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What is the facination/obsession men have for womens undies?
I happened to wear a very frilly brightly coloured thong under a pair of low rise jeans to work yesterday and my two work mates were captivated for the day and I received numerous wedgies (ouch) mad
This prompted many stories on the subject of undies.- One kitchen company demanded 1 pair of knix to be seized from every house they worked on to be trophied on the workshop wall. It seems many trades men make a bee line for the laundry basket to sniff out a smelly pair once the lady of the house has gone out.
I heard of one guy who was caught cross dressed in a house he was working at and was sacked
Also when Im in a chatroom one of the first questions is what am i wearing or if they can see me in a bra they HAVE to know am i wearing a matching set and is it a thong.
I love frillies but only to a point. Why the obssesion guys?
surprised I have no fixation on underwear , or anyother ware come to that. The person inside attracts me.
That said, I do notice how ladies are dressed. most noticeably when it reflects their personality.
I think its more of a facination with the place that they have been. wink
Louise xx
It's not a fascination for me either (unless they're in the process of being slid down!)
That said, I am a sucker visually for PVC/leather, so whether that comes from the same stable or not, I'm not sure. cool
It's not just men that are interested in womens lingerie - looking at that is. lol
However, even though it's a big turn on for me it would certainly never occur to ask a woman what she's wearing. I prefer to find out via more tradiotional methods.
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What is the facination/obsession men have for womens undies?
I happened to wear a very frilly brightly coloured thong under a pair of low rise jeans to work yesterday and my two work mates were captivated for the day and I received numerous wedgies (ouch) mad

smackbottom naughty girl, I hate seeing thongs over and above jeans! There was a fashion a while back whereby girls were doing this, not sexy sorry!
Now, a slightly see through look where the content is leaving a little to the imagination is by far sexier, with a nice pair of hold ups, matching underwear and seeing the guy discreetly looking at your thighs .. ok I'm off now .. bolt
in a chat room isn't it natural to get to know the person and what they are wearing is an aspect of that. I also think som may think you have to ask this question it is etiquette or expected. I tey to be more original but not lways successful.
It is generally thought that men are very visual, i certanly like to get a picture in my mind.
I actually think men can be fixated by many things, mini skirts, jeans , boots and i guess the nearer you get to being undressed the more men will become interested.
nb as for workmen you are right i came back to find the decorators with a pair of my partners panties, but not too worry they were only usuing them as dust sheets. rolleyes
ntone watched the scottish show chewing the fat vey funny about workmen in the hoe.wink
Quote by jaymar
I hate seeing thongs over and above jeans! There was a fashion a while back whereby girls were doing this, not sexy sorry!

Couldn't agree more... always looks more like the straps of a surgical device than a supposedly sexy pair of underwear!
Quote by Geminifemale
Also when Im in a chatroom one of the first questions is what am i wearing or if they can see me in a bra they HAVE to know am i wearing a matching set and is it a thong.

If you can't work out this is a ploy to see if you get ya' tits out and for a flash of the beaver - then you have a lot to learn.
However - from the show last night I don't think many really cared what underwear was involved wink
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Also when Im in a chatroom one of the first questions is what am i wearing or if they can see me in a bra they HAVE to know am i wearing a matching set and is it a thong.

If you can't work out this is a ploy to see if you get ya' tits out and for a flash of the beaver - then you have a lot to learn.
However - from the show last night I don't think many really cared what underwear was involved wink

Show? Did I miss a show from Gem?? I was watching 'Day after Tommorow' :cry:
Quote by delsutton
I hate seeing thongs over and above jeans! There was a fashion a while back whereby girls were doing this, not sexy sorry!

Couldn't agree more... always looks more like the straps of a surgical device than a supposedly sexy pair of underwear!
I always love to see a roll of fat below the thong and over the top of the trousers. mmmmm so sexy.....not biggrin
Quote by keeno
I hate seeing thongs over and above jeans! There was a fashion a while back whereby girls were doing this, not sexy sorry!

Couldn't agree more... always looks more like the straps of a surgical device than a supposedly sexy pair of underwear!
I always love to see a roll of fat below the thong and over the top of the trousers. mmmmm so sexy.....not biggrin
I would disagree with you on the below the thong bit because not all of us are pencil thin.... however, I totally agree with you on the over the trousers milarky as no matter what size a person is they should dress accordingly and that means not squeezing into too small clothing, not nice!
I think a pair of really nice french knickers can look sexier than a thong wedged up one's butt! :shock: wink
ahhh... As we both adore seeing women in lingerie, we both agree its like being given a present..
if it is wrapped up, you can feel and squeeze (gently of course!) letting your mind run riot thinking about what lays under the paper and getting all excited about it..as you slowly start peeling the paper away
(bloody hell.. waxing lyrical here - sorry guys!)
Unwrapped, the mystery has evaporated and the present which will still be lovely, is already seen - hence not quite so erotic
Our real gripe is that there is so much available for the ladies to look fantastic and enticing - and so little for the guys!! Yes we both know that the female form is far more pleasing to the eye.. but someone must be able to design something??
I have answered this type of thread before. I like sniffing a used pair of knickers. Its just a great buzz. Mind you I do have some discriminatory criteria, and the items must meet these to be considered worthy wank material.
Tradesmen are frequently being caught 'Rummaging'. The not so graceful art of sifting through the laundry basket, looking for serious treasure trove.
Some ladies don't part with their worn out M&S faded black and decker broadsides, and hide them in a carrier bag in the airing cupboard. To be discovered years later by forensic pantie hunters. A bit out of date, but they'll do.
Some ladies are well aware of the double life of their cheerful, cheeky tradesmen, and are willing to leave ample samples strewn about the bedroom, bathroom and kitchen. On one job there were no secrets with one lady. She left a messy pair of white panties, on the bedroom floor, in full view of the workforce; and went on holiday. They provisioned several guys over the ensuing weeks.
Incidentally. Do you peg your panties by the washing tag, on the seams, or by the gusset? rolleyes
By far the strongest scent I have come across was that of a young Russian woman. A nice lacy thong, The scent was intense and unusually unique.
I also found a pair of steamers one autumn morning. The lady had dropped them on the move and they lay there with wisps of curling steam in the glowing autumn sunlight. The folds in the gusset detailing the shape of her labia. Very artistic woman, could not even be bettered by Roman Polanski.
More mature ladies use pantie girdles and full girdles. These present a much more developed pursuit and would probably only interest advanced sniffers. Therefore pm's please.
cool
So to answer the question (what's the fascination). A used pair is the real thing.
So there, a few details about the fetish/thrill of pantie sniffing etc. wink
Quote by jaymar
I hate seeing thongs over and above jeans! There was a fashion a while back whereby girls were doing this, not sexy sorry!

Couldn't agree more... always looks more like the straps of a surgical device than a supposedly sexy pair of underwear!
I always love to see a roll of fat below the thong and over the top of the trousers. mmmmm so sexy.....not biggrin
I would disagree with you on the below the thong bit because not all of us are pencil thin.... however, I totally agree with you on the over the trousers milarky as no matter what size a person is they should dress accordingly and that means not squeezing into too small clothing, not nice!
I think a pair of really nice french knickers can look sexier than a thong wedged up one's butt! :shock: wink
It's probably just me but I don't find the blatant display of underwear terribly sexy. Be it the thong above the trousers or a bra strap outside at top.
I find a glimpse very erotic. That sense of having seen something I shouldn't have. That promise of forbidden fruit.
Like I said I'm sure its me. rolleyes
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b]Incidentally. Do you peg your panties by the washing tag, on the seams, or by the gusset? rolleyes

Most def. by the seams otherwise the air would not get to the gusset therefore would not dry properly and cause dampness :shock:
So there, a few details about the fetish/thrill of pantie sniffing etc. wink

bolt
Quote by keeno
I hate seeing thongs over and above jeans! There was a fashion a while back whereby girls were doing this, not sexy sorry!

Couldn't agree more... always looks more like the straps of a surgical device than a supposedly sexy pair of underwear!
I always love to see a roll of fat below the thong and over the top of the trousers. mmmmm so sexy.....not biggrin
I would disagree with you on the below the thong bit because not all of us are pencil thin.... however, I totally agree with you on the over the trousers milarky as no matter what size a person is they should dress accordingly and that means not squeezing into too small clothing, not nice!
I think a pair of really nice french knickers can look sexier than a thong wedged up one's butt! :shock: wink
It's probably just me but I don't find the blatant display of underwear terribly sexy. Be it the thong above the trousers or a bra strap outside at top.
I find a glimpse very erotic. That sense of having seen something I shouldn't have. That promise of forbidden fruit.
Like I said I'm sure its me. rolleyes
No it's not just you, I have never myself been able to go along with the bra strap on show fashion. I'm quite reserved when it comes to underwear and keep it firmly for my benefit or that of a few invited guests redface
I was at a swingers social in a "vanilla" pub a few months ago, and I was wearing a leopard-skin thong that Nicky had bought me (since I'm usually up for trying something new.) As we walked out, the rather attractive barmaid made a funny comment about my thong showing over my jeans - and it really made my day!
Like Shark I often feel that it is comparatively easy for a woman to do something to make herself look more sexually enticing than normal - but it is much more difficult for a man! You girls can show a little more cleavage or wear a short skirt or show different bits of skin or whatever, but what can a guy do? I think maybe that the buzz I got from the barmaid's comments came from the fact that I felt I had managed to make myself look just a little bit sexier or more available LOL!
Russell
b]Incidentally. Do you peg your panties by the washing tag, on the seams, or by the gusset?

Most def. by the seams otherwise the air would not get to the gusset therefore would not dry properly and cause dampness
Quite right. I agree entirely.
But there are some who peg the gusset, then sneak them inside for the final drying off. This deprives serious perverts the opportunity to get a 'full frontal'. And can be the only reason, I think.
I enquired of a neighbour once about a towel covering some tasty trendy knickers one year. 'Oh its our Spanish student, staying with us. She's doesn't like to have her knickers seen!'
Well I'm sure I saw the young senorita stridng off one morning looking decidedly damp and itchy about her nethers. Her estimate of the humidity of the UK climate being a bit erratic.
I don't use underwear myself. But this does lead to bollock crush. I am not interested in guys undies. rolleyes
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duncanlondon wrote:
b]Incidentally. Do you peg your panties by the washing tag, on the seams, or by the gusset?

Most def. by the seams otherwise the air would not get to the gusset therefore would not dry properly and cause dampness
Quite right. I agree entirely.
But there are some who peg the gusset, then sneak them inside for the final drying off. This deprives serious perverts the opportunity to get a 'full frontal'. And can be the only reason, I think.
I don't use underwear myself. But this does lead to bollock crush. I am not interested in guys undies. rolleyes

I agree there, I don't even buy Mr Jay any, much prefer the feeling when opening the buttons of his jeans to find..mmm anyway - see ya!
If a man has a decent body I love to see them wearing tight CK boxers! :lickface:
Quote by Geminifemale
I happened to wear a very frilly brightly coloured thong under a pair of low rise jeans to work yesterday and my two work mates were captivated for the day and I received numerous wedgies (ouch) mad

I wear strings and low rise jeans and when you sit, there is nothing worse than seeing big pants in my opinion - its not a fashion fad or deliberate flash as others have stated, purely a coincidence with what i wear. But i would draw the line at wedges lol
One of my pet hates is seeing the big pant VPL - don't know what the guys think to it, but me i think yukkkk redface
I agree to a point with jaymar about the clothes too small thing, nothing more off-putting, the same goes for thongs/strings - a tip for the ladies when it comes to them - buy 2 sizes bigger than your normal wink
As for the "what are you wearing?" in chat, i have now come to the conclusion that if i say "fluffy slippers n dressing gown" they still don't believe it.
I think some are under the impression that you are exactly like the profile pics at all times, including shopping and the school run ... :giggle:
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some are under the impression that you are exactly like the profile pics at all times, including shopping and the school run ... :giggle:

That's so disappointing. After I've gone to the effort to dress like my avatar biggrin
Honestly,
I have to admit I'm a bit of a panty fan, i find myself taking a glimpse up a girls skirt if the oppertunity is there. Personally I find myself very turned on by a girl wearing blue denim skirts and white knickers, always have, always will i guess. I adore it when a girl is dressed in a way that she often (even while trying not to) gives a little flash of her panties. It's very sexy indeed. Same applies if a girl has erect nipples, never been a tittie fan but nipples have a similar effect on me as a flash/glimpse of knickers. Runs and hides /ashamed
To me seeing a woman in sexy undies and that also includes clothing in general is all part off the what attracts me.
I don't think its a facination or obsession its just what i find attractive in general.
If it means nothing why spend so much chosing the garments we want or why wear anything at all other than to cover up and if thats the case why choose one brand/color over another or have brands/colors full stop confused:
Quote by keeno
I hate seeing thongs over and above jeans! There was a fashion a while back whereby girls were doing this, not sexy sorry!

Couldn't agree more... always looks more like the straps of a surgical device than a supposedly sexy pair of underwear!
I always love to see a roll of fat below the thong and over the top of the trousers. mmmmm so sexy.....not biggrin
An I was gonna show you me thongs!! :grin: :grin:
I dont have a real attraction to underwear but i will be buying these
Arent they dashing
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I dont have a real attraction to underwear but i will be buying these
Arent they dashing
click me

Dont do it Drew :shock: confused
Quote by anais
I dont have a real attraction to underwear but i will be buying these
Arent they dashing
click me

Dont do it Drew :shock: confused
I realised that they are tight-ish and i hate that.
How about these, just for fun despite the tightness
at the NW munch on saturday night I suggested to mrs cuk that she threw her knickers on stage at the singer ... she said "get lost these are too expensive ... throw yours up there they are only from Primark" ... bitch, but typical I guess lol