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We both realised a long time ago even while watching porn together we both preferred the woman with men scenes. Often saying the girl on girl looked sensual but from a sexual arousal point of view men with a woman did it for both of us.
Even discussing fantasies over the years together I have mentioned him with another woman and it has had little impact on him. As soon as I have mentioned me with another man there has been an instant reaction. I have never had a sexual desire for another women although I have spoken to and get on well with a number of women here that are bi and had great laughs with and mutual respect for.
I would even choose MMFF as a second option if hubby ever changed his mind and wanted another woman.
So our preference is MMF or more M's :rascal:
Even though hubby has not always wanted to join in.
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MMF, MFF, MMFF what is your preference?
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MMF or MFF what is your preference?
I am a female and my preference is MMF
I am a female and my preference is MFF
I am a female and my preference is MMFF
I am a male and my preference is MMF
I am a male and my preference is MFF
I am a male and my preference is MMFF
I am a female and prefer a MMF
I am a female and prefer a MFF
I am a female and prefer a MMFF
I am a male and prefer a MMF
I am a male and prefer a MFF
I am a male and prefer a MMFF
Sex God
Quote by Theladyisaminx
It's got to be MMF for me. I don't know what it is but like your hubby it really gets me going :twisted:
You said you don't know what it is?
Did you mean you have not yet indulged in the act yourself yet?Think the guys means that he cant explain why it is that he likes MMF just that he does Minx
I cant explain why I like watching J playing with a cpl but I just know that I do. So I guess I like the MFF scenario best even though i'm just a voyeur to it. In saying that I do find that two confident and competent guys playing with J is well horny but I think for me I get the best of everything in watching MFF.
Oddly though I don't find watching people playing does a lot for me unless J's involved and then I love it. Probably not the best idea to look into the psychology of why I do just be happy, that I do and I am.
Sex God
I voted for MMF.
We do play with more couples than singles as it's only fair that he gets to fuck random strangers too
I dont know why but I do think that when we play with single guys it's all a lot more relaxed and the sex is much better.
We do play with more couples than singles as it's only fair that he gets to fuck random strangers too
I dont know why but I do think that when we play with single guys it's all a lot more relaxed and the sex is much better.
Quote by Lost
It's got to be MMF for me. I don't know what it is but like your hubby it really gets me going :twisted:
You said you don't know what it is?
Did you mean you have not yet indulged in the act yourself yet?Think the guys means that he cant explain why it is that he likes MMF just that he does Minx
I cant explain why I like watching J playing with a cpl but I just know that I do. So I guess I like the MFF scenario best even though i'm just a voyeur to it. In saying that I do find that two confident and competent guys playing with J is well horny but I think for me I get the best of everything in watching MFF.
Oddly though I don't find watching people playing does a lot for me unless J's involved and then I love it. Probably not the best idea to look into the psychology of why I do just be happy, that I do and I am.
Hello Lost x Good to see you posting
Not seen you about here for a while.
Since we started meeting hubby is like you in the fact watching others play isn't his thing anymore, he much prefers the couple of videos he has of me playing in the past.
Sex God
Quote by Theladyisaminx
It's got to be MMF for me. I don't know what it is but like your hubby it really gets me going :twisted:
You said you don't know what it is?
Did you mean you have not yet indulged in the act yourself yet?Think the guys means that he cant explain why it is that he likes MMF just that he does Minx
I cant explain why I like watching J playing with a cpl but I just know that I do. So I guess I like the MFF scenario best even though i'm just a voyeur to it. In saying that I do find that two confident and competent guys playing with J is well horny but I think for me I get the best of everything in watching MFF.
Oddly though I don't find watching people playing does a lot for me unless J's involved and then I love it. Probably not the best idea to look into the psychology of why I do just be happy, that I do and I am.
Hello Lost x Good to see you posting
Not seen you about here for a while.
Since we started meeting hubby is like you in the fact watching others play isn't his thing anymore, he much prefers the couple of videos he has of me playing in the past.
Good to see you too Minx. Did yell you in the chat room t'other day although it was full and you looked like you had your fingers busy (oooerrrr lol) on the keyboard.
Yeah definitely my thing but must admit that I'm far to jealous a guy too watch J on video with someone else. I got to be there in person to make it work for me. Fortunately J likes me watching her in person and is honest in saying that without me there she couldn't. That's not to say I have to be breathing down her neck just within a few yards or so.
We did once try with J disappearing off with a guy into another room without me but J said she found it difficult to fully enjoy. Quite often leave her at it for a few minutes while I make free with a kettle though. Well you cant watch a good session without a mug of the immaculate drink that is coffee now can you :)
Sex God
Quote by Funlovers2009
I dont know why but I do think that when we play with single guys it's all a lot more relaxed and the sex is much better.
Definately MMF for us as well. We have tried the couple thing and apart from one couple who we have been friends with for years and years, I dont think it is something we would go back to doing. It is great if all four hit it off, but its much harder to find the right couple to meet than to find the right single (if that makes sense)
MMF much more relaxing, really good fun and a laugh (as well as being very, very naughty)
Sex God
MMF for me.
I like being centre on attention
I like being centre on attention
Sex God
MMF - I find it better when the focus is on one female.
Quote by Funlovers2009
I voted for MMF.
We do play with more couples than singles as it's only fair that he gets to fuck random strangers too
I dont know why but I do think that when we play with single guys it's all a lot more relaxed and the sex is much better.
:thumbup:
we also voted MMF
we have played with a few single guys from another site and there does seam to be less pressure certainly on me than with a couple :lol:
plus i do like sitting back and watching mrs star get a good shagging by a youngish w/e stud. :lol:
My favourite preference isn't in the list :sad:
I prefer MF
Be that with my partner or with another female, we both play alone though I do not actively seek to play alone, that is to say I don't contact single females and I don't advertise to meet alone but sometimes it happens with some of the single females we know.
We also play as couple with other couples or single females and this is what we do more often than not.
Neither of us play alone without the knowledge of the other and we do not knowingly meet men or women who are playing without thier partners consent (no matter how cute they are
I prefer MF
Be that with my partner or with another female, we both play alone though I do not actively seek to play alone, that is to say I don't contact single females and I don't advertise to meet alone but sometimes it happens with some of the single females we know.
We also play as couple with other couples or single females and this is what we do more often than not.
Neither of us play alone without the knowledge of the other and we do not knowingly meet men or women who are playing without thier partners consent (no matter how cute they are
Sex God
MMF 
:smoke:
:smoke: 
Sex God
I voted MFMF but in all honesty now I prefer the party or orgy room scenario. Why MFMF? I guess when I was 16 and watching porn with my shorts round my ankles I was thinking cawww I want to fuck her. The same still applies now when possible I like to shag woman I find attractive. I think thats also part of why I like the party or orgy scenario as its visual but with a good chance of joining in. Have done and do do MMF its cool but has to be a equal thing not into the cuck and bull stuff. MFF, will let you know when Ive been lucky enough to try
Orgasminator
what i prefer and what i compromise on in a meeting with my partner is totally different as is his personal choices and compromises. but will also add that the choices of what i prefer differ as to if its a meet or a club or a dogging meet or a party plus it also depends on the state of mind at the time
Warming the Bed
No surprise that females would prefer a MMF having chatted to many females would have put money on that choice. But I am surprised that MFF is not the clear leader for the guys, had that down as men's top fantasy, may be in reality guys worry if they can service two at once.
Couple of interesting points to make: Most men you speak to say how much they'd like to watch or do like to see two girls together but the results so far show that men aren't that bothered about joining two girls for a threesome.
Also having met several couples for MMF its surprising how many women refuse to do FFM because they don't want their partners to touch another woman, even though they are only too happy to meet other men themselves. In fact it seems to be quite a common thing.
My own partner, who I met through this site, has similar objections. She will gladly do MMF with me but not FFM. Fortunately I prefer MMF anyway.
Also having met several couples for MMF its surprising how many women refuse to do FFM because they don't want their partners to touch another woman, even though they are only too happy to meet other men themselves. In fact it seems to be quite a common thing.
My own partner, who I met through this site, has similar objections. She will gladly do MMF with me but not FFM. Fortunately I prefer MMF anyway.
Casanova
Quote by nostringsluton
single blokes make this site the success it has become
In light of this poll's results, the above quote - taken from the "Things you rarely hear" thread - suddenly rings very true
Sex God
Quote by pebble
single blokes make this site the success it has become
In light of this poll's results, the above quote - taken from the "Things you rarely hear" thread - suddenly rings very true
Its intersting as this is only a very few results and cant be taken as a view of the whole site. Though if this were to be a small on scale snap shot it might well explain why so many couples here have trouble finding other couples
As Ive said many times before we never got a couple meet from here but joined elsewhere and got one in no time flat and then more. It also feels on the other site more as though its couples looking for couples to greater extent. Also having met several couples for MMF its surprising how many women refuse to do FFM because they don't want their partners to touch another woman, even though they are only too happy to meet other men themselves. In fact it seems to be quite a common thing.
Re the above; In a FFM situation, would the partner (assuming it is the partner) of the male prefer a younger female or someone nearer their own age?
Surprising what one vote can do!
Sex God
Quote by steve_hockley
Also having met several couples for MMF its surprising how many women refuse to do FFM because they don't want their partners to touch another woman, even though they are only too happy to meet other men themselves. In fact it seems to be quite a common thing.
My own partner, who I met through this site, has similar objections. She will gladly do MMF with me but not FFM. Fortunately I prefer MMF anyway.
Personally, I have no problems with him touching another woman, he's done it too many times for it to bother me. We don't really look for MFF but that is mainly because for us they would generally involve single women and there are a couple of reasons why this bothers me:
Now I am not making a sweeping statement and saying that this applies to all single woman so please don't take this the wrong way and come and hunt me down ......
1. We have come across many single women on this and other sites who have openly admitted to me that they are after a bit more than just nsa sex. We have also met girls who have asked my hubby outright to meet them alone following a meet.
2. I ain't overly bi but will play with women if the mood takes me. I have found through talking to lots of women on this site and others, that women who advertise themselves as bi or bi selective are either really really bi or a bit like me and will have a bit of a dabble when they feel like it but are more into men. Some single girls even advertise themselves as bi so that they can get to the male half of a couple as they feel safer meeting a couple than a single guy. We have arranged MFF meets before where the girl has basically said when she got here that she just wants to play with my hubby as she ain't really bi! I ain't a sitting on the sidelines and watching kind of girl.
We do therefore meet single girls for MFF but only selective ones who we know very well, they know what we want out of a meet and most importantly we know they will pose no threat to our relationship. Gotta look after us hey!
We have never had any such issues with single guys, they just want the sex.
Sex God
The phone jacker needs to do a sketch wher he rings a sex shop asking for MFF a FMM and a MFMF concluded with a MFMMFMMMFFFFMMMFFF orgy :lol2:
Quote by Theladyisaminx
We haven't voted because we can't see a category we can genuinely vote for
but our preference is MFM
why is there not a 'we are a cpl and our pref is...' option?
Isn't MMF just the same as MFM?
yep of course it is - the bit we questioned was that the vote was not open to couples - but only to men or women - not couples - yet as far as we can see most ppl who have commented on this post are couples. Surely the preferences should have an option that allows a couple to express an opinion rather than just one half of the couple or the other - this is a joint thing after all
Quote by Laff_n_Chilli
We haven't voted because we can't see a category we can genuinely vote for
but our preference is MFM
why is there not a 'we are a cpl and our pref is...' option?
Isn't MMF just the same as MFM?
yep of course it is - the bit we questioned was that the vote was not open to couples - but only to men or women - not couples - yet as far as we can see most ppl who have commented on this post are couples. Surely the preferences should have an option that allows a couple to express an opinion rather than just one half of the couple or the other - this is a joint thing after all
Ah ok true, but I was merely asking male/ females choices as some couples although both know the other plays don't have the same preferences. I have suggested already on the suggestion thread that it would have been good to have two voting rights for couples that post.
