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Hello all,
So, I have a fantasy about a MMF threesome and it alllllmost happened last week but just not quite..... However, it did make me realise that although I fantasise about it, I am just not sure what would happen and how it would work? I'm experienced in FFM, but I imagine there are a number of differences!
What do the guys like? What have the 'F's enjoyed about them?
Any helpful comments / advice appreciated?
Ta!
Kx
Hi Kate... How exciting. I hope you get your moment.
From a female perspective:
I've only done MFM but am guessing other than being the main attraction they're pretty similar.
DP is definitely up there if you like to feel full. Spit Roast is hot and you have to Eiffel tower for the high five moment if nothing else :thumbup:
If you're going MMF then you've a daisy chain pretty much the same as a FFM. If you're into bukkake then you've a modest opportunity.
But really, other than the obvious, it's not that different. The same touching, kissing, watching etc. just hairier.
Have a wonderful time, I am very jealous.
Most guys are easy to weigh up, and they like whatever's on offer. Genuinely bisexual guys, some will claim not to be if there's a lady in the company, might have a different, tho' no less fun, agenda. The best way to come at this though, is without any agenda at all, unless one of the party has a wish to try something in particular. Very often it'll depend upon experience, as we all tend to harbour notions of trying something we've only heard about. The possibilities are endless though, and two lovers to one lady is a good starting point, and dp (should you wish to try it) is good for the guys too. Be clear on each's limitations, and be well stocked with condoms and lubes. Enjoy. wink
Thank you both, I've learnt something already, I didn't even know that there was a difference in expression between MMF and MFM but I can see that it makes sense.
Can I ask, what's an Eiffel tower? I could google it I'm sure but I am positive you guys will give better advice!
Spit roast is way up there especially as I enjoy being in the middle of a FFM..... DP, I'd like to try but it does make me a little nervous and I realise that this is something that will have to see how it goes.
Re the bi-side, I LGBT myself and I would be intrigued to see two guys together and see that level of enjoyment. It looks like this could happen next week so I am very excited!
We have had a few and where they are a bit of fun from my point of view Mrs J gets all squirty so I think she really likes them .
By a weird coincidence our two sons wandered into the front room talking about threesomes and Eiffel Tower was mentioned .
Apparently it's when a woman is being spit roasted the two two guys sort of high five with both hands .
Amazing what you can learn off your kids ( both in their twenties ).
I certainly could not of talked about that sort of thing in front of my parents !!.
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By a weird coincidence our two sons wandered into the front room talking about threesomes and Eiffel Tower was mentioned .
Apparently it's when a woman is being spit roasted the two two guys sort of high five with both hands .
Amazing what you can learn off your kids ( both in their twenties ).
I certainly could not of talked about that sort of thing in front of my parents !!.

Ahhhhhh! I seeeeeeeee!
Kx
If you're experienced with FFM then an MFM or MMF will be fine. Just imagine one of the fems from your previous experiences has a strap on! lol
I think its important to remember though, as the fem in the group its your rules and boundaries that are abided by and just go with what you are comfortable with. Lads can get a little exuberant at times, or go the other extreme and be so respectful they won't push boundaries lol
Have fun and enjoy
xx
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Hi Kate... How exciting. I hope you get your moment.
From a female perspective:
I've only done MFM but am guessing other than being the main attraction they're pretty similar.
DP is definitely up there if you like to feel full. Spit Roast is hot and you have to Eiffel tower for the high five moment if nothing else :thumbup:
If you're going MMF then you've a daisy chain pretty much the same as a FFM. If you're into bukkake then you've a modest opportunity.
But really, other than the obvious, it's not that different. The same touching, kissing, watching etc. just hairier.
Have a wonderful time, I am very jealous.

the high 5 moment.
oh yes wink
One thing I would suggest is to be very careful about the blokes you choose. Blokes can be either:
Complete dickheads when sex is involved, especially where another bloke is there too.
Or,
Get very nervous and bottle it.
The latter seems to go for some blokes on this site as well, if some correspondents from here are correct.
I once was asked by a female friend if she should accept an invite for a MMF off two lads she knew - asked her to describe them and my immediate reaction afterwards was to say forget it. The blokes have to remember YOU are in charge and that this is about YOU. If they show any inclination that they don't understand this then walk away. It should be an absolute blast you remember for the rest of your life, not something to cringe about every time you think of it.
One thing I might suggest is to ask couples on here for recommendations of suitable blokes they know.
Does that mean any of you may have some recommendations? I realise it's still down to the individuals and the 'click' but it would be good toile a running start ;)
Given I am inexperienced in MFM/MMF it would be good to be with some peeps that are happy and confident in what they are doing.
I would really like to make this happen, thank you all for the helpful advice.
Just off now to share my expertise of the female anatomy with another couple ;)
Kx
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Does that mean any of you may have some recommendations? I realise it's still down to the individuals and the 'click' but it would be good toile a running start ;)
Given I am inexperienced in MFM/MMF it would be good to be with some peeps that are happy and confident in what they are doing.
I would really like to make this happen, thank you all for the helpful advice.
Just off now to share my expertise of the female anatomy with another couple ;)
Kx

Just to add to this.... We as a couple meet two guys in London about three times a year which is a MMMF situation. The guys are both big, strong, fit guys but are both so easy going and uh mmm... Adventurous!... We are all so comfortable with each other now that we are a huge tangle of bodies with Mrs Hot in the middle but really with hands and mouths everywhere.
Whether it is just these two guys or whether it is the relaxed nature of how they are with us, we find this kind of group sex much more preferable than a so called threesome where actually the guy just wants to have sex with the Mrs.
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Just to add to this.... We as a couple meet two guys in London about three times a year which is a MMMF situation. The guys are both big, strong, fit guys but are both so easy going and uh mmm... Adventurous!... We are all so comfortable with each other now that we are a huge tangle of bodies with Mrs Hot in the middle but really with hands and mouths everywhere.
Whether it is just these two guys or whether it is the relaxed nature of how they are with us, we find this kind of group sex much more preferable than a so called threesome where actually the guy just wants to have sex with the Mrs.

Thank you for this, it's definitely something I want to explore. There may well be the opportunity for this but in an upcoming BDSM meet and what may follow on.
I guess it's a little difficult from a single F point of view and feeling confident in who I am meeting. I really like the idea of being with Bi M and a couple too. I hope that I will eventually get chatting to the right people!
Thanks all!
Kx
My wife & I, both in our sixties now have been thinking of getting another guy in for a MMF threesome to enhance her pleasure. We are clean, discreet & good company & very broad minded.
She has some previous experience (not good) with a former partner, but is keen to try again, as long a a clean, decent, intelligent second man can be found, preferably experienced.
Does anyone know of any in the Sheffield area that they are prepared to recommend. We are not looking for a toyboy or anyone exclusive to us-a mature, fit guy with a thick, hard cock would be nice, who is good company too. As I am bi, a guy with bi experience is essential, so I can get some extra fun too. Anyone under 45 is unlikely to qualify.
We are both reasonably attractive & fit, and love sexual fun in various formats.
Volunteers anyone?
Ciao!
Peter
We enjoy MMF threesomes, however although I as the fem seem to end up in charge, we meet bi men for the guys to have bi fun and that is the main part of our play on these occasions.
We only soft swap so the guy knows he won't get penetration with me, however we usually start with the two guys playing with each other and I assist as I choose and then whilst they recover from their exertions, I get the attention of both of them which is great.
Then it just continues as a tangle of bodies with us all touching whatever we can reach until we are all knackered and very happy.
Two couples playing also works the same way for us.
Good Luck and let the fun begin x x
All I can suggest is make sure you are 100% ready. I backed out twice and then when it happened it wasn't actually planned.

We had a great foursome with some bi play all round. We then had several MMF bi threesomes with the same guy with lots of cock sucking. Rose loved watching us go at it. Seeking a new, regular guy for bi MMF threesomes in Kent/London.

Hi , newbies to SH here , were looking for a bi guy for MMF fun , him is fully bi and versatile , her loves to watch and join in , if your a good looking , nice smelling guy who can accom and this scenario appeals to you please do get in touch x

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Hi , newbies to SH here , were looking for a bi guy for MMF fun , him is fully bi and versatile , her loves to watch and join in , if your a good looking , nice smelling guy who can accom and this scenario appeals to you please do get in touch x

Hi ya I’m interested I can accommodate I always smell nice and I’m good and you are sure to be entertained message me to find out more ask me anything xx

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Quote by himandher123456

Hi , newbies to SH here , were looking for a bi guy for MMF fun , him is fully bi and versatile , her loves to watch and join in , if your a good looking , nice smelling guy who can accom and this scenario appeals to you please do get in touch x

Hi ya I’m interested I can accommodate I always smell nice and I’m good and you are sure to be entertained message me to find out more ask me anything xx

But of a trek to Cheshire I'm afraid

I can travel I like a road trip

I meet a few couples for MMF via another 'fab'ulous site and the warnings above about some guys motives are not infrequent, in that they report that some men pretend to be bi just as an excuse to just have sex with the woman.

In MMF it is a true threesome, no just two seperate guys taking turns with the woman; all well and good if that's what you are after but not if you want a full inter-male participation.