Guys when was the last time you had a good hoenst blubber, and why?
Last time for me was when I broke someones heart.
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Sexpert
I've been crying for nearly a week.
One of my friends commited suicide on Wednesday and another friend died on Friday.
Up until this week I have been very lucky and not lost many people I care about, and losing two in three days really knocked me for six, and then another six.
Thanks to everyone in the forum for your posts and keeping me from going mad.
I bet you wish you hadnt asked now. :cry:
One of my friends commited suicide on Wednesday and another friend died on Friday.
Up until this week I have been very lucky and not lost many people I care about, and losing two in three days really knocked me for six, and then another six.
Thanks to everyone in the forum for your posts and keeping me from going mad.
I bet you wish you hadnt asked now. :cry:
Sex God
I don't really see why men crying should be noteworthy.
Well, yes I do, it's because of some daft Victorian stiff upper lip hangover that says we're meant to be all macho and strong and all that bollocks. Well, crying whether you're male or female doesn't mean you're not strong, it means you're human. Macho schmacho, you can keep it.
Well, yes I do, it's because of some daft Victorian stiff upper lip hangover that says we're meant to be all macho and strong and all that bollocks. Well, crying whether you're male or female doesn't mean you're not strong, it means you're human. Macho schmacho, you can keep it.
Quote by Ice Pie
I don't really see why men crying should be noteworthy.
Well, yes I do, it's because of some daft Victorian stiff upper lip hangover that says we're meant to be all macho and strong and all that bollocks. Well, crying whether you're male or female doesn't mean you're not strong, it means you're human. Macho schmacho, you can keep it.
Spot on Ice, agree 100%
Sex God
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you talk a lot of sense ice i like you
I think your in there Ice pie
Ah bollocks, and on a hair-wash night too. Life is such a bitch. :flounce:
Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
i think men cry a lot more than they admit to
I think you're right. I think men are under a certain amount of pressure to suppress their emotional natures. Thankfully that social attitude is not as prevalent as it was, and I'm pretty sure that guys who maintain the super cool image in public are just as human as anyone else in private, or they'd go nuts bottling stuff up. That applies to women too, because a lot of people, male and female, choose not to publicly display their feelings, but they have them nevertheless.
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i think men cry a lot more than they admit to
I think you're right. I think men are under a certain amount of pressure to suppress their emotional natures. Thankfully that social attitude is not as prevalent as it was, and I'm pretty sure that guys who maintain the super cool image in public are just as human as anyone else in private, or they'd go nuts bottling stuff up. That applies to women too, because a lot of people, male and female, choose not to publicly display their feelings, but they have them nevertheless.
My cup runneth over :cry: , except I am that nuts.
Last time I had a cry was when I broke up with my girlfriend. Time before that was last June.
Women do tend to cry more than men as they're more emotional and empathic, regardless of the social stigma and expectations from a man.
Sex God
Quote by Ice Pie
I don't really see why men crying should be noteworthy.
Well, yes I do, it's because of some daft Victorian stiff upper lip hangover that says we're meant to be all macho and strong and all that bollocks. Well, crying whether you're male or female doesn't mean you're not strong, it means you're human. Macho schmacho, you can keep it.
Ah fuckit - I was going to say that but I came over all emotional and by the time I'd wiped away the tear .......
Anyone that knows me knows I'm an emotional bastard. I don't mind women seeing it but I get uncomfortable if men do - peer fucking pressure, I guess.
I remember being told here that I wear my heart on my sleeve - never a truer word - a female observation it was.
I think it takes a strong man to admit that he cries............
A lot of men bottle up their feelings...... making things worse.... just because society dictates that men don't cry.....
If something touches you in such a manner as to make you cry..... then it is nature's healer.... go ahead and cry..... i would think no less of someone who cries...... in fact they would probably have my respect.....
equi-princess xxx
A lot of men bottle up their feelings...... making things worse.... just because society dictates that men don't cry.....
If something touches you in such a manner as to make you cry..... then it is nature's healer.... go ahead and cry..... i would think no less of someone who cries...... in fact they would probably have my respect.....
equi-princess xxx
I cried earlier this evening. One of my little dogs is dying. I don't think she'll be with me in the morning. She's had a good life she'd be 14 next month not bad for a King Charles and her mums is still going strong at 15 and a half.
I cry at sad films. The Colour Purple had me blubbering in the cinema and I can't bear to watch A Kid For Two Farthings. That always has me running for the tissues.
I cry at sad films. The Colour Purple had me blubbering in the cinema and I can't bear to watch A Kid For Two Farthings. That always has me running for the tissues.
It's allways hard for a bloke to cry int it, don't know why maybe its because we feel the need to show our masculinity and just hide our emotions. I can remember going to my uncles funeral, very close relative y'know the type youd spend most weekends down the local with and have a laff, and no matter how much i wanted to cry i just couldnt. Just from that i felt so guilty afterwards, not all too sure why it was as if I thought i didn't cry because i didnt feel for him which is soo far from the truth. Same thing happened at my grans funeral, and i was just a lil kid back then too. But sometimes just watching an episode of holby can make me shed a tear, its a confusing thing. In answer to your question though i last cried at a repeat of ER lol
You havnt been watching big brother have you? That crying task thing? Thinking about the possibilities of when you sign up for next years now?
You havnt been watching big brother have you? That crying task thing? Thinking about the possibilities of when you sign up for next years now?
Sex God
Quote by Dawn_Mids
Why is this thread for men only
Because we are a bunch of arrogant sexist bastards, now bog off.
:lol2:
This could well become one of my all time favourite threads! 8-) 
Sex God
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Guys when was the last time you had a good hoenst blubber, and why?
Last time for me was when I broke someones heart.
The last time The Champ was on TV......
Omg..... thats sooooooo spooky.... Ive never ever since a child been able to watch that film all the way through.... It has me crying in the 1st half hr and then i have to turn it off!!
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