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Quote by Clare_Lincs
Well Foxylady you didnt say before that your hubby knows what you do.
As for is it cheating if your partner is aware?Then no its not,its only cheating in my book if your going behind someones back.
You have missed the point , the offensive element arose because you judged me without knowing the facts, and you automaically decided to label me!!
Anyway now you kindly given the seal of approval to the way i choose to live my life pehaps you might like to go back to counting the days left to Xmas, or maybe have a look
what colour car you have parked outside your house today!!
As a man, who in my younger days suffered strongly from the possessive problem, I think it simply boils down to being made to feel special.
When I was made to feel unique and wanted by a girl, I would treat this situation as 'mine' and if I then found out I was 'just another guy', it would make me feel hurt or rejected. Everything she said or implied meant nothing because I had no certainty she wasn't telling another guy the same things. This is usually why it's worse with people you're NOT in a long term relationship with, because you think you're 'getting somewhere' (even a little bit) and being more than just a flirtbuddy, when in reality you're not.
With Mrs VCee3, I don't have that issue because we both know how deep our love is, having built it up over time. She can make any kind of filthy comment about another chap because I know that at the end of the day, I'm the man who is truly special in her life.
I definately agree it's ALL about communication, if someone has no chance, they need to know that outright and make sure that all the flirting (and what else may follow) is just for kicks.
Bleah, hope that makes sense.. just kept typing.
When I was made to feel unique and wanted by a girl, I would treat this situation as 'mine' and if I then found out I was 'just another guy', it would make me feel hurt or rejected. Everything she said or implied meant nothing because I had no certainty she wasn't telling another guy the same things. This is usually why it's worse with people you're NOT in a long term relationship with, because you think you're 'getting somewhere' (even a little bit) and being more than just a flirtbuddy, when in reality you're not.
With Mrs VCee3, I don't have that issue because we both know how deep our love is, having built it up over time. She can make any kind of filthy comment about another chap because I know that at the end of the day, I'm the man who is truly special in her life.
I definately agree it's ALL about communication, if someone has no chance, they need to know that outright and make sure that all the flirting (and what else may follow) is just for kicks.
Bleah, hope that makes sense.. just kept typing.
Quote by foxylady 123
Well Foxylady you didnt say before that your hubby knows what you do.
As for is it cheating if your partner is aware?Then no its not,its only cheating in my book if your going behind someones back.
You have missed the point , the offensive element arose because you judge me without knowing the facts, you automaically decided to label me!!
Anyway now you kindly given the seal of approval to the way i choose to live my life pehaps you might like to go back to counting the days left to Xmas, or maybe have a look
what colour car you have parked outside your house today!!
what someone judging someone here without fully knowing the facts , i dont believe it foxylady
Quote by foxylady 123
Well Foxylady you didnt say before that your hubby knows what you do.
As for is it cheating if your partner is aware?Then no its not,its only cheating in my book if your going behind someones back.
You have missed the point , the offensive element arose because you judged me without knowing the facts, and you automaically decided to label me!!
Anyway now you kindly given the seal of approval to the way i choose to live my life pehaps you might like to go back to counting the days left to Xmas, or maybe have a look
what colour car you have parked outside your house today!!
Fine,i admit that i was wrong to make assumptions,something i havent learnt a few times in the last 24 hours
I do also appologise if me and Steve put on what we find amusing subjects,see i can do sarcasm too!!!!!!!!!!
Warming the Bed
Quote by Perforated_cat
How many men opened this thread hoping it was an offer from foxylady, I wonder? :P
BUSTED! 
Orgasminator
We met a guy once for an hour of sex in his office :twisted: and a good time was had by all, but after that i think he thought he owned me , even baz was getting concerned about his attitude i told him i was talking to someone else and he just got real shirty and went off in a huff :shock: i would,nt mind but he was married...and she did,nt know !!! so why should he act like that. i,m not naive to think that some of the guy,s who talk to us and meet are,nt seeing others as well. 
i told him i was talking to someone else and he just got real shirty and went off in a huff :shock: i would,nt mind but he was married...and she did,nt know !!! so why should he act like that. i,m not naive to think that some of the guy,s who talk to us and meet are,nt seeing others as well. 
Sex God
Quote by Steve_Lincs
I'm still bemused as to why what Clare originally put was such an odd statement
It wasn't an odd statement, it was a simple question.
I wondered if the wording of unfaithful was chosen correctly or not as Vix talked of jealousy not unfaithfulness.
I was also wondering if foxy's husband knew of her swinging. I know it has nothing to do with the thread she posted but i'm a curious little thing and did wonder all the same.
As for the possive issue. If you don't want him to contact you simply block him off your lists and maybe try to tell him frimly, not interested thanks.
Quote by foxylady 123
How many men opened this thread hoping it was an offer from foxylady, I wonder? :P
LOL, what sort offer would you l ike, perforated cat???
Upon reflection I could ahve picked a better tittle for this thread!!! Still whats done is done!!
If that really is your bum foxy, I can think of lots of offers you could make that would get my blood pumping!
As to this posessive thing, I'm fine with you talking to anyone - and you can do anything you like with them, as long as I can watch ;)
Sex God
i have to say that in my own experience... women are as possesive as men.
i have lost count of the number of times i have met guys whilst out in clubs.... and had a girl shooting daggers at me.. just cos she had spoken to him first... so assumed he was now hers!
i trhink its a bit unfair to suggest that this is a male trait.
i have lost count of the number of times i have met guys whilst out in clubs.... and had a girl shooting daggers at me.. just cos she had spoken to him first... so assumed he was now hers!
i trhink its a bit unfair to suggest that this is a male trait.
