moist wife

a bit of advice really here.

last night we had a take away with some friends, we ordered it on the phone 45 min wait so me and  mates gf went to pub nearby then picked it and friend had some thing to discuss, so stayed in when i said it would be 45 min  wife said ok  normally she would be moaning at the wait.

when we got back wife was a bit lively,

later when they had gone we went to bed and messed around a bit  she was saying leave it till morning, but we carried on, she had had a few drinks and when she has she can let herself go a bit.

anyway i had got inside her and she was v moist i then went down on her and have never in 16 years has she been so wet and the taste was completely different to normal, i did comment at the time but we had both had a bit to drink so it passed by and the moist looked a whiteish colour rather than clear. today i thought about it and then wondered if some one else had been there before me ?

thoughts would be appreciated

Strange mky2 - your profile says you are single. 

I suppose the question is are you upset or turned on by the thought that your mate might have been there first! Is this something you've fantasised about happening? Have you ever talked to your wife about her having another guy.

Obviously the background is important here to the issue you're raising.

profile never been changed since i got married

yes i have thought about it and really i am annoyed cos i would love to watch.

not discussed it vaguely talked about other joining but only pillow talk and i would not raise it any other time 

Ah - that explains the profile. 

Yes I can understand why you'd be annoyed if you want to watch your wife with another man but it happened without you. Next time you and the wife are getting intimate why not mention how much it would turn you on to see her with another guy - and judge her reaction. If she seems  interested you could say you think your mate really fancies her. If she knows that turns you on, if she has been naughty, she might confess but either way you'll  be sowing the thought in your wife's  mind and that might be the start of moving towards  what you want.

I confessed to my wife years ago that the thought of watching her having sex with another guy really turned me on. For a long time it's been a bedroom fantasy. Recently my wife told me that she was ready for us to make the fantasy reality - which is why we are now on SH making contact with suitable guys. We haven't done the deed yet but we do think we've found the right guy to be my wife's first (though if she enjoys herself, hopefully not her last). So you never know - if you're  honest with your wife but not pushy, where it might lead. You could set up a new joint profile on here and see if any guys take your wife's fancy.

Sorry - that doesn't answer the question about whether your wife has already had your mate but if she has (or even if she hasn't) and knows the idea turns you on, she might be prepared to let you watch her with him (or another guy). I hope you get what you want BUT before you ask the question be sure you want to know and can accept the answer. She's probably going to be embarrassed ( and might regret what she's done - if anything). If she has cheated, can you cope with that and move forward as a couple and maybe explore that further as something you want to share? Or will you resent her for cheating. What if she has strayed and regrets it and never wants to have sex with another man again no matter how much you want her to? How will you deal with that?

No easy answers I'm afraid but I do wish you lots of luck and hope all works out well for you both whatever has happened and whatever you decide to do going forward.