I agree with your point Ian.
imyself have withnessed. more than should really go on in a public place.
to me a munch is purley social only. i go there to have a laugh and catch up with old freinds and new. i wouldn't dream of doing some of the stuff that happens. but then again i am a very private person.
Jiggle
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Munch attendees?
I would have no problem with gay people attending a munch or even a swinging party, none whatsoever. We all have our sexual preferences and just because we would or wouldn't do certain things doesn't stop us from going to parties. There is plenty of bi-play at parties anyway so no difference really!
Sex God
This is turning into a rather interesting thread so I thought I would put my opinions down in writing again.
With regards to Male:Male kissing I will actually give a qualified apology for my earlier posts - I want to live in a society where acceptable behavior is the same regardless of sexuality or sexual preference, sometimes I forget how far society has to change for that to be true.
With regards to sexual behavior at munches, I think sometimes we forget that the site is called "Swinging Heaven" for a reason - Sex underlies all activity on this site whether people want to have it, talk about, watch other people having it or whatever. Making friends on here is a very nice part of the site but if we only wanted friends we would be posting on "Friendship Heaven".
Also the behavior at munches that we are talking about is also happening up and down the country in ordinary clubs, bars, parties etc. If you go out late at night to a nightclub or bar you will see people snogging, touching each other up and if you look closely in the corners probably having full sex as well.
Lastly with regards to single straight males being downtrodden - to be honest I think a lot of single males on here need to get rid of the chip on their shoulder. I know I am one half of a married couple, however I swing as a single male. I am not particularly attractive, of average endowment and find large social gatherings a bit daunting. However I have had a bloody good time, I'm having a bloody good time and intend to continue having a bloody good time meeting people on this site. The fact that I can be Bi-sexual does not impact on this as I am really only looking to meet and play with women. The one thing I don't do though is spend my whole time on here bemoaning how unfair the site is and how no-one wants to know single guys.
I am aware that my opinions voiced above are not what everyone wants to hear, but at the end of the day they are only my opinions.
So when's the next party. 
Roger the Dragon.
With regards to Male:Male kissing I will actually give a qualified apology for my earlier posts - I want to live in a society where acceptable behavior is the same regardless of sexuality or sexual preference, sometimes I forget how far society has to change for that to be true.
With regards to sexual behavior at munches, I think sometimes we forget that the site is called "Swinging Heaven" for a reason - Sex underlies all activity on this site whether people want to have it, talk about, watch other people having it or whatever. Making friends on here is a very nice part of the site but if we only wanted friends we would be posting on "Friendship Heaven".
Also the behavior at munches that we are talking about is also happening up and down the country in ordinary clubs, bars, parties etc. If you go out late at night to a nightclub or bar you will see people snogging, touching each other up and if you look closely in the corners probably having full sex as well.
Lastly with regards to single straight males being downtrodden - to be honest I think a lot of single males on here need to get rid of the chip on their shoulder. I know I am one half of a married couple, however I swing as a single male. I am not particularly attractive, of average endowment and find large social gatherings a bit daunting. However I have had a bloody good time, I'm having a bloody good time and intend to continue having a bloody good time meeting people on this site. The fact that I can be Bi-sexual does not impact on this as I am really only looking to meet and play with women. The one thing I don't do though is spend my whole time on here bemoaning how unfair the site is and how no-one wants to know single guys.
I am aware that my opinions voiced above are not what everyone wants to hear, but at the end of the day they are only my opinions.
So when's the next party. Roger the Dragon.
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Also the behavior at munches that we are talking about is also happening up and down the country in ordinary clubs, bars, parties etc. If you go out late at night to a nightclub or bar you will see people snogging, touching each other up and if you look closely in the corners probably having full sex as well.
You really are not listening to what other people are saying though are you??.... Munches are not about playing/groping etc they are about meeting socially..... Not everyone wants to see that sort of thing and as it stands a munch is the ideal place for people to go to meet other people in a NON-swinging environment....
Gives up....
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I am aware that my opinions voiced above are not what everyone wants to hear, but at the end of the day they are only my opinions.
Roger the Dragon.
Would that be a pre/during or post munch party
: :?: cause the way I and others understand it a munch is slightly different from the kind of parties that are enjoyed here.. 
Sex God
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:kiss:Quote by rogerthedragon
Lastly with regards to single straight males being downtrodden - to be honest I think a lot of single males on here need to get rid of the chip on their shoulder.
I don't think the majority of single males on the site do have a chip on their shoulder. Admittedly some do but I find they usually don't hang around very long. It's a little bit difficult for the straight single guys to give their honest opinions about their sexuality or any other topic for that matter when the pat answer is "get rid of that chip off your shoulder"...............it's up there with the narrow minded accusation.
Quote by rogerthedragon
The one thing I don't do though is spend my whole time on here bemoaning how unfair the site is and how no-one wants to know single guys.
And the rest of us do?
Steve
Sex God
Quote by jiggle
to me a munch is purley social only.
Jiggle
Well, that's very handy if you live in Surrey
Sorry Jiggle
Mike.
Sex God
Quote by steveg_nw
It's a little bit difficult for the straight single guys to give their honest opinions about their sexuality
Why is it difficult for straight guys to express their sexuality on SH? I can't see how there is a problem. Straight guys like women, yes.... loads of guys express that they love/fancy/shag/adore women with no problems whatsoever.
Can someone please explain to me if there really is a problem from heterosexual men on here, cos I really don't see it.
Bev asked about whether a gay couple would be welcomed in the same way as other couples at a munch. From what you have all said, i think that's been answered. The kissing thing is another issue and wasn't what she asked. She asked so that a couple she talks to, could be put at ease about going to a munch.
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It's a little bit difficult for the straight single guys to give their honest opinions about their sexuality
Why is it difficult for straight guys to express their sexuality on SH? I can't see how there is a problem. Straight guys like women, yes.... loads of guys express that they love/fancy/shag/adore women with no problems whatsoever.
Can someone please explain to me if there really is a problem from heterosexual men on here, cos I really don't see it.
You could at least quote the whole sentence.
Steve
Sex God
Quote by steveg_nw
Lastly with regards to single straight males being downtrodden - to be honest I think a lot of single males on here need to get rid of the chip on their shoulder.
I don't think the majority of single males on the site do have a chip on their shoulder. Admittedly some do but I find they usually don't hang around very long. It's a little bit difficult for the straight single guys to give their honest opinions about their sexuality or any other topic for that matter when the pat answer is "get rid of that chip off your shoulder"...............it's up there with the narrow minded accusation.
Personally I don't care if a bloke is straight - but I fail to see how being Bi is any advantage when trying to meet a woman. The "chip" exists for some people because they perceive some Bi-sexual men on here having more success than them.
Quote by steveg_nw
The one thing I don't do though is spend my whole time on here bemoaning how unfair the site is and how no-one wants to know single guys.
And the rest of us do?
Steve
I don't know, do you? I was stateing what I don't don't do - not saying that everyone else does, there are certainly some men on here who do.
Roger.
GRIEF
We can't half manufacture an argument in a paper bag.
Think we are all singing from the same hymn sheet here so let's not pretend otherwise.
Gay couples are fine.
Gay couples at munches are fine.
Intimate sexual displays in vanilla settings from any variation of sexuality are not fine.
Fine???
:P
We can't half manufacture an argument in a paper bag.
Think we are all singing from the same hymn sheet here so let's not pretend otherwise.
Gay couples are fine.
Gay couples at munches are fine.
Intimate sexual displays in vanilla settings from any variation of sexuality are not fine.
Fine???
:P
Quote by Jags
GRIEF
We can't half manufacture an argument in a paper bag.
Think we are all singing from the same hymn sheet here so let's not pretend otherwise.
Gay couples are fine.
Gay couples at munches are fine.
Intimate sexual displays in vanilla settings from any variation of sexuality are not fine.
Fine???
:P
Spot on
:thumbup:
Sex God
Quote by Jags
GRIEF
We can't half manufacture an argument in a paper bag.
Think we are all singing from the same hymn sheet here so let's not pretend otherwise.
Gay couples are fine.
Gay couples at munches are fine.
Intimate sexual displays in vanilla settings from any variation of sexuality are not fine.
Fine???
:P
as in reet petite????
Quote by steve-shireen
GRIEF
We can't half manufacture an argument in a paper bag.
Think we are all singing from the same hymn sheet here so let's not pretend otherwise.
Gay couples are fine.
Gay couples at munches are fine.
Intimate sexual displays in vanilla settings from any variation of sexuality are not fine.
Fine???
:P
Spot on
:thumbup:
What she said ... and as I AM that 'gay' couple and have my answer - can we lock this thread now please Jags?
Sex God
Quote by Jags
GRIEF
We can't half manufacture an argument in a paper bag.
Think we are all singing from the same hymn sheet here so let's not pretend otherwise.
Gay couples are fine.
Gay couples at munches are fine.
Intimate sexual displays in vanilla settings from any variation of sexuality are not fine.
Fine???
:P
That's not fair Jags! The arguements give us a break from the shagging. :twisted:
Roger the Dragon.
