Men on men action in clubs

10 Aug 2005

I'm probably being niave, but thats because my first time at a club will be on friday night, but is there a lot of men on men action? I have lots of gay friends and been to gay clubs so this will be no 'biggie' for me but i know that my partner has never been exposed to this before, hes not against it or anything but in all honesty may make him feel a little uncomfortable - maybe not a snog and a grope but def fisting!! confused

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10 Aug 2005

We've only been to one club, but I don't think you generally see much man/man sex. I think there are bi-nights in some clubs.

10 Aug 2005

I've been to a few different clubs and i think u will find as a rule male on male action is limited to bi nights as a rule men do not play with men in open rooms on a 'normal' night.
What club are youn going to?

10 Aug 2005

X-tasia

10 Aug 2005

i very much doubt u will see male on male action there on a friday he will be ok lol

10 Aug 2005

cheers

10 Aug 2005

As far as i recall there's a tiny 'bi' corner in X-tasia but you could easily miss it. The place is enormous. As everyone else has said, there seems to be a sort of unspoken on male-on-male action in all clubs except on specific nights.
One other comment - if Xtasia is your first venture into clubland - it has a very different style to other clubs.

10 Aug 2005

Just to repeat what's been said really:
a) M4M doesn't generally happen in swingers clubs, outside of specialist Bi-nights
b) Xtasia IS different. It adopts a different approach from other clubs, suits a lot of people (next Sat is a 250 couple sell-out) and doesn't suit others. Make your own mind up.
c) Not sure if you are looking FOR or AVOIDING bi-male activity. If you are avoiding it, you don't have a worry. If you are looking for it, then Chameleons on a Monday, or Xtasia on a Wednesday are the bi-friendly nights.
d) There is a bi area at xtasia, within the couples only area, but it's seldom used. The whole of the upstairs loft area is devoted to bi activity on Wed nights though.
e) Come and say hello if you go on Fri. I don't bite (hard lol) ;-)
Hope that this helps.
M

10 Aug 2005

Hi party man, you part of a couple or one of those 'single men' they talk about wink

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10 Aug 2005

Quote by oneismagic
Hi party man, you part of a couple or one of those 'single men' they talk about ?

Yeah - straight from the leppar colony here :shock: :lol: redface

11 Aug 2005

ewwwwwwwww single men....ban them all i say :shock:
failing that send them me lol

11 Aug 2005

In the open areas you see very little man on man action in clubs more's the pity sad

, except of course on bi nights. However, if the right mix of people are in you do find it.... sometimes in the open too :twisted: ... A lot of it goes on behind closed doors - if you want it you can generally round up enough bi guys to have group fun in a private room (not that I would know or anything innocent

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11 Aug 2005

Just to help you all out, I will go looking for men with men at the club on Saturday.
I feel it's my duty to find out and report back on my findings
I would LIKE to see that biggrin

11 Aug 2005

Quote by edinbughchris
One other comment - if Xtasia is your first venture into clubland - it has a very different style to other clubs.

a quick thread hijack here.... what is so different about Xtasia? other than the size of it

11 Aug 2005

Xtasia is like a nightclub - dancefloor, DJ, etc.

11 Aug 2005

Quote by angelnn66
Xtasia is like a nightclub - dancefloor, DJ, etc.

We went to xstasia once with another couple and I sucked the guys cock in front of some curious on lookers. it certainly sent them packing lol

11 Aug 2005

there are a few other clubs around like xrasia tho its not a 1 off lol

11 Aug 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
there are a few other clubs around like xrasia tho its not a 1 off lol

Very true. There is Caesars and the Atlantis to name but two. Which have a dance floor and dj

11 Aug 2005

Quote by seagull69
there are a few other clubs around like xrasia tho its not a 1 off lol

Very true. There is Caesars and the Atlantis to name but two. Which have a dance floor and dj
Never been to Atlantis so can't comment (hint though, met lots of people from Stoke / Staffordshire at Xtasia, so it's not attracting local support by the looks of it)
Ceasars is not a true swingers club. A "Sex Club" maybe, (subtle difference in terminology there) Ceasars seem to split the week between BDSM/Fetish and "Promoted" nights, where they get working girls in to promote the night from their MSN / groups and then get a cut of the door take according to how well they do. Obviously they then have to satisfy the "punters" that they attract to ensure "return business". Now please, if that's "swinging"...???

11 Aug 2005

Quote by partyman
there are a few other clubs around like xrasia tho its not a 1 off lol

Very true. There is Caesars and the Atlantis to name but two. Which have a dance floor and dj
Never been to Atlantis so can't comment (hint though, met lots of people from Stoke / Staffordshire at Xtasia, so it's not attracting local support by the looks of it)
Ceasars is not a true swingers club. A "Sex Club" maybe, (subtle difference in terminology there) Ceasars seem to split the week between BDSM/Fetish and "Promoted" nights, where they get working girls in to promote the night from their MSN / groups and then get a cut of the door take according to how well they do. Obviously they then have to satisfy the "punters" that they attract to ensure "return business". Now please, if that's "swinging"...???
We have been to Caesars only twice. Once on a fetish night and once on a swinging night. This was about a couple of years ago just when the new owners took over. The fetish night was interesting but not really our scene (We were invited as my wife Knows the owners) and the swinging night well it was like a mourge lol

Atlantis is a small swingers club nicely laid out but poor facilities when you want to get down to some action. It is a bit dead though.