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Munches: are you a wallflower or a room worker?
Sex God
for some reason I tend to stick out like a sore thumb.... 
so I normally get "goosed" at the bar......
but i do like going round and looking at new names....
so I normally get "goosed" at the bar......but i do like going round and looking at new names....
Sex God
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html
This should help! :thumbup:
Why not have a look in Let's Meet Up and see if there's one near you?
This should help! :thumbup:
Why not have a look in Let's Meet Up and see if there's one near you?
Sex God
Quote by noladreams30
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But pre-Munch pondering, as I do (whilst working the list, checking out who I want to flirt with/maybe snog/chat to etc) and I was thinking when you go to a Munch are you a wallflower or do you work the room?
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Wanna name names? Should I pack my lip balm and clean my teeth?
<<< clean teeth. :lol2: Quote by Angel Chat
......... Other times I've sort of remembered speaking to someone but have absolutely no idea of who they were :doh:
My name was easy and I ran the bloody hotel you stayed at.
:rude: :lol2: Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Wallflower here, sit quietly in a corner and dont speak to anyone unless Im spoken to first........
diet coke with a citrus twist meets monitor moment. :shock:
I'm saying nothing. :gagged:
*moves away from NWC 'cos he's sure there's a lightning bolt with NWCs name on it on the way down* :uhoh:
As for me, I used to have a mingle and a good natter with anyone, but as I have to try to make people talk to me for a living and I'm very, very, very shy, I tend to sit around with old friends (I mean friends of old, not that everyone I know is decrepit and are past their use-by date :lol2: ) and just catch up.
Sex God
Quote by easy
.......
But pre-Munch pondering, as I do (whilst working the list, checking out who I want to flirt with/maybe snog/chat to etc) and I was thinking when you go to a Munch are you a wallflower or do you work the room?
........
Wanna name names? Should I pack my lip balm and clean my teeth?
<<< clean teeth. :lol2: Yep. :rascal:
Ummmm I dunno what I am... I have only been to a few, a couple have bad memories.. and that sorta put me off. Then I felt it was important to prove that worlass was real so I took her to one and had a lovely night with her there and with a lovely, lovely man that was allowing me to use him as a pole. 
I suppose I am a wallflower but that is because I actually don't really enjoy making polite conversation and am not good at talking about the weather and stuff so I am fairly anti-social and prefer dancing and the music. My hearing is also none too brilliant and I can't actually hear very much when there is background music so struggle to hear what people are saying and although I can lip read I am only really good at it if I know the person well. (accents and things throw me) Sooooooo did I answer the question or did I just waffle and whinge ?
I suppose I am a wallflower but that is because I actually don't really enjoy making polite conversation and am not good at talking about the weather and stuff so I am fairly anti-social and prefer dancing and the music. My hearing is also none too brilliant and I can't actually hear very much when there is background music so struggle to hear what people are saying and although I can lip read I am only really good at it if I know the person well. (accents and things throw me) Sooooooo did I answer the question or did I just waffle and whinge ?
Sex God
Quote by poshkate
I'm a wall flower :lol2:
I'm with PK on this one, just sit in the corner, never have a drink, never have a dance, never change clothes.
:bounce:
Sex God
Funny wallflowers you lot :laughabove:
I will sit in a corner all on me own sipping a mineral water or two.
I certainly won't be outside smoking and talking people's heads off... and I definately DO NOT advertise in the toilets that I piss like a racehorse when I'm drunk cos I drink mineral water :angel:
:lol:
P.S. I can't wait!!! xx
I certainly won't be outside smoking and talking people's heads off... and I definately DO NOT advertise in the toilets that I piss like a racehorse when I'm drunk cos I drink mineral water :angel:
:lol:P.S. I can't wait!!! xx
Sex God
Hmmm. I don't do the wallflower thing. Tend to talk to people I know already and look out for people who I haven't yet met but know will be there, just to say hello.
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
Hmmm. I don't do the wallflower thing. Tend to talk to people I know already and look out for people who I haven't yet met but know will be there, just to say hello.
Play Munch bingo with me FB... I'll print you off a card! :giggle:
Sex God
Munch Bingo! Love it
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
Munch Bingo! Love it
It'll be like a 21st century version of the Austen-esque "dance card"!!
Quote by noladreams30
Munch Bingo! Love it
It'll be like a 21st century version of the Austen-esque "dance card"!!
Ooo, can I play too please?
I tend to talk to people I know and people I'd like to know :twisted: I'm also crap at small talk with numpties but always try and be polite or get myself away from them before I say something bad
However, if you've got a good looking husband or boyfriend you'll see me go all giddy and silly - it doesn't happen very often but I'll be on brandy and babycham at Wigan (with a cherry) so who knows :rascal:
Sex God
Quote by BIoke
Munch Bingo! Love it
It'll be like a 21st century version of the Austen-esque "dance card"!!
Ooo, can I play too please?
I tend to talk to people I know and people I'd like to know :twisted: I'm also crap at small talk with numpties but always try and be polite.
However, If you've got a good looking husband or boyfriend you'll see me go all giddy and silly - it doesn't happen very often but I'll be on brandy and babycham at Wigan (with a cherry) so who knows :rascal:
Course you can play! :happy:
Sex God
Quote by BIoke
Munch Bingo! Love it
It'll be like a 21st century version of the Austen-esque "dance card"!!
Ooo, can I play too please?
I tend to talk to people I know and people I'd like to know :twisted: I'm also crap at small talk with numpties but always try and be polite or get myself away from them before I say something bad
However, if you've got a good looking husband or boyfriend you'll see me go all giddy and silly - it doesn't happen very often but I'll be on brandy and babycham at Wigan (with a cherry) so who knows :rascal:
Does Cherry know?! :shock: :giggle:
Quote by Dirtygirly
Munch Bingo! Love it
It'll be like a 21st century version of the Austen-esque "dance card"!!
Ooo, can I play too please?
I tend to talk to people I know and people I'd like to know :twisted: I'm also crap at small talk with numpties but always try and be polite or get myself away from them before I say something bad
However, if you've got a good looking husband or boyfriend you'll see me go all giddy and silly - it doesn't happen very often but I'll be on brandy and babycham at Wigan (with a cherry) so who knows :rascal:
Does Cherry know?! :shock: :giggle:
:rascal:
Sex God
Quote by BIoke
Munch Bingo! Love it
It'll be like a 21st century version of the Austen-esque "dance card"!!
Ooo, can I play too please?
I tend to talk to people I know and people I'd like to know :twisted: I'm also crap at small talk with numpties but always try and be polite or get myself away from them before I say something bad
However, if you've got a good looking husband or boyfriend you'll see me go all giddy and silly - it doesn't happen very often but I'll be on brandy and babycham at Wigan (with a cherry) so who knows :rascal:
Yes, you do!
I tend to find someone I know and latch on to them for dear life looking I guess more of a wall nettle I guess would describe me.I do love badge watching though and putting faces to icons.
My hearing is also none too brilliant and I can't actually hear very much when there is background music so struggle to hear what people are saying and although I can lip read I am only really good at it if I know the person well. (accents and things throw me)quote]
I am so glad there's someone else that has the same problem as poor hearing comes from lots of ear infections when I was a kid and being beaten up once which perforated my ear drum. Whenever there's lots of background noise I struggle to hear general conversation and I feel embarrased when I say pardon for the 5th time or ask the person next to me what was sai. It's a real social well I'll just have to feel my way around
My hearing is also none too brilliant and I can't actually hear very much when there is background music so struggle to hear what people are saying and although I can lip read I am only really good at it if I know the person well. (accents and things throw me)quote]
I am so glad there's someone else that has the same problem as poor hearing comes from lots of ear infections when I was a kid and being beaten up once which perforated my ear drum. Whenever there's lots of background noise I struggle to hear general conversation and I feel embarrased when I say pardon for the 5th time or ask the person next to me what was sai. It's a real social well I'll just have to feel my way around
Quote by niceguysdoexist
My hearing is also none too brilliant and I can't actually hear very much when there is background music so struggle to hear what people are saying and although I can lip read I am only really good at it if I know the person well. (accents and things throw me)
I am so glad there's someone else that has the same problem as poor hearing comes from lots of ear infections when I was a kid and being beaten up once which perforated my ear drum. Whenever there's lots of background noise I struggle to hear general conversation and I feel embarrased when I say pardon for the 5th time or ask the person next to me what was sai. It's a real social well I'll just have to feel my way around
The venue makes a difference for this - I much prefer a sound level where you can have a conversation and enjoy the music at the same time, rather than having to guess half the conversation.
Quote by essex34m
Depends on who the organisers are, but usually people like NWC will offer a "handholder" for newbies and she relies on oldies to volunteer their services.
Thanks Nola, and if there is anyone reading this who is a bit nervous about coming to Wigan, then please let me know straight away, as I do have a list of people who are more than willing to be 'hand holders' and show you round and introduce you to a few people.
I need a hand holder please.
I'll hold yours if you hold mine Essex!
Sex God
Quote by noladreams30
Munch Bingo! Love it
It'll be like a 21st century version of the Austen-esque "dance card"!!
Ooo, can I play too please?
Course you can play! :happy:
There is no way Im being a bingo caller for you
(not unless I can play as well)
