialist" section would be setting a precedent that could lead to the board becoming so fragmented, you'd end up spending more time navigating the site than reading the actual content. I don't think a separate section would necessarily make you more visible to 'compatible' people, and I think it could make people feel restricted to their "own" group by feeling unwelcome in other groups. I hesitate to use the word clique because I'm sure that's not what you intend, but I do honestly feel it could lead to that.
Regards,
Ice
Fabio touched on this in the Age Restrictions thread. Being young doesn't always make you immature and vice versa.
Could it be that some people would only feel sexually comfortable with someone who's body is of the same age, while others virtually disregard the body or looks and are bowled over only by a compatible personality?
I'm 15 years older than my g/f, but we have very similar personalities. She's fucked younger guys since we've been together, but gets most turned-on by mature guys with a certain 'sparkle'.
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and I think it could make people feel restricted to their "own" group by feeling unwelcome in other groups.
Regards,
Ice

Well, I'm 100% sure you would still be welcomed into any group Ice, cos you are a fantastic bloke.
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and I think it could make people feel restricted to their "own" group by feeling unwelcome in other groups.
Regards,
Ice

Well, I'm 100% sure you would still be welcomed into any group Ice, cos you are a fantastic bloke.
Cheers mate, love you too, the cheque's in the post. ;)
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and I think it could make people feel restricted to their "own" group by feeling unwelcome in other groups.
Regards,
Ice

Well, I'm 100% sure you would still be welcomed into any group Ice, cos you are a fantastic bloke.
Cheers mate, love you too, the cheque's in the post. ;)
Speaking of which Ice, I know you've set up a LiveJournal but when are we going to see some content to it?
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and I think it could make people feel restricted to their "own" group by feeling unwelcome in other groups.
Regards,
Ice

Well, I'm 100% sure you would still be welcomed into any group Ice, cos you are a fantastic bloke.
Cheers mate, love you too, the cheque's in the post. ;)
Speaking of which Ice, I know you've set up a LiveJournal but when are we going to see some content to it?
fLuckin 'ell Sherlock, I'd completely forgotten about that. biggrin
I was going to do a blog, but got sidetracked by posting semi-autobiographical stories under my secret pseudonym. ;)
ditto :laughabove:
Your as young as you feel and I felt a 20 yr old last night( till she smacked my face) hehehehehehehehe
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:
While we're at it, can there be a seperate section for people with red hair?
I hope that came across as tongue in cheek 'cos that's how it was meant. biggrin
It is very interesting to read the comments/opinions offered. Since no-one knows me, some of the descriptions offered are not helpful and could be regarded as hurtful but as i am happy with myself then I will ignore all the replies, there is one which offers a reasinable solution and that is for a mature person's section in the ads area. Perhaps, the moderator would consider this suggestion.
I am grateful to everyone who have offered their opinions
teluk
We personally cant stand mature swingers , they are very very dull . Some of the OLD but immature swingers are a right laugh though :-)
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It is very interesting to read the comments/opinions offered. Since no-one knows me, some of the descriptions offered are not helpful and could be regarded as hurtful but as i am happy with myself then I will ignore all the replies, there is one which offers a reasinable solution and that is for a mature person's section in the ads area. Perhaps, the moderator would consider this suggestion.
I am grateful to everyone who have offered their opinions
teluk

actuallyyou statement is not quite true.. everyone offered suggestions and you decided to look at the one that you wanted.. which is to section off the ad......to be honest home many other people agreed with the idea?
personally i don't see the point.. what is the point of cateogising everything....
if you start with mature people... what is next... younger??? colour??? or as parrot said.....ginger people!!!!
look at the bigger picture... this is a community that tries to encompass is many people as possible....i think what you suggest would go against that and i would hate to see that happen....
sean xxxxxxxx
We could always have the older people verified as being older......say with a little + at the side of there ads??
flipa bolt
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We could always have the older people verified as being older......say with a little + at the side of there ads??
flipa bolt

smackbottom:smackbottom::smackbottom::smackbottom::smackbottom::smackbottom::smackbottom:
Marcuso :!:
C x
Quote by Marcuso
We could always have the older people verified as being older......say with a little + at the side of there ads??
flipa bolt

a plus might be misunderstood where as this

seems more appropriate
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We could always have the older people verified as being older......say with a little + at the side of there ads??
flipa bolt

a plus might be misunderstood where as this

seems more appropriate
LOL......I was just messing around Dave..........it was a REAL bone of contention in the chatroom a while ago.........lol
Old ! but what is old ?
I'm not old i'm in my second childhood lol
I'm new to this site and probably totally niave - but I thought swinging was all about being free from all those normal constraints in society - age, colour, race and sexual orientation shouldn't really matter - so having a separate section seems a contradiction?
As for the red hair comment - cant agree more. I shave mine off biggrin
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Old ! but what is old ?
I'm not old i'm in my second childhood lol

very good not saying that i am old wink
Or a Zimmer symbol in their avatar ?
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quote="Marcuso"]We could always have the older people verified as being older......say with a little + at the side of there ads??
marcuso you would have lots of ++++++++++++++
because ur very very old and we all know what happens when we reach ur age marcuso as it has happenned to you already
im running now
voddy xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
When I reach your age I'll start worrying bolt
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i'll say my piece, but ....we all have an opinion !
if you have a thing about age.......then as a person you must feel insecure about yourself? a darby and joan clubs open , go to that ,
if your asking or questioning younger swingers here then you havent worked life out.....sorry to say that,
why should older swingers be "sectioned off " ? just because as a person you are not pulling or thinking things are not how YOU want doesnt mean the rest need it ?
christ, I'd hate to be 25,single male and trying to pull on here .....
if your questioning things then obviously you haven't done or achieved things with your life,............I'm mature, 50, ......I enjoy my life, I believe I'm 40, I keep clean, smart, my house is flash......my outlook young, most important.......my black books full ! so I dont see a need to be sectioned .....if you do , then you cant be in right place can you ?
my words harsh...but think about them ......

You can also tell by the way he crosses his `T`s and dots his `i`s, dead give away that he hasn`t `worked life out` rolleyes
Tell me, Is there any particular order in which we should work life out, and more importantly, when`s the deadline?
I need to know before I try to make a friendly suggestion and get told I`m not in the right place as a result.
Venusxxx
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why do I want or need to put in codgers corner ?
maybe I dont want to shag the blue rinse brigade?

Oh, I don`t think you need worry about being put in a mature section anytime soon............ innocent
Venusxxx
Can we have a separate section for 20 year old virgins who are drop down dead gorgeous and only want to shag truck drivers?
No one else (outside the above two categories) would be allowed to post there.
Hmmmmmmmmmm. Thinking this through, only truck drivers who are old enough to draw a pension (assuming there's still a pension) would be eligible too. dunno
In fact, thinking further, only meself and 20 year old virgins who are drop down dead gorgeous would be eligible. :grin: :grin:
innocent :whistling: :whistling:
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hehe....exactly venus !....I'm taking it that your first paragragh refers to the original poster ?
as to the rest .........whens too old ? to young ? I still got to eat till the day I die, still got to earn money, whats been anything any different in life ? , I dont have all the answers in life or any order......just tommorow is still going to be there .......so i'll enjoy ......and as long as I can get a hard on then I'll enjoy sex.....and as and when I cant give pleasure to a female then thats the time I pack swinging in ! or sex..............till then......why do I want or need to put in codgers corner ?
maybe I dont want to shag the blue rinse brigade? ....i'll let you know as and when I feel it !

Have you got my hair net untangled out your bits yet!! lol
Id just like to know teluk seeing as you started all this just how mature are you ? not that it matters just curious now..
:scared: innocent
In answer to Ms Naughty, I am 57 and still looking for fun.
I may be wrong but there appears to be an anti mature theme here which concerns me. We all get older although we may still feel younger