Ok, been here a while now, posted a few times, planning on doing the paintball thing and would like to get to know a few more people.....whats the form with a munch? And is it purely a social thing or is it a little more......er.......fruity? Don't want to make a prat of myself, you know, the only guy in fancy dress syndrome?
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Check out this link bud.. http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html 
A munch is a social meeting in a totally neutral environment, often somewhere like a pub, where people can meet others with similar interests. As there's no play everyone can relax and it gives newbies a chance to ask questions of the more experienced without any fear of getting jumped on.
or thats what it used to be now the whole ethos has gone no longer was it you only needed to be a member of SH now you have to be active in ALL of sh you cant be just a chatter or just use the adverts. If you aint posted so many times you aint eligable no matter whether you're a daily chatter and dont use the forum. It's even got that bad that single men are sometimes restricted due to numbers!
A SH party is a totally different affair this is purely down to the host/hostess who is invited and thats as it shoud be.
or thats what it used to be now the whole ethos has gone no longer was it you only needed to be a member of SH now you have to be active in ALL of sh you cant be just a chatter or just use the adverts. If you aint posted so many times you aint eligable no matter whether you're a daily chatter and dont use the forum. It's even got that bad that single men are sometimes restricted due to numbers!
A SH party is a totally different affair this is purely down to the host/hostess who is invited and thats as it shoud be.
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or thats what it used to be now the whole ethos has gone no longer was it you only needed to be a member of SH now you have to be active in ALL of sh you cant be just a chatter or just use the adverts. If you aint posted so many times you aint eligable no matter whether you're a daily chatter and dont use the forum. It's even got that bad that single men are sometimes restricted due to numbers!
You DO NOT have to be active in ALL of SH at all!!
:roll: :roll: :roll:And we do not allow organisers to limit the amount of single men either!!
A munch is a purely social event held in a totally neutral environment, often somewhere like a pub, where members of Swinging Heaven get to meet each other. As there's no play involved everyone can relax which gives newbies a chance to ask questions of the more experienced without any fear of getting jumped on, and gives the regulars time to catch-up with old friends and make new ones.
You'll find organised Swingers Munches 'stickied' at the top of the Let's Meet Up forum. Usually they are centrally organised by one or two people who are more than likely well known members of Swinging Heaven. The exact location is kept strictly secret between the organisers and those who have been invited; strictly secret before and after the event. Organisers will usually only give out the exact location information to those who are invited just a few days before the event.
Getting an invite most likely involves getting registered on the forum and PMing (sending a Private Message via the forum) to the organiser asking to be invited, or adding your name(s) to the list by replying to the Munch thread - it's that simple.
A Munch is open to all - couples, singles, Gay, Bi, CDs, etc., there are no limits. The exception to this is the brand new newbie, i.e. those who have just joined the site or have not been an active participant. This is only to prevent gawpers, journalists and those who are just TOO curious. Remember, if you are keen to attend a Munch and meet other swingers, but are considered too new for this one, join in and keep posting because there'll be another Munch coming along shortly.
We have a strict rule that anyone organising a Munch on here is doing so solely for Swinging Heaven members, and is not promoting, colluding or otherwise involving any other website, club or group. Only people from Swinging Heaven who have been specifically invited are allowed to attend the Munches that are advertised on here.
Munches are a great way to finally meet all those people you've been chatting with on the Swinging Heaven Forum or in the Swinging Heaven Chatroom - and then who knows where it might lead!
