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Reading a recent thread about women faking orgasms reminded me of several occasions where, when having sex for the second time during an evening with a partner, despite my best efforts and having a decent erection, I have not been able to come. My partner's don't seem to mind but is there a time limit after which I should consider faking it? All comments grateful received!
there are a few people i play with that dont come the 2nd time or it takes a fair while, its not important, after all its not all necessarily about the end result but the journey to the end.
Earthy xx
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there are a few people i play with that dont come the 2nd time or it takes a fair while, its not important, after all its not all necessarily about the end result but the journey to the end.
Earthy xx

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As I ( and my bed partners ) have got older I've noticed that the majority of men that I've known can only manage it once, or at least have to wait a little longer between orgasms. We tend to spend a lot more time on foreplay now which is equally as enjoyable.
On the other hand, as I've got older I find I can easily have multiple orgasms in one night but who am I to complain? :twisted:
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there are a few people i play with that dont come the 2nd time or it takes a fair while, its not important, after all its not all necessarily about the end result but the journey to the end.
Earthy xx

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As I ( and my bed partners ) have got older I've noticed that the majority of men that I've known can only manage it once, or at least have to wait a little longer between orgasms. We tend to spend a lot more time on foreplay now which is equally as enjoyable.
On the other hand, as I've got older I find I can easily have multiple orgasms in one night but who am I to complain? :twisted:
I must be getting old! lol
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Reading a recent thread about women faking orgasms reminded me of several occasions where, when having sex for the second time during an evening with a partner, despite my best efforts and having a decent erection, I have not been able to come. My partner's don't seem to mind but is there a time limit after which I should consider faking it? All comments grateful received!

OK... silly me, I know, but how the frig does a man fake an orgasm? confused I'm serious... surely the lack of 'evidence' would make the faking noticeable? lol
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Reading a recent thread about women faking orgasms reminded me of several occasions where, when having sex for the second time during an evening with a partner, despite my best efforts and having a decent erection, I have not been able to come. My partner's don't seem to mind but is there a time limit after which I should consider faking it? All comments grateful received!

OK... silly me, I know, but how the frig does a man fake an orgasm? confused I'm serious... surely the lack of 'evidence' would make the faking noticeable? lol
I think I could fake one - not met many woman who examine the 'evidence' that closely :lol:
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Reading a recent thread about women faking orgasms reminded me of several occasions where, when having sex for the second time during an evening with a partner, despite my best efforts and having a decent erection, I have not been able to come. My partner's don't seem to mind but is there a time limit after which I should consider faking it? All comments grateful received!

OK... silly me, I know, but how the frig does a man fake an orgasm? confused I'm serious... surely the lack of 'evidence' would make the faking noticeable? lol
I think I could fake one - not met many woman who examine the 'evidence' that closely :lol:
depends where, how and if covered i guess
will i be needing to purchase a periscope
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Reading a recent thread about women faking orgasms reminded me of several occasions where, when having sex for the second time during an evening with a partner, despite my best efforts and having a decent erection, I have not been able to come. My partner's don't seem to mind but is there a time limit after which I should consider faking it? All comments grateful received!

OK... silly me, I know, but how the frig does a man fake an orgasm? confused I'm serious... surely the lack of 'evidence' would make the faking noticeable? lol
I think I could fake one - not met many woman who examine the 'evidence' that closely :lol:
I do it all the time...........
....just don't tell Fire!
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I do it all the time...........
....just don't tell Fire!

I've never noticed innocent
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
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will i be needing to purchase a periscope

dental mirror
lp
Guilty as charged!.
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OK... silly me, I know, but how the frig does a man fake an orgasm? confused I'm serious... surely the lack of 'evidence' would make the faking noticeable? lol

Possible when using a Condom redface
Have you heard of the dry cum. When a guy has just done it too many times. The guy still has the feeling, just no leak.
........and it is possible to stop oneself and keep going after a dry cum. I have done this 4 or 5 times in the last 20 years. Mostly I just manage too delay both ejaculation and orgasm. But as i said 4 or 5 times I have orgasm-ed with out ejaculating.
So yes it is possible to fake it, even with a full set of swabs.
Only true if you except that one is not dependant on the other.
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Reading a recent thread about women faking orgasms reminded me of several occasions where, when having sex for the second time during an evening with a partner, despite my best efforts and having a decent erection, I have not been able to come. My partner's don't seem to mind but is there a time limit after which I should consider faking it? All comments grateful received!

I have to ask why you feel you need to fake it? confused
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........and it is possible to stop oneself and keep going after a dry cum. I have done this 4 or 5 times in the last 20 years. Mostly I just manage too delay both ejaculation and orgasm. But as i said 4 or 5 times I have orgasm-ed with out ejaculating.

Guys who do Tantric sex can do that just by practicing a certain technique, the energy is released internally or something?..... good init?
xanaisx
I cant find the thread.....but there has been one, and I've seen it happen (unless the bastard was faking it of course :shock:lol ) but I thought it was entirely possible (but not common) for a bloke to be able to orgasm without ejaculation?
I dont mean just any normal orgasm or 'dry' cos he's simply run out :lol: - I mean those full on mind-blowing ones that are more 'spiritual' than physical - does that make sense? dunno
god dammit where's that thread.....
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I cant find the thread.....but there has been one, and I've seen it happen (unless the bastard was faking it of course :shock:lol ) but I thought it was entirely possible (but not common) for a bloke to be able to orgasm without ejaculation?
I dont mean just any normal orgasm or 'dry' cos he's simply run out :lol: - I mean those full on mind-blowing ones that are more 'spiritual' than physical - does that make sense? dunno
god dammit where's that thread.....

i know of a male that does this hun, he and i had a good chat about it
Earthy xxx
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I dont mean just any normal orgasm or 'dry' cos he's simply run out lol - I mean those full on mind-blowing ones that are more 'spiritual' than physical - does that make sense? dunno

Im lucky enough to say Ive been there...though not through any skill/talent or training of my own.... i had a lot of help....
lp
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I cant find the thread.....but there has been one, and I've seen it happen (unless the bastard was faking it of course :shock:lol ) but I thought it was entirely possible (but not common) for a bloke to be able to orgasm without ejaculation?
I dont mean just any normal orgasm or 'dry' cos he's simply run out :lol: - I mean those full on mind-blowing ones that are more 'spiritual' than physical - does that make sense? dunno
god dammit where's that thread.....

ermmm no but then do you ever? :lol2: bolt
seeee!! I am entirely sane after all and didnt hallucinate this stuff lol
phew wink
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seeee!! I am entirely sane after all and didnt hallucinate this stuff lol
phew wink

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
redface I just laughed so hard I think a little pee came out confused
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Sassy... you have just given all the SH watersports fans a fantasy come true.. sexy you doing what they dream of :giggle:

Totally unintentional hunni. I've run out of Tena Lady :shock: redface
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Reading a recent thread about women faking orgasms reminded me of several occasions where, when having sex for the second time during an evening with a partner, despite my best efforts and having a decent erection, I have not been able to come. My partner's don't seem to mind but is there a time limit after which I should consider faking it? All comments grateful received!

OK... silly me, I know, but how the frig does a man fake an orgasm? confused I'm serious... surely the lack of 'evidence' would make the faking noticeable? lol
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: Normally the wet patch I get to sleep on is the dead give away! :shock: I would certainly know if Jay had faked.. my side would be dry!
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seeee!! I am entirely sane after all and didnt hallucinate this stuff lol
phew wink

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
redface I just laughed so hard I think a little pee came out confused
100 bladder tightening exercises for you when you are next standing doing the washing up my dear! :wink:
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seeee!! I am entirely sane after all and didnt hallucinate this stuff lol
phew wink

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
redface I just laughed so hard I think a little pee came out confused
100 bladder tightening exercises for you when you are next standing doing the washing up my dear! :wink:
washing up??? Isn't that what teenage sons are for? dunno
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seeee!! I am entirely sane after all and didnt hallucinate this stuff lol
phew wink

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
redface I just laughed so hard I think a little pee came out confused
100 bladder tightening exercises for you when you are next standing doing the washing up my dear! :wink:
aah yes and it's was also noted that since the invention of dishwashers, women's pelvic muscle exercises had halved! smile
washing up??? Isn't that what teenage sons are for? dunno
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Reading a recent thread about women faking orgasms reminded me of several occasions where, when having sex for the second time during an evening with a partner, despite my best efforts and having a decent erection, I have not been able to come. My partner's don't seem to mind but is there a time limit after which I should consider faking it? All comments grateful received!

I have to ask why you feel you need to fake it? confused
Just some women I've met are so determined that there partner is going to come a second partner - and put some much effort into trying to ensure this - it seems almost cruel to disappoint them redface
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........and it is possible to stop oneself and keep going after a dry cum. I have done this 4 or 5 times in the last 20 years. Mostly I just manage too delay both ejaculation and orgasm. But as i said 4 or 5 times I have orgasm-ed with out ejaculating.

Guys who do Tantric sex can do that just by practicing a certain technique, the energy is released internally or something?..... good init?
xanaisx
yes
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I cant find the thread.....but there has been one, and I've seen it happen (unless the bastard was faking it of course :shock:lol ) but I thought it was entirely possible (but not common) for a bloke to be able to orgasm without ejaculation?
I dont mean just any normal orgasm or 'dry' cos he's simply run out :lol: - I mean those full on mind-blowing ones that are more 'spiritual' than physical - does that make sense? dunno
god dammit where's that thread.....

Spiritual? More self control.