Have you really got a chance of a MFF threesome if your a single male, on this or any other site?
I know the site is full of hot blooded males, who would give their left testicle for such a chance with 2 attractive women, but in honesty, what is the reality?
Don't get me wrong if one was offered to me, I would be like their in a shot (preferebly with both testicles intact).
Any offers? LOL
But seriously, give me your thoughts.
Ste
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Been there, seen it, done it. (but that's all the info you get!)
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Been there, seen it, done it. (but that's all the info you get!)
Happy New Year!
Mal
sexy arsed tart :lol:
Sexy arsed tart with nowhere to go on New Years Eve, if you don't mind!! :lol:
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Quote by I_am_ste
Have you really got a chance of a MFF threesome if your a single male, on this or any other site?
I know the site is full of hot blooded males, who would give their left testicle for such a chance with 2 attractive women, but in honesty, what is the reality?
Don't get me wrong if one was offered to me, I would be like their in a shot (preferebly with both testicles intact).
Any offers? LOL
But seriously, give me your thoughts.
Ste
My thoughts are - get yourself a bi-fem co-swinger, and the likelihood increases dramatically. Find one who likes to visit bi/lesbian clubs or swing clubs, and you're onto even more of a good chance.
As you say, the site is full of hot-blooded blokes - unless you've got the looks of George Clooney, and a 10" dick, your chances are pretty slim, I'd say. On the other hand, if you have both of these qualities then I think you're onto a winner!
Good luck!
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Quote by phil_osopher
My thoughts are - get yourself a bi-fem co-swinger, and the likelihood increases dramatically. Find one who likes to visit bi/lesbian clubs or swing clubs, and you're onto even more of a good chance.
Having a partner doesnt always increase your chances..
You now have a possible foursome situation where instead of 3 people having to like each other you now have 4 which could well decrease your chances..
Quote by phil_osopher
As you say, the site is full of hot-blooded blokes - unless you've got the looks of George Clooney, and a 10" dick, your chances are pretty slim, I'd say. On the other hand, if you have both of these qualities then I think you're onto a winner!
Good luck!
And another popular misconception...
Being good looking and having a huge cock are not a passport to sucsess..
While they may help they dont always give you a garunteed(sp?) passport to fun..
I am not the best looking bloke here and certainly havent got the biggest dick (though some may say I am the biggest dick
) and I have had a modicum of sucsess here 
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...knew it was a mistake to start posting in the forum again...
:giveup:
It wasnt a personal dig
Just giving an impression from a couples (where the male also plays alone) point of view..
We have been here on this site for 3 yrs and have yet to find a couple where we all 4 like each other and all get along....
Maybe we set our standards to high or are just too picky(or maybe we're both mingers
) but we have yet to "score". 
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Quote by Dawnie
Any offers? LOL
Are you sure that your post is not just a way of getting an advert seen or to make people feel sorry for you so they shag you?
I'm just interested in why he wants to meet with a gay single female and a gay female couple as he says in his profile??????
Mal
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Any offers? LOL
Are you sure that your post is not just a way of getting an advert seen or to make people feel sorry for you so they shag you?
I'm just interested in why he wants to meet with a gay single female and a gay female couple as he says in his profile??????
Mal
Desperate :dunno:
Ticked all options :dunno:
Never read what he was doing properly :dunno:
What would I know, I'm half a couple that does meet single men and sometimes alone
Quote by phil_osopher
Have you really got a chance of a MFF threesome if your a single male, on this or any other site?
I know the site is full of hot blooded males, who would give their left testicle for such a chance with 2 attractive women, but in honesty, what is the reality?
Don't get me wrong if one was offered to me, I would be like their in a shot (preferebly with both testicles intact).
Any offers? LOL
But seriously, give me your thoughts.
Ste
My thoughts are - get yourself a bi-fem co-swinger, and the likelihood increases dramatically. Find one who likes to visit bi/lesbian clubs or swing clubs, and you're onto even more of a good chance.
Christ! :shock:
at risk of you taking this as a personal dig Philosopher (which it isnt) , may I suggest that anyone even remotely thinking about 'getting themselves a single bi fem' reads this first: Single Bi Fems- the Holy Grail?
Single bi fems are not meal tickets to success here, we dont particularly like being used as such, and even worse is the 'latching on' thing that guys think will get them a FFM :dry:
All well and good if its done by mutual agreement etc, but 'getting' a bi fem with the ulterior motive of what she can (allegedly) get you really pisses me right off!
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how you doin'?
Mal
how you doin'?
Mal
I_am_ste wrote:
Any offers? LOL
Are you sure that your post is not just a way of getting an advert seen or to make people feel sorry for you so they shag you?
This was said very tongue in cheek.
I'm just interested in why he wants to meet with a gay single female and a gay female couple as he says in his profile??????
Mal
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Desperate
Ticked all options
Never read what he was doing properly
Yeah, ticked all the options, should probably refine this now.
Quote by Darkfire
Have you really got a chance of a MFF threesome if your a single male, on this or any other site?
I know the site is full of hot blooded males, who would give their left testicle for such a chance with 2 attractive women, but in honesty, what is the reality?
Don't get me wrong if one was offered to me, I would be like their in a shot (preferebly with both testicles intact).
Any offers? LOL
But seriously, give me your thoughts.
Ste
My thoughts are - get yourself a bi-fem co-swinger, and the likelihood increases dramatically. Find one who likes to visit bi/lesbian clubs or swing clubs, and you're onto even more of a good chance.
Christ! :shock:
at risk of you taking this as a personal dig Philosopher (which it isnt) , may I suggest that anyone even remotely thinking about 'getting themselves a single bi fem' reads this first: Single Bi Fems- the Holy Grail?
Single bi fems are not meal tickets to success here, we dont particularly like being used as such, and even worse is the 'latching on' thing that guys think will get them a FFM :dry:
All well and good if its done by mutual agreement etc, but 'getting' a bi fem with the ulterior motive of what she can (allegedly) get you really pisses me right off!
It may well piss you off - but it happens.... and more than some will care to admit
Sex God
:shock: Mal you're feeling very brave aren't you?
And you lot are sooooo silly - Ste wants a gay fem couple so he can do the FFM thing!
Or a single gay female so she can invite a female friend and he can still do the FFM thing!
And you lot are sooooo silly - Ste wants a gay fem couple so he can do the FFM thing!
Or a single gay female so she can invite a female friend and he can still do the FFM thing!
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Ok - it's a learning curve. Don't worry about it
Mal
Mal
DarkFire - how do you feel about people who befriend you just to get their hands on your...
bottle of JD? Oh I'm sure you have other qualities I would grow to like but it's your bottle I'm after initially. 
Oh I totally acknowledge it happens Polo, that's why it pisses me off!
bottle of JD?
Oh I'm sure you have other qualities I would grow to like but it's your bottle I'm after initially. Quote by Darkfire
It may well piss you off - but it happens.... and more than some will care to admit
Oh I totally acknowledge it happens Polo, that's why it pisses me off!
A key mistake made by many single guys is trying to pick up two separate single women with the aim of getting them together - god some of you guys know how to make hard work for yourselves
It is much more straight forward if you find two women who already know each other and play together - and there are bloody loads of them out there if you look in the right places.
If you don't want to go to the trouble of getting yourself known, socials, blar, blar and all that.... just go to a good club and look out for the women who hang-out together. You may think every guy in the club will be on the hunt for them too, but generally I have noticed they are not (probably because they have found out what a handful two women can be and know better now).
It is much more straight forward if you find two women who already know each other and play together - and there are bloody loads of them out there if you look in the right places.
If you don't want to go to the trouble of getting yourself known, socials, blar, blar and all that.... just go to a good club and look out for the women who hang-out together. You may think every guy in the club will be on the hunt for them too, but generally I have noticed they are not (probably because they have found out what a handful two women can be and know better now).
Sex God
Quote by PoloLady
It is much more straight forward if you find two women who already know each other and play together - and there are bloody loads of them out there if you look in the right places.
I know - found two in the cupboard under the stairs Christmas Eve!
:shock:
.
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Quote by westerross
It is much more straight forward if you find two women who already know each other and play together - and there are bloody loads of them out there if you look in the right places.
I know - found two in the cupboard under the stairs Christmas Eve!
:shock:
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Ooooooooooooo bring them here! :twisted:
I can point you in the direction of two wonderful women if you like?
yes, very.
You will need the stamina of a marathon runner and the finishing ability of an Olympic sprinter, several times over.
Still interested?
I will give it a go
You will also have to be comfortable being the meat in the middle of a daisychaining sandwich!!!!
Still fancy it?
try out once............ I think :?
LOL
I can point you in the direction of two wonderful women if you like?
yes, very.
You will need the stamina of a marathon runner and the finishing ability of an Olympic sprinter, several times over.
Still interested?
I will give it a go
You will also have to be comfortable being the meat in the middle of a daisychaining sandwich!!!!
Still fancy it?
try out once............ I think :?
LOL
Quote by Scandal
what is the reality?
I can point you in the direction of two wonderful women if you like?
You will need the stamina of a marathon runner and the finishing ability of an Olympic sprinter, several times over.
Still interested?
You will also have to be comfortable being the meat in the middle of a daisychaining sandwich!!!!
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Still fancy it?
I do if it's one of my fave ladies and you're in the middle :twisted:
Quote by PoloLady
A key mistake made by many single guys is trying to pick up two separate single women . . . . .
It is much more straight forward if you find two women who already know each other and play together - and there are bloody loads of them out there if you look in the right places.
:thumbup:
This might well go wildly wrong because I'm going to actively tryto give some sort of answer/advice; and I've usually found that it's when we tryfor something that it goes tits up.
:idea: - in fact - there ^ ^ ^ ^ it is. Don't "try" - as such.
I think most of us have a "list" of things we'd like to do - but I think it can be a mistake to "hunt" and "try" for them. Particularly for single males. When they (the opportunities) arise - take them. With both hands/balls/feet.
I've seen time and time again in my time here and elsewhere the mistake of "trying to be . . . . "
I'm fairly sure that more "success" is achieved if we don't "try to be . . . . ." - just "be" yourself.
As people hang around the site/lifestyle and begin to have "success" - more and more opportunities just seem to materialise in front of their eyes.
I know what I'm trying to say - but that's ^^^^ crap. But I've typed it now so you can just bluddy well have it ! !
from looking at this site for a while i think its pointless asking questions like this as there are no definative answers. If it happens it will happen by accident and will prpbable be a last minute thing between you, your partner and someone she likes.
Unless of course if you go down the route of paying for it.
you cant force people to want to sleep with you its chemistry.
Unless of course if you go down the route of paying for it.
you cant force people to want to sleep with you its chemistry.
Quote by Ukwineman
If it happens it will happen by accident and will prpbable be a last minute thing between you, your partner and someone she likes.
Thats pretty much it although for us, Ian has to like the guy too.
Ian is straight so I don't mean anything sexual but he needs to be able to hold a conversation with him and feel comfortable being in close quarters :thumbup:
