Help!!!!! I've looked everywhere. Occasionally I see a glimmer of it when I am reading, or feel a tingle of it when I am driving but alas, if I were to direct my attention to it, it vanishes. It catches me unaware and if not acted upon swiftly, it flutters away. I've lost my sex drive!! I have more passion for cherry laurels and the healing properties of calendula.
Is this common or should I consult a sex therapist? I have issues, right? My other half is tearing his hair out (thank God he has quite a bit) and the only time he seems to get any chance is at about 6 am in the morning and 1 am at night. It's not like I don't enjoy it as once I get into the thick of it, it's hard to get me to stop but just starting is the problem.
We should have an agony aunt thread.
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no its quite normal to loose ur sex drive from time to time, it usually happens if ur under a lot of stress or preasure, or suffering from depression maybe, not that i am trying to nose into ur personal life but prozac has this effect on women, maybe ur just tired and ur body needs a rest for a while, i shouldn't worry about it for now i'm sure it will return 
well, theres two ways to go i think Maia,
1 - just chill for a while, enjoy your time away from work while you can and see to the jasmine forest
or
2 - room full of naked people and you in the middle, see what happens
personally, on a serious note, i think sex is like anything else - all good in moderation, but if you go overboard, serious chance of overdosing (and yes i know that will get me a spanking of some peeps who will no doubt disagree!
)
Ian
1 - just chill for a while, enjoy your time away from work while you can and see to the jasmine forest
or
2 - room full of naked people and you in the middle, see what happens
personally, on a serious note, i think sex is like anything else - all good in moderation, but if you go overboard, serious chance of overdosing (and yes i know that will get me a spanking of some peeps who will no doubt disagree!
)Ian
Hmm - I know how you feel, mine waxes and wanes sometimes - I'm sure there's a cycle to sex drive just like anything else. I'd go with it and see what happens, it can be nice laying off something for a while, makes you discover it anew when you get back in the groove...
Here's to mellow times
:smile2:
and the rediscovery of your mojo...
:rascal:
Japes
Here's to mellow times
:smile2:
and the rediscovery of your mojo...
:rascal:
Japes
Dont worry Maia, common occurence in this house that sex drive goes on vacation for a few weeks, from either side of the equation...
Tiredness, kids, minor colds, weather, work, various boby cycle things all seem to play a part... if it does not settle go see your doc for advice, but I would not panic yet
Tiredness, kids, minor colds, weather, work, various boby cycle things all seem to play a part... if it does not settle go see your doc for advice, but I would not panic yet
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Tiredness, kids, minor colds, weather, work, various boby cycle things all seem to play a part... if it does not settle go see your doc for advice, but I would not panic yet
I like that ... boby cycle.. :) I know what you mean.
As for going to my doc for advice... I might consider it if I have one.
I think it might have something to do with having to pick up endless bottles of Stella littered in my side garden almost on a daily basis since my new neighbour moved in - some of the bottles even had piss in it. Lovely
Oh well, it's nice to know that even swingers can have an off day (ermm or week in my case!)
P.S. i was on FlyBe, so I don't think you found my book! (Still trying to remember what I used as a bookmark :shock: )
Vix?
Sexpert
crystal's sex drive wanders off for no reason what so ever all the time in this house and can be on walkabout for months on end to sudanlly reapear without warning and end up with me screaming no more please dear go let it stop after a week of being used as a human sex toy.
its ur other halfs job to find ur sex drive babes not urs , all it takes is a well planned suduction at an unexpected time rather than spur of the moment or bedtime sex ect .
matt
its ur other halfs job to find ur sex drive babes not urs , all it takes is a well planned suduction at an unexpected time rather than spur of the moment or bedtime sex ect .
matt
Quote by Vix
I reckon it turned up naked & hungry on a 'plane to Edinborough.
Send the airline a note saying you have some orios, and see if it retrurns to you.
La la la la la.
I am talking to myself, as usual.
Lal la la la la.
hee heee... no Vix, am not ignoring you. Having to wipe the drool off my nouth everytime I look at your avatar and not having a hanky large enough.
:D Roll on voting day for the best booby avatar ...... 