Meet.....go .....or not go? UPDATE

11 Feb 2009

UPDATE
We did go to the meet!
I was feeling not up for it all.
My hubby was so up for it. Our reg chap had rearranged his whole weeks working diary, and arranged dog sitters for his over night stay!
I felt I could not be up frount about not being in the mood for a meet!(Big probs with a family member had left me drained and not feeling up for it!)
We got ready, bathed, nice dress, the usual preperations!
Within 5 mins of arriving, and all getting together, I was like a raving sex maniac!!!
Infact it was the best meet we have ever had!
Will leave the type underneath, so if anyone who may read this tread will know what I was originally on about!
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You have arranged a meet, last one was cancelled with the same chap(regular guy), due to genuine illness.
You are due to meet, and due to unforseen cirmcumstances which are out of your control, you are just not in the mood, not ill, but really not in the right frame of mind, you think, to go ahead with the meet!
What would you do??????????
This is a question of, would you go ahesd, or cancel, not a no show, with no explanation!!! smile

11 Feb 2009

cancel.... or make clear that things may not go as 'planned'or expected.
lp

11 Feb 2009

if it was in plenty of time, i would text or call and explain how im feeling.
i wouldnt want someone meeting me if they were not in the mood, but id rather now than they just not turn up. im not saying youd do that,just that i wonder if thats been the case to me.
i guess this is a side effect to arranging meets in advance, whats to say you will be horny that day?
xx fem xx

11 Feb 2009

We would cancel, though we would hate to do so.
If either one of us is not in the mood, there is no point in pretending. Just be honest.

11 Feb 2009

Would cancel and feel bad about it. :cry:

11 Feb 2009

Have to agree about being honest and cancelling.
dee

11 Feb 2009

You can't just not show up!! Thats terrible, you at least should make every effort to say your not going to be there.
John & Shel

11 Feb 2009

if I couldn't turn up I would certainly let them know.. it is common deceny more than anything else....
if someone didn't feel they were in the more, I would rather they told me than think they were doing it for my sake... I'd feel awful!!!!

11 Feb 2009

actually, Ive changed my mind, but then,Im speaking as a 'single male'...
I wouldnt turn up... wouldn't say a word.
we have a reputation to keep
lp

11 Feb 2009

I have had to cancel a meet before with a regular guy, he was fine about it, we just arranged it for a week later, if you know someone they would know you are not messing them about.

12 Feb 2009

Quote by flower411
I have had to cancel a meet before with a regular guy, he was fine about it, we just arranged it for a week later, if you know someone they would know you are not messing them about.

Really minx ??? :shock: You think we can use our own judgement ??? What an interesting idea .... shouldn`t we just expect somebody else to molly coddle us through the whole experience and tell us who to meet ??
Said by a man known to go on cam with a loaf of bread?
Dont make me giggle :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

12 Feb 2009

Quote by flower411
We would cancel, though we would hate to do so.
If either one of us is not in the mood, there is no point in pretending. Just be honest.

What ??? and get a black mark ???
Ooops no ....of course.....it`s ok lol

we don`t have verification on SH :thumbup:
Your a very very naughty boy!! wink

12 Feb 2009

Quote by flower411
I have had to cancel a meet before with a regular guy, he was fine about it, we just arranged it for a week later, if you know someone they would know you are not messing them about.

Really minx ??? :shock: You think we can use our own judgement ??? What an interesting idea .... shouldn`t we just expect somebody else to molly coddle us through the whole experience and tell us who to meet ??
I do very well on my own thanks wink

12 Feb 2009

I would just be truthful and say you have gone off him, or are not in the mood at the moment. Be truthful, stay friendly and everyone can accept it.
A
x

12 Feb 2009

Quote by Geordiecpl2001
You can't just not show up!! Thats terrible, you at least should make every effort to say your not going to be there.
John & Shel

With respect .......the question was........if you have arranged a meet with your regular guy, then when the day came, you were not in the mood, not feeling sexy, not up for it, due to things out of your control, that had effected your frame of mind!!!
Would you go ahead and meet, just so you did not let them down?????
Or cancel the meet??
(a no show with no explanation would never be done by us)

12 Feb 2009

Quote by Lucyandmike7
You can't just not show up!! Thats terrible, you at least should make every effort to say your not going to be there.
John & Shel

With respect .......the question was........if you have arranged a meet with your regular guy, then when the day came, you were not in the mood, not feeling sexy, not up for it, due to things out of your control, that had effected your frame of mind!!!
Would you go ahead and meet, just so you did not let them down?????
Or cancel the meet??
(a no show with no explanation would never be done by us)
And thats a big part of why I like to get to know someone, and form friendships with them, there are times when meets are planned way in advance, but other factors like busy at work etc can mean that the other person is not up to it, but as much as I love the sex, spending time with them (for me) is equally important, ok, so they are not in the mood and dont want to play, explain that you aren't up to it, and maybe do something else, like go for a bite to eat or a drink, you can still have an enjoyable evening, and sort something out for next time.
Of course that is just one option.

12 Feb 2009

Quote by kentswingers777
We would cancel, though we would hate to do so.
If either one of us is not in the mood, there is no point in pretending. Just be honest.

Agreed there Kent

12 Feb 2009

would have to be a cancel if we wasnt in right frame of mind

12 Feb 2009

Quote by hell1970
would have to be a cancel if we wasnt in right frame of mind

what he says lol lol

13 Feb 2009

Quote by Heaven1970
would have to be a cancel if we wasnt in right frame of mind

what he says lol lol

ooooo i get to be all dom for a change wink

13 Feb 2009

Quote by hell1970
would have to be a cancel if we wasnt in right frame of mind

what he says lol lol

ooooo i get to be all dom for a change wink

Have i ever been dom? :lol: :shock: :lol: