is it just me or are people either too lazy or just down right rude when it comes to messaging
surely a simple no thanks is not too much to ask or if sending a message something a bit more than do you want a fuck might be nice
mike x
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Quote by mike2453
is it just me or are people either too lazy or just down right rude when it comes to messaging
surely a simple no thanks is not too much to ask or if sending a message something a bit more than do you want a fuck might be nice
mike x
It's not you. They are too busy or too rude. Deal with it and move on to the next couple/person.
Orgasminator
I've said it before and i'll say it again. I don't think it's rude to not reply. 9 times out of 10 the mail we receive is well outside our criteria. That's unsolicited and i'm not wasting my time replying when they didn't waste their time reading our profile.
I used to. Most times i'd get a response saying "why not", or "but i'm only 2/5/12 years outside your age limits" then once i'd replied to that (and the other 2 or 3 mails that had come in whilst I was doing that) I'd get another one back in response saying something to try and change my mind. So now I've got 4 to reply to with another 3 or 4 coming in whilst i'm doing that. You can see how that could get rather time consuming? You're not the only person mailing people. Once or twice I got a "well I didn't wanna fuck you anyway you ugly cow" Theres several reasons right there why some people don;t reply.
For the odd one who clearly did read our profile but we're just not attracted to, then we will usually reply.
I think a non response can be taken as a no. If you're that outraged by it then maybe a swinging site is not right for you?
*Her*
I used to. Most times i'd get a response saying "why not", or "but i'm only 2/5/12 years outside your age limits" then once i'd replied to that (and the other 2 or 3 mails that had come in whilst I was doing that) I'd get another one back in response saying something to try and change my mind. So now I've got 4 to reply to with another 3 or 4 coming in whilst i'm doing that. You can see how that could get rather time consuming? You're not the only person mailing people. Once or twice I got a "well I didn't wanna fuck you anyway you ugly cow" Theres several reasons right there why some people don;t reply.
For the odd one who clearly did read our profile but we're just not attracted to, then we will usually reply.
I think a non response can be taken as a no. If you're that outraged by it then maybe a swinging site is not right for you?
*Her*
Quote by mike2453
is it just me or are people either too lazy or just down right rude when it comes to messaging
surely a simple no thanks is not too much to ask or if sending a message something a bit more than do you want a fuck might be nice
mike x
I have been recently made aware that after exchanging two pm's with somebody, they could, if theirs was enabled SHREP me with a 'site shrep'.
If my responses were not to their liking, I could find myself carrying a negative shrep.
This may very well be a valid reason for users with SHREP running being careful as to who they respond to.
Sex God
Quote by couplefunuk
I've said it before and i'll say it again. I don't think it's rude to not reply. 9 times out of 10 the mail we receive is well outside our criteria. That's unsolicited and i'm not wasting my time replying when they didn't waste their time reading our profile.
I used to. Most times i'd get a response saying "why not", or "but i'm only 2/5/12 years outside your age limits" then once i'd replied to that (and the other 2 or 3 mails that had come in whilst I was doing that) I'd get another one back in response saying something to try and change my mind. So now I've got 4 to reply to with another 3 or 4 coming in whilst i'm doing that. You can see how that could get rather time consuming? You're not the only person mailing people. Once or twice I got a "well I didn't wanna fuck you anyway you ugly cow" Theres several reasons right there why some people don;t reply.
For the odd one who clearly did read our profile but we're just not attracted to, then we will usually reply.
I think a non response can be taken as a no. If you're that outraged by it then maybe a swinging site is not right for you?
*Her*
Ok ok ok ...... We know your popular you get lots of mail, yippidee do dah day. Honestly some people just got a shout about it haven't they, we know your popular we get the bloody picture.
Tell you what! for the social we will get you a FUCKING T-SHIRT OK! hows about
"We've got mail" in large blue and pink print
Will that do? WILL IT!
Mr Tweeky flounces off
Pops back
Sorry forgot to slam the door
Sex God
Wonder if tweeky knows he flounced off not knowing his skirt was tucked into his knickers
Sex God
Lost thats ridiculous! Its obviously not me 
When have you ever seen me holding glass that small? Ahhhh didnt think I'd notice did ya :haha:
When have you ever seen me holding glass that small? Ahhhh didnt think I'd notice did ya :haha: 