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Good idea, although it would all depend on nobody else overhearing at the party. That's why I thought of taking him to one side and being totally up front.
I suppose I'll have to play it by ear for a bit and if it looks like I'm running out of time, I'll ask him directly.
He already knows my gf is horny, as they had a one night stand a few years ago, so I wondered if I should mention that to him and see his reaction and then offer the mfm, or would he be freaked that I mention the one night stand?
I suppose I'll have to play it by ear for a bit and if it looks like I'm running out of time, I'll ask him directly.
He already knows my gf is horny, as they had a one night stand a few years ago, so I wondered if I should mention that to him and see his reaction and then offer the mfm, or would he be freaked that I mention the one night stand?
Sex God
I agree with the idea that she should be the one talk to him about it.I think the chance to enjoy what they enjoyed again with the added dimension of it being a threesome involving you will have a reasonable chance of appealing to him.
I think you're taking a bit of a risk.
Although you may like the idea of this guy joining you both, I think you and your wife should have a long talk before the party and discuss this.
If it all goes wrong and tells all your friends and family about your life style, could you cope with that?
I'd have a serious think & weigh up the pro's & cons
Although you may like the idea of this guy joining you both, I think you and your wife should have a long talk before the party and discuss this.
If it all goes wrong and tells all your friends and family about your life style, could you cope with that?
I'd have a serious think & weigh up the pro's & cons
Sex God
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
I think you're taking a bit of a risk.
Although you may like the idea of this guy joining you both, I think you and your wife should have a long talk before the party and discuss this.
If it all goes wrong and tells all your friends and family about your life style, could you cope with that?
I'd have a serious think & weigh up the pro's & cons
Agreed. A bit of flirting when they've met doesn't mean he'd be up for a threesome. He might just be shocked that you've suggested it and completely overreact - could be embarrassing at a party!
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
I think you're taking a bit of a risk.
Although you may like the idea of this guy joining you both, I think you and your wife should have a long talk before the party and discuss this.
If it all goes wrong and tells all your friends and family about your life style, could you cope with that?
I'd have a serious think & weigh up the pro's & cons
Agreed. A bit of flirting when they've met doesn't mean he'd be up for a threesome. He might just be shocked that you've suggested it and completely overreact - could be embarrassing at a party!
My thoughts exactly.
I agree that if anyone raises it - it should be your g/f and I would've thought it would need to be step by step sounding him out.
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Sexlightened
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Sex God
Quote by R n M
I can pretend to be him if you like.
Problem solved then
Sex God
You have your history and he has depends on how he views the threesome idea itself but he would have to accept you may have done it with other men before.
Surely this party isn't the be all and end all, a later get together with just the three of you could gently lead to something or not as the case may be?
Surely this party isn't the be all and end all, a later get together with just the three of you could gently lead to something or not as the case may be?
Sexlightened
Hi
I think this should be left to your girlfriend to speak and flirt with him and in a joke sort of way after a few drinks mention her fantasy to him this way it does not look too bad if it all goes pair shape, Also i would not mention anything about doing it before, if you are worried about time running out then forget it till another time as you can not rush these things when in the company that you will be in
I think this should be left to your girlfriend to speak and flirt with him and in a joke sort of way after a few drinks mention her fantasy to him this way it does not look too bad if it all goes pair shape, Also i would not mention anything about doing it before, if you are worried about time running out then forget it till another time as you can not rush these things when in the company that you will be in
Quote by markz
If it all goes tits up I am sure their are plenty here willing to step in the breach, do their bit for the good of society
Which is why I would suggest picking someone from the available single men on site and don't risk a friendship
So you don't shag friends then :roll:
Why do you think Dawn befriended you? :roll:
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If it all goes tits up I am sure their are plenty here willing to step in the breach, do their bit for the good of society
Which is why I would suggest picking someone from the available single men on site and don't risk a friendship
So you don't shag friends then :roll:
Why do you think Dawn befriended you? :roll:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: To many men there is a huge step between having a one on one affair with a woman (like he did with your g/f) and having a threesome. Lots say they are up for it but in reality they won’t go through with it or try and engineer a meeting with the woman alone. I’m not saying he will be like that but just because he was willing to have an affair doesn’t mean he will be up for MFM.
Maybe she can get his number and you can all discuss it at a later date? It could be highly embarrassing if he gets drunk and tells all at the party!
Maybe she can get his number and you can all discuss it at a later date? It could be highly embarrassing if he gets drunk and tells all at the party!
Thanks again.
I may even suggest that she flirts and takes it further and they have a one on one tonight and then take it from there for the mfm on another occasion. At least he'll be back in touch with her sexually, although he'll initially think she's cheating. The mfm can then be suggested at a later date.
Any comments?
I may even suggest that she flirts and takes it further and they have a one on one tonight and then take it from there for the mfm on another occasion. At least he'll be back in touch with her sexually, although he'll initially think she's cheating. The mfm can then be suggested at a later date.
Any comments?
Quote by Shireen
If it all goes tits up I am sure their are plenty here willing to step in the breach, do their bit for the good of society
Which is why I would suggest picking someone from the available single men on site and don't risk a friendship
So you don't shag friends then :roll:
Why do you think Dawn befriended you? :roll:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:I do shag friends if I have built the friendship through the site yes :rascal:
Sex God
Quote by NW30'scouple
Thanks again.
I may even suggest that she flirts and takes it further and they have a one on one tonight and then take it from there for the mfm on another occasion. At least he'll be back in touch with her sexually, although he'll initially think she's cheating. The mfm can then be suggested at a later date.
Any comments?
Do you really think that allowing him to think that she's cheating you and then running the risk that he'll find out that you were in on it all the time is a recipe for a fun 3-some?
That to me is disingenuous and will probably leave him thinking he's been manipulated and will also leave you with the knowledge that he is prepared to cheat on you.
Can of worms that.
Quote by Dawnie
If it all goes tits up I am sure their are plenty here willing to step in the breach, do their bit for the good of society
Which is why I would suggest picking someone from the available single men on site and don't risk a friendship
What Dawnie says is spot on.
But if you are determined that it should be him, wouldn't it be better to allow your girlfriend to speak to him privately about how she would like to do it again with him but that she is committed to you as well. Depending on how that goes, she may then be able to introduce the idea of the three of you getting together, maybe socially first, and see how things go. It might be some time before you can introduce the idea of a threesome - allowing him to form the idea on his own make take time but would be ideal. A bit of saucy hinting and flirting when the three of you are together socially may well induce that.
Good luck - these things are usually investing some time in - and take care.
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Quote by NW30'scouple
Thanks again.
I may even suggest that she flirts and takes it further and they have a one on one tonight and then take it from there for the mfm on another occasion. At least he'll be back in touch with her sexually, although he'll initially think she's cheating. The mfm can then be suggested at a later date.
Any comments?
Have you actually read back what you are suggesting here?
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To many men there.....
Never mind that! Berksbex!!!!!!!!! :bounce: :bounce: welcome home! :thumbup:
where the bloody hell have you been?
dont do that again! <hijack mode off> as you were folks!
LOL thanks for the welcome home Darkfire
Sometimes life REALLY sucks and sometimes family members go WAY off the rails and you have to stop your fun for a bit to sort the buggers out lol Anyway, I'm back part time. I have missed it here (and other places) alot...
Continue with the spanking, I rather like that :twisted:
:P
Quote by PoloLady
Thanks again.
I may even suggest that she flirts and takes it further and they have a one on one tonight and then take it from there for the mfm on another occasion. At least he'll be back in touch with her sexually, although he'll initially think she's cheating. The mfm can then be suggested at a later date.
Any comments?
Have you actually read back what you are suggesting here?
Seems like one twisted nasty mind game to me :roll:
Sex God
As I have just posted (the fukin post disappeared 
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You could simply walk over to him with a pint in each hand and say
"How about you and me tag-teaming my missus"
)You could simply walk over to him with a pint in each hand and say
"How about you and me tag-teaming my missus"
