Munch Attendees

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Jags
I'm still in the dark! As I understand it they NEVER gave an opinion on this site so what they mean is beyond me!
However, I do completely understand why she's not now going to say anything so perhaps it's best left alone.

Seeing as she got ridiculed for something she said on another site I am not surprised she feels uncomfortable with saying anything tbh...
Apologies Dammie kiss

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Jags

HisandHers I understand why you wont say anything...

I'm still in the dark! As I understand it they NEVER gave an opinion on this site so what they mean is beyond me!
However, I do completely understand why she's not now going to say anything so perhaps it's best left alone.
rolleyes

Not getting into this again Jags go n harrass some-one else

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Shireen

I'm still in the dark! As I understand it they NEVER gave an opinion on this site so what they mean is beyond me!
However, I do completely understand why she's not now going to say anything so perhaps it's best left alone.

Seeing as she got ridiculed for something she said on another site I am not surprised she feels comfortable with saying anything tbh...
Apologies Dammie kiss

Ah, now I get it. She NEVER did give an opinion on this site, right?? And I don't think 'ridiculed' quite covers it. The point was that she didn't say it on this site.
However, not yourrow and certainly not mine now. That was last night and, if you want to continue this discussion then I suppose you should be taking it to PM!
cool

22 Apr 2007

Quote by hisandhers
Not getting into this again Jags go n harrass some-one else

If you suggest just once more in the open forum that you are being harrassed I would feel it incumbent on me to make an official complaint about your behaviour. Now, you take your choice. I asked you not to raise the topic again in public and you have chosen to ignore it.
rolleyes

22 Apr 2007

I am still curious as to who the guest with no name was confused

Were they a member?

22 Apr 2007

Now then, where were we?..... oh yes, Munches Munch Attendees no less
wink

22 Apr 2007

Quote by PoloLady
I am still curious as to who the guest with no name was
Were they a member?

Have you not read the Wigan Munch thread YET??? Page 26 I believe is where Annie is mentioned...
:P

22 Apr 2007

Do you know .......... some people in here love to light the blue touch paper and retire!!!
Anyone want a drinkie? Jags a large scotch mist and coke Darlin?
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

22 Apr 2007

Quote by blonde
Do you know .......... some people in here love to light the blue touch paper and retire!!!
Anyone want a drinkie? Jags a large scotch mist and coke Darlin?
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

No, just a little one please, need to keep a clear head! But light on the coke though.
lol

:lol:

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Jags
I am still curious as to who the guest with no name was
Were they a member?

Have you not read the Wigan Munch thread YET??? Page 26 I believe is where Annie is mentioned...
:P
I read page 26 and there were apparently 2 guests - 1 of which was Annie.

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Important announcement
I just wanted you all to know about two guests who will be attending the Wigan Munch. These are the two people who will be working on the publication of the Swinging Heaven Magazine.

We do not yet know who the other person was/is - or at least I don't

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Jags
I am still curious as to who the guest with no name was
Were they a member?

Have you not read the Wigan Munch thread YET??? Page 26 I believe is where Annie is mentioned...
:P
yep
"I just wanted you all to know about two guestswho will be attending the Wigan Munch. These are the two peoplewho will be working on the publication of the Swinging Heaven Magazine."
So Annie was one and the other ?

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Jags

Not getting into this again Jags go n harrass some-one else

If you suggest just once more in the open forum that you are being harrassed I would feel it incumbent on me to make an official complaint about your behaviour. Now, you take your choice. I asked you not to raise the topic again in public and you have chosen to ignore it.
rolleyes

tbh - It's this kind of thing, or even the threat of it, which stopped me posting on the forum about a year ago. I accept that due to my lack of posting recently - my comments, and general opinion may be of no relevance, However - surely the fact that I also feel like it's constantly on "egg shells" in here, and the slightest wrong word, or action could get you a ban, So I choose to no longer post - And thats just me - I'm sure there are a hell of a lot more!
kbuk

22 Apr 2007

Quote by kbuk
tbh - It's this kind of thing, or even the threat of it, which stopped me posting on the forum about a year ago. I accept that due to my lack of posting recently - my comments, and general opinion may be of no relevance, However - surely the fact that I also feel like it's constantly on "egg shells" in here, and the slightest wrong word, or action could get you a ban, So I choose to no longer post - And thats just me - I'm sure there are a hell of a lot more!
kbuk

Perception is a funny thing.

22 Apr 2007

Quote by kbuk

Not getting into this again Jags go n harrass some-one else

If you suggest just once more in the open forum that you are being harrassed I would feel it incumbent on me to make an official complaint about your behaviour. Now, you take your choice. I asked you not to raise the topic again in public and you have chosen to ignore it.
rolleyes

tbh - It's this kind of thing, or even the threat of it, which stopped me posting on the forum about a year ago. I accept that due to my lack of posting recently - my comments, and general opinion may be of no relevance, However - surely the fact that I also feel like it's constantly on "egg shells" in here, and the slightest wrong word, or action could get you a ban - And thats just me - I'm sure there are a hell of a lot more!
kbuk
And it seems that it's the same for everyone, including me for example. Should I be 'scared' into not saying my piece cos I'm an easy target when it comes to those with a grudge, or those who got caught out being two faced or those who can't have a debate without it turning nasty and personal?
Seems that turinng over one stone brings out all those who have been in hiding for a long time. Welcome back, it's good to see you come home. And, I promise you that that was said sincerely.
Only edited to correct two spelling mistakes, not to change the meaning or the content of the post!

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Shireen
Dammie do you ever think "Why do I bother??"

Only once Sweetie kiss

I kept falling off a horse.
Every time I asked him to canter, his spine would twist and dump me out the side door.
In the stable and paddock, he would stand on my toes. Push me. Even nip me if the opportunity arose.
He would even wave his back legs at me.
I would pull on his mouth far to harshly.
I would stroke him far to softly.
I would kick him in the entirely wrong places at the wrong times.
We didn't understand each other.
But time passed. We both made the required effort and we very slowly began to have an understanding of each other
Then - one day, totally out of the blue; he placed the end of his snout gently, but purposefully, on the back of my shoulder as an indication in his own language that he'd made a conscious decision to "choose" me.
I treasure the memories of our time together.
We respected each other.
I loved him.
R.I.P. my good friend Bertie

But why did I bother ????
Because the smooth by far outweighed the rough wink

22 Apr 2007

Quote by kbuk
tbh - It's this kind of thing, or even the threat of it, which stopped me posting on the forum about a year ago. I accept that due to my lack of posting recently - my comments, and general opinion may be of no relevance, However - surely the fact that I also feel like it's constantly on "egg shells" in here, and the slightest wrong word, or action could get you a ban, So I choose to no longer post - And thats just me - I'm sure there are a hell of a lot more!
kbuk

Two more feeling the same here! That and the cash cow ...... (well said Fem lol)
*Her*
*Her*

22 Apr 2007

Well I feel quite comfortable giving my opinion here and debating in here soo
At the risk of sounding like Jeremy Paxman...

Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Well now a few more mods are on line I would like to ask a simple question
Are SHM employees who have an SH login considered by the site admin & moderators to be "members"?

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Important announcement
I just wanted you all to know about two guests who will be attending the Wigan Munch. These are the two people who will be working on the publication of the Swinging Heaven Magazine.

Who was the 2nd mystery guest dunno

22 Apr 2007

I have to say this ......... and I know some people aint gonna like it but ......................
I assume the SH 4 Tops were honest and said that the editor of the SH Magazine and a friend were going to attend a munch???
Why did they bother?
They should have just sent them under bogus nicks and not been honest ..... then no-one would have been any the wiser and this shite wouldn't have happened!!!
It seems that everyday I sign in, there is yet another row about nothing!
I joined this site for a giggle ..... I thought everyone joined for fun!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

22 Apr 2007

Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Well I feel quite comfortable giving my opinion here and debating in here soo
At the risk of sounding like Jeremy Paxman...

Thanks HLB... oh, and I don't know! Sorry, but it's better than not replying at all!

22 Apr 2007

Quote by blonde
I have to say this ......... and I know some people aint gonna like it but ......................
I assume the SH 4 Tops were honest and said that the editor of the SH Magazine and a friend were going to attend a munch???
Why did they bother?
They should have just sent them under bogus nicks and not been honest ..... then no-one would have been any the wiser and this shite wouldn't have happened!!!

Amazingly enough that's exactly what I've just said in PM though I know it wasn't to you!!
Now that would have been cause for debate and outrage and high moral ground.

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Jags
Thanks HLB... oh, and I don't know! Sorry, but it's better than not replying at all!

And thanks for replying.
But I would genuinely like to know the answer to both questions. I realise the admin aren't around at the moment so hopefully they can shed some light on this.

22 Apr 2007

Quote by blonde
I have to say this ......... and I know some people aint gonna like it but ......................
I assume the SH 4 Tops were honest and said that the editor of the SH Magazine and a friend were going to attend a munch???
Why did they bother?
They should have just sent them under bogus nicks and not been honest ..... then no-one would have been any the wiser and this shite wouldn't have happened!!!

as unknown 'newbies' with new accounts, and with an organiser like NWC who knows what she's doing, they wouldnt have got in the Munch anyway wink

and i know i'm being pedantic hun, but surely the 'permission' to attend a Munch ultimately rests with the organiser, not Admin (4Tops) :dunno:

22 Apr 2007

Quote by HornyLittleBlonde

Thanks HLB... oh, and I don't know! Sorry, but it's better than not replying at all!

And thanks for replying.
But I would genuinely like to know the answer to both questions. I realise the admin aren't around at the moment so hopefully they can shed some light on this.
I would genuinely like to know too. The admin who are around aren't any who would know the answer probably so please don't take the silence as any form of not being willing to answer.

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Jags
I would genuinely like to know too. The admin who are around aren't any who would know the answer probably so please don't take the silence as any form of not being willing to answer.

:thumbup:
Hopefully we'll find out in the week.
In the meantime, if anyone want to hazard a guess....
answers on a postcard to:
The SH Mystery Guest competition
PO Box 69
SH Towers
:giggle:

22 Apr 2007

Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Well I feel quite comfortable giving my opinion here and debating in here ...

And it's never stopped Dammie either - me I am much more reserved :grin:

Quote by Jags
And it seems that it's the same for everyone, including me for example. Should I be 'scared' into not saying my piece cos I'm an easy target when it comes to those with a grudge, or those who got caught out being two faced or those who can't have a debate without it turning nasty and personal?

BIG pet hate of mine - people who say one thing in one place then act like butter wouldn't melt somewhere else.

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Darkfire
as unknown 'newbies' with new accounts, and with an organiser like NWC who knows what she's doing, they wouldnt have got in the Munch anyway
and i know i'm being pedantic hun, but surely the 'permission' to attend a Munch ultimately rests with the organiser, not Admin (4Tops)

Darkfire
Nicks have been registered here for Years and have never been used ......... they could have picked one of those!
All I am saying is they were honest ........ and were hung drawn and quartered for it!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

22 Apr 2007

Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
I would genuinely like to know too. The admin who are around aren't any who would know the answer probably so please don't take the silence as any form of not being willing to answer.

:thumbup:
Hopefully we'll find out in the week.
In the meantime, if anyone want to hazard a guess....
answers on a postcard to:
The SH Mystery Guest competition
PO Box 69
SH Towers
:giggle:
At the risk of sounding like I am having a dig at NWC (which I am not and I don't believe any of my comments so far have) - surely NWC was told?

22 Apr 2007

Quote by blonde

I assume the SH 4 Tops were honest and said that the editor of the SH Magazine and a friend were going to attend a munch???
Why did they bother?
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Because honesty, trust, and respect are very much appreciated ?
There was a change.
Some people objected.
A decision was made.
On this occasion, the change was reversed.
End of that particular issue.

Quote by dambuster
Please do not read this post, or use this thread as any sort of personal attack on any specific or individual munch organiser.
The SUBJECT/TOPIC is "Munch Attendees"

"Munch Attendees" - which has meandered into, amongst other things, "When is a member not a member"
The identity of the second "guest" is pretty much now irrelevant to me.
And . . . . .
I also have no problem giving my opinions and stating my case.
It/they will be accepted or they won't.
Some will agree.
Some will disagree.
Many will be ambivalent.
Most will be uninterested.
:dunno:

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Jags

Not getting into this again Jags go n harrass some-one else

If you suggest just once more in the open forum that you are being harrassed I would feel it incumbent on me to make an official complaint about your behaviour. Now, you take your choice. I asked you not to raise the topic again in public and you have chosen to ignore it.
rolleyes

tbh - It's this kind of thing, or even the threat of it, which stopped me posting on the forum about a year ago. I accept that due to my lack of posting recently - my comments, and general opinion may be of no relevance, However - surely the fact that I also feel like it's constantly on "egg shells" in here, and the slightest wrong word, or action could get you a ban - And thats just me - I'm sure there are a hell of a lot more!
kbuk
And it seems that it's the same for everyone, including me for example. Should I be 'scared' into not saying my piece cos I'm an easy target when it comes to those with a grudge, or those who got caught out being two faced or those who can't have a debate without it turning nasty and personal?
Seems that turinng over one stone brings out all those who have been in hiding for a long time. Welcome back, it's good to see you come home. And, I promise you that that was said sincerely.
Only edited to correct two spelling mistakes, not to change the meaning or the content of the post!
Thanks Jags ( and for the Spelling corrections!)
My Post was just a voice of frustration, generally. I honestly grieve when I come back to visit here. What used to be my home, has now become somewhere I no longer really recognise, nor feel comfortable. It's because the whole site appears to be over-regulated, over controlled, rules for anything and everything that a lot of people like myself don't post here these days. I guess I've just used this post as an outlet! I sincerely hope someone up above is paying attention! ( I apologise if it is Off Topic)
kbuk
p.s - yes - this is purely my perception - which, as Polo Lady has already mentioned, Is a funny thing!

22 Apr 2007

Quote by PoloLady
At the risk of sounding like I am having a dig at NWC (which I am not and I don't believe any of my comments so far have) - surely NWC was told?

You're right.
NWC is officially banned from entering the Mystery Guest competition - I'm not having allegations of cheating :shock: