Mrs Lost wants too...

25 Jun 2007

Mrs Lost wants to fulfill a fantasy (i'm not quite sure that's what you'd call it?) but its difficult.
Here goes - She wants to see two guys make out full on the works etc. Now funnily enough I dont! We dont do seperate meets etc its not within our remit (remit ffs! rolleyes

)
Now i did suggest that possibly if this was a thing she really wanted to do then maybe we could arrange it that I could be in another room with some loud T.V. going on or something.
But being a woman as we all know means no compromise wink

Nope she wants me there ??? !!!
Well I'm not up for that. Am i being unfair as i'm well up for perving Mrs Lost with other blokes and fems??? But i really dont think i could sit and watch to gay guys going at it. Am i prone once again to a double standard ?

26 Jun 2007

I think you should give it a try biggrin

At the moment its a preconception that you dont like it, give it a try and you never know you might really enjoy it :D

26 Jun 2007

If there is something you dont want to do(for whatever reason) then surely its not too much for Mrs Lost to understand dunno

I would never force/insist Shireen did anything she didnt want to do..

26 Jun 2007

well if you really don`t want to do then mrs lost is just going to have to give up on that one, unless of course you just tweek your remit slightly lol

26 Jun 2007

Put it this way, if it were the other way around and you were trying to force her to do something she didn't want to (even watch), and you posted on here, you'd be hung, drawn and quartered. confused

26 Jun 2007

In the end Lost its not what we here think about it all, its how you and Mrs Lost are affected in your relationship over this issue. It depends how averse you are to seeing 2 men play verses how much she wants to see it. One or both of you will have to shift your postion and come to some sort of compromise in this .. just don't let it become a huge issue that damages your relationship ... its not worth it. Try and talk out why you both feel as you do about this and see if there are any areas you can move ground in, or come to a better understanding of each others reasons for and against said situation.
If in the end you really feel it would be impossible to sit there with the 3 of them then don't do it.
Best of Luck DD

26 Jun 2007

Yeah think you all are right on this one. The opportunity presented itself a little while back and if it does again then think on it i will. Mrs Lost would never demand that i did anything i wasn't prepared to as i wouldn't her. Its just this we may only be here once and if it dont hurt no one then why not? I expect its centuries of conditioning that gets in the way.
Thanks for your input S & J

26 Jun 2007

Am i being unfair as i'm well up for perving Mrs Lost with other blokes and fems??? But i really dont think i could sit and watch to gay guys going at it. Am i prone once again to a double standard ?

not a double standard exactly. if you're uncomfortable, your uncomfortable. you might feel more comfortable though if instead of concentrating on the fact there's two guys shagging in front of you, you could concentrate on mrs lost's reactions to them, you would probably find the whole experience a whole lot sexier, and much easier to be involved in. i suspect you'd find it rather arousing? probably! ;) lol

neil x x x ;)

26 Jun 2007

if your not comfortable with something,you have every right to say no to it...have you asked your wife why you have to actually be in the room rather than in another?

26 Jun 2007

Quote by neilinleeds
Am i being unfair as i'm well up for perving Mrs Lost with other blokes and fems??? But i really dont think i could sit and watch to gay guys going at it. Am i prone once again to a double standard ?

not a double standard exactly. if you're uncomfortable, your uncomfortable. you might feel more comfortable though if instead of concentrating on the fact there's two guys shagging in front of you, you could concentrate on mrs lost's reactions to them, you would probably find the whole experience a whole lot sexier, and much easier to be involved in. i suspect you'd find it rather arousing? probably! ;) lol

neil x x x ;)
Like your thinking there Neil going to masticate that one over for sure cool

Never even occured to me thanks!

26 Jun 2007

Quote by Mr-Powers
if your not comfortable with something,you have every right to say no to it...have you asked your wife why you have to actually be in the room rather than in another?

Yeah asked her that long time ago regarding seperate swing Mr Powers. Im not really into swinging with another partner myself and so that makes some difference. As for Mrs Lost though she says that of course she could physically shag someone while i wasn't there. The Head stuff would be too great for her.
The fact that me being there adds spice! Rhe fact that i am there may possible be a conscience thing you could assume. I expect that being in the same room i am complicit and she knows it turns me on lots so that is a benefit to both our sex lives.

26 Jun 2007

Im supporting you mate ! I said no to Silkys hermaphrodite midget/axle grease/ship in a bottle fantasy - if a fellas not up for it , hes just not mate.

26 Jun 2007

Quote by Lost
if your not comfortable with something,you have every right to say no to it...have you asked your wife why you have to actually be in the room rather than in another?

Yeah asked her that long time ago regarding seperate swing Mr Powers. Im not really into swinging with another partner myself and so that makes some difference. As for Mrs Lost though she says that of course she could physically shag someone while i wasn't there. The Head stuff would be too great for her.
The fact that me being there adds spice! Rhe fact that i am there may possible be a conscience thing you could assume. I expect that being in the same room i am complicit and she knows it turns me on lots so that is a benefit to both our sex lives.
but it doesn't turn you on seeing two guys shagging each other rather than shagging your wife,if she just wants to watch two guys shagging,why does she expect you to sit through it?...if she just wanted the guys to give her a good seeing to that i can understand, if she wants you there to watch that!

26 Jun 2007

Quote by Lost

But i really dont think i could sit and watch to gay guys going at it. Am i prone once again to a double standard ?

This is what I think - no1 is obvious - if you really feel strongly about it then don't do it, and Mrs Lost will just have to see it all in her dirty little mind every time she feels her little fingers... you get the drift. javascript:emoticon(':P')
HOWEVER! There is No2. - who said the 'gay guys' have tobe gay guys? Why not invite a couple of bi-guys for a little party - start off with Mrs. Lost having her oh-so-lucky day with all three of you first - all very straight and fabulous and excititng, and THEN, like a desert, if you will - she gets the two bi-guys to play with each other as well. At this point, you will be as turned on as everyone else and you'll probably realise that there's really nothing to it, OR, even if you do still feel as you did before, the game stops but no one minds because you all had fun :emoticon(' cool

') What do you think- can you see that work for you?
Good luck, either way.
Amarcord

26 Jun 2007

Oh, and - excuse idiots - how do I use an emoticon without the silly 'java emoticon' message and the brakets?

26 Jun 2007

Quote by Mr-Powers
if your not comfortable with something,you have every right to say no to it...have you asked your wife why you have to actually be in the room rather than in another?

Yeah asked her that long time ago regarding seperate swing Mr Powers. Im not really into swinging with another partner myself and so that makes some difference. As for Mrs Lost though she says that of course she could physically shag someone while i wasn't there. The Head stuff would be too great for her.
The fact that me being there adds spice! Rhe fact that i am there may possible be a conscience thing you could assume. I expect that being in the same room i am complicit and she knows it turns me on lots so that is a benefit to both our sex lives.
but it doesn't turn you on seeing two guys shagging each other rather than shagging your wife,if she just wants to watch two guys shagging,why does she expect you to sit through it?...if she just wanted the guys to give her a good seeing to that i can understand, if she wants you there to watch that!
Mrs Lost being involved physically at some point would be the case Mr-Powers. So i think that i just have to think hard and long and make a decision. It's not really a big prblem as Mrs Lost says its just idle fantasy and curiousity not something that has to be done. And for me well i donr object to seeing men with my mrs and that has inevitably lead to some very close male to male contact. Hmmm think on mr Lost ....

26 Jun 2007

Quote by Amarcord

But i really dont think i could sit and watch to gay guys going at it. Am i prone once again to a double standard ?

This is what I think - no1 is obvious - if you really feel strongly about it then don't do it, and Mrs Lost will just have to see it all in her dirty little mind every time she feels her little fingers... you get the drift. javascript:emoticon(':P')
HOWEVER! There is No2. - who said the 'gay guys' have tobe gay guys? Why not invite a couple of bi-guys for a little party - start off with Mrs. Lost having her oh-so-lucky day with all three of you first - all very straight and fabulous and excititng, and THEN, like a desert, if you will - she gets the two bi-guys to play with each other as well. At this point, you will be as turned on as everyone else and you'll probably realise that there's really nothing to it, OR, even if you do still feel as you did before, the game stops but no one minds because you all had fun :emoticon(' cool

') What do you think- can you see that work for you?
Good luck, either way.
Amarcord
Masticating faster now!!! :lol2:

26 Jun 2007

Why not invite someone over for yourself. Can't say it's something i have any interest in seeing but when it was happening about 3 feet away from me i just put my head back between the thighs of the rather delicious female i was entertaining and got back to what i do enjoy :lickface:

26 Jun 2007

Or why not get her the full seasons dvd's of WWF wrestling , thats close enough surely !

27 Jun 2007

Quote by Amarcord
Oh, and - excuse idiots - how do I use an emoticon without the silly 'java emoticon' message and the brakets?

When you click to reply/post a message, you can see the emoticons on the left of the box you're typing into. Just click on one of them and it appears in your message. If you click on 'view more emoticons', there's a wider selection - just click on those to add them to your post. The emoticon doesn't appear when you're typing but it does appear in the message you post on forum.

27 Jun 2007

Ok , Here's an idea for ya .
I have a similar problem with Mrs W but it holds absolutely no interest to me whatsoever heres the idea ........
why no get Mrs Lost and Mrs W to arrange to meet up with two guys (for their own selfish pleasure) and Mr Lost and I can go down the pub for a couple of hours and put the world to rights lol

27 Jun 2007

Quote by willing2try_4
Ok , Here's an idea for ya .
I have a similar problem with Mrs W but it holds absolutely no interest to me whatsoever heres the idea ........
why no get Mrs Lost and Mrs W to arrange to meet up with two guys (for their own selfish pleasure) and Mr Lost and I can go down the pub for a couple of hours and put the world to rights lol

:thumbup: :cheers: :thumbup: :cheers: :thumbup: :cheers:
We going down the pub. And so what are you two girls doing today darling!
:lol2:

27 Jun 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
When you click to reply/post a message, you can see the emoticons on the left of the box you're typing into.

Thanks, Frecklebird for spotting the novice. I did exactly that and I got the emoticon alright, but with it I lalso got the words blah/blah, and no one else seems to get that....
Oh well, I'll either figure it out or I'll just stop making facse. biggrin

Amarcord

27 Jun 2007

Bend over & take it like a man.
bolt

27 Jun 2007

Quote by winchwench
Bend over & take it like a man.

Stop stealing my chat-up lines!! smackbottom

27 Jun 2007

Quote by Kiss
Bend over & take it like a man.

Stop stealing my chat-up lines!! smackbottom

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Ooooh- that spanking feels kinda nice redface

27 Jun 2007

Quote by Amarcord
Oh well, I'll either figure it out or I'll just stop making facse.
Amarcord

Well, that worked!

27 Jun 2007

Quote by Amarcord
HOWEVER! There is No2. - who said the 'gay guys' have to be gay guys? Why not invite a couple of bi-guys for a little party - start off with Mrs. Lost having her oh-so-lucky day with all three of you first - all very straight and fabulous and excititng, and THEN, like a desert, if you will - she gets the two bi-guys to play with each other as well. At this point, you will be as turned on as everyone else and you'll probably realise that there's really nothing to it, OR, even if you do still feel as you did before, the game stops but no one minds because you all had fun anayway. ('') What do you think- can you see that work for you?
Good luck, either way.
Amarcordliked the suggestion bi guys can do straight? who'd have thunk it? ;)
neil x x x ;)
p.s. had to edit out the javascript:emoticons? not sure why it's doing that? i see 'em in a quote, and have to edit, but not in a post? prolly summat's broke at the minute?

27 Jun 2007

voice of experience perchance? :P
No, just overactive imagination - wouldn't you want to be there? :twisted:
Interestingly, my bi-phase is kind of recent, actually, it sort of crept up on me, when we started swinging. But I LIKE IT!
:lickface:
oh, and it looks like I've sorted my little emoticons problem. :bounce: