I am a young Asian guy on this site with my wife. I've just done a quick search to see if many Asians are on this site and there aren't many. I can understand, bring Asian, there is a certain with swinging or even talking about things of a sexual nature in the Asian culture in in islam, Hinduism and Sikhism. What interests me, is do anyone have any sexual experiences with Asians, would love to hear stories about Muslims though as it is a big in Islam?
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I'm sorry is your question about Asians? Hindu's? Sikh's? or Muslim's?
I have to ask because you start by talking about Muslims then take the question elsewhere.
I have to ask because you start by talking about Muslims then take the question elsewhere.
Sex God
I think it would be good if you were to reword your questions, and to avoid any specific reference to the behaviour of any ethnic or religious group.
You might, perhaps, state your own experiences or desires, and then ask if anyone from a similar background has similar experience.
You might, perhaps, state your own experiences or desires, and then ask if anyone from a similar background has similar experience.
Sorry skinny, that's a very fair and good point...
Being Asian and muslim, I am really intrigued if anyone on SH has had any experiences with Asian swingers? It's just interesting to know as I have never really seen many on SH and know from my own community, swinging is something that would not be seen in the best light..
Being Asian and muslim, I am really intrigued if anyone on SH has had any experiences with Asian swingers? It's just interesting to know as I have never really seen many on SH and know from my own community, swinging is something that would not be seen in the best light..
We have, on many occasions met and played with Asians who are muslims but never met any non Asian muslims, at least not to our knowledge because when we meet people those beliefs are immaterial, what we found is that, had they not told us they were muslim we would never have known their religion, the only time we would want to know anybody's religion would be if it affected us with regards to going out for a meal or putting on a buffet for their visit.
I don't think being of any religious belief will affect the sex, not with other people anyway, choosing to have sex outside of marriage is down to the individual to decide before arranging a meet and therefore irrelevant to those you meet.
I don't think being of any religious belief will affect the sex, not with other people anyway, choosing to have sex outside of marriage is down to the individual to decide before arranging a meet and therefore irrelevant to those you meet.
Warming the Bed
We might be looking at this from the wrong perspective.
Although it might be frowned upon to set criteria for peoples ethinic groups and religious backgrounds it's not wrong.
I am no big fan of events like Black Mans Fan Club for instance. However saying that a lot of us have our own preferences in who we want to play with. They also say that swinging is quite for Muslims - I could understand how this could act as a kind of kink for the couple.
I also think what the OP's want is to find people like themselves, god knows how difficult it is to connect with like minded people from here - let alone in a normal everyday life. From the social side of swinging it's important we have something in common, and that includes culture. For example I have come across a website devoted to the idea of Christian swingers - where people who feel Christian ideas are important in their lifes but also want to swing can get support to make sense of what they feel.
The OP's don't appear to hold that other ethic groups or religious backgrounds are in anyway inferior to what they are seeking - which is what should be frowned upon - all they are trying to seek is other people who match their sexual and social preferences.
Maybe the original post was not phrased that well or people have got the wrong end of the stick, but I can't see any issues with it at all.
Although it might be frowned upon to set criteria for peoples ethinic groups and religious backgrounds it's not wrong.
I am no big fan of events like Black Mans Fan Club for instance. However saying that a lot of us have our own preferences in who we want to play with. They also say that swinging is quite for Muslims - I could understand how this could act as a kind of kink for the couple.
I also think what the OP's want is to find people like themselves, god knows how difficult it is to connect with like minded people from here - let alone in a normal everyday life. From the social side of swinging it's important we have something in common, and that includes culture. For example I have come across a website devoted to the idea of Christian swingers - where people who feel Christian ideas are important in their lifes but also want to swing can get support to make sense of what they feel.
The OP's don't appear to hold that other ethic groups or religious backgrounds are in anyway inferior to what they are seeking - which is what should be frowned upon - all they are trying to seek is other people who match their sexual and social preferences.
Maybe the original post was not phrased that well or people have got the wrong end of the stick, but I can't see any issues with it at all.
My own knowledge of Islam is somewhat limited - although I have had contact with many Muslims and have a fair understanding of the faith (and have read the Koran, albeit in English) I am far from an authority on the subject.
However I would be fairly confident in stating that swinging is very Haram.
That said, there are Muslims and Muslims - I have met many who would be like your average Englishman is a Christian. Ticks the box on the census for CofE, may vehemently state that he is such if questioned yet has never read the bible and was last in a church for a wedding or baptism.
Such Muslims will imbibe of alcohol, live a modern life utterly in synch with what most people would consider normal and would only partake of the unclean beast on rare occasions (bacon butties seem to be a weakness for veggies and marginal Muslims alike). Even very observant Muslims will shed the restrictions of faith upon alighting upon our shores in a way not dissimilar to the ritual of Rumspringa for the Amish. About 10 seconds after the Emirates plane lands they are googling for escorts on their iPhones and stocking up the duty free on the way to the taxi. It is mainly a vice of the younger Muslim male, but older blokes often swerve from the path of the faithful.
Whether they would be in the swinging world as known to members of this site is unknown to me. I doubt it somehow.
It may be that there is a thriving Asian swinging scene - whether they would advertise such on a site like this is unknown, it could be that a couple of very quiet websites exist that we are unaware of, or there is a way of meeting by word of mouth, you know, like in the times before the internet when people used to (brace yourself) talk to other people (!).
Remember as well that even those who I would consider 'proper' Muslims have certain practices I would definitely consider haram - anyone who has read the Seven Pillars of Wisdom will be aware of certain goings on in that time that still continue in firmly Islamic countries in the middle east and near Asia. Have a google for bachabaze or dancing boys of Afghanistan if you want a bit of eye opening information.
As for other faiths, I have met one young Sikh gentleman and his incredibly beautiful girlfriend (although she may have been his wife - I can't remember) who I was able to figure out was into swinging by some inferences, although I think they were only into same room fun and not swapping.
However I would be fairly confident in stating that swinging is very Haram.
That said, there are Muslims and Muslims - I have met many who would be like your average Englishman is a Christian. Ticks the box on the census for CofE, may vehemently state that he is such if questioned yet has never read the bible and was last in a church for a wedding or baptism.
Such Muslims will imbibe of alcohol, live a modern life utterly in synch with what most people would consider normal and would only partake of the unclean beast on rare occasions (bacon butties seem to be a weakness for veggies and marginal Muslims alike). Even very observant Muslims will shed the restrictions of faith upon alighting upon our shores in a way not dissimilar to the ritual of Rumspringa for the Amish. About 10 seconds after the Emirates plane lands they are googling for escorts on their iPhones and stocking up the duty free on the way to the taxi. It is mainly a vice of the younger Muslim male, but older blokes often swerve from the path of the faithful.
Whether they would be in the swinging world as known to members of this site is unknown to me. I doubt it somehow.
It may be that there is a thriving Asian swinging scene - whether they would advertise such on a site like this is unknown, it could be that a couple of very quiet websites exist that we are unaware of, or there is a way of meeting by word of mouth, you know, like in the times before the internet when people used to (brace yourself) talk to other people (!).
Remember as well that even those who I would consider 'proper' Muslims have certain practices I would definitely consider haram - anyone who has read the Seven Pillars of Wisdom will be aware of certain goings on in that time that still continue in firmly Islamic countries in the middle east and near Asia. Have a google for bachabaze or dancing boys of Afghanistan if you want a bit of eye opening information.
As for other faiths, I have met one young Sikh gentleman and his incredibly beautiful girlfriend (although she may have been his wife - I can't remember) who I was able to figure out was into swinging by some inferences, although I think they were only into same room fun and not swapping.
Sex God
You don't post a lot, but you post well :thumbup:
well...first may I say that it isn't just Islam that would find swinging !! Look at Catholic faith....any sex outside marriage is not accepted....safe sex is not accepted even....v=being gay is not accepted. So do think religion is not relevant really.
Now moving onto race.....I think you will find a good chunk of people on here are from Asian background. Maybe they don't say so in there profile as they consider it not relevant.
I would say forget religion or race......focus on people that have the same interests and requirements for fun as you !!
Now moving onto race.....I think you will find a good chunk of people on here are from Asian background. Maybe they don't say so in there profile as they consider it not relevant.
I would say forget religion or race......focus on people that have the same interests and requirements for fun as you !!
Warming the Bed
we've met lots of obviously Asian people on this scene Ive never felt the need to ask their religion as i don't ask anyone else that question
basicly most religions support the idea of sex being within a relationshipfor the production of children
#however being a cynical non beliver if often think that has a lot to do with keeping the congregation numbers up some one has to keep the church hierarchy in wealth
in the same way the aristocracy in times gone bye needed cheap labour and canon fodder
slaves were encouraged to breed for the same reasons
basicly most religions support the idea of sex being within a relationshipfor the production of children
#however being a cynical non beliver if often think that has a lot to do with keeping the congregation numbers up some one has to keep the church hierarchy in wealth
in the same way the aristocracy in times gone bye needed cheap labour and canon fodder
slaves were encouraged to breed for the same reasons
When i was single i met a few asian men, in fact i found this site through an asian guy, he was a nice fun fella and i sometimes chat to him here still in the chat rooms.
I also met another lovely asian guy who was fun and a really nice guy who offered me a room when i was having problems with finding some where to live at one time, really nice guy and i wish we still had contact just for a catch up.
However all my other meetings with asian guys have been awful and i found all those other guys were rude, not interested in giving me any pleasure and just wanted a quick bj or fuck to give them pleasure, then they took offence when i said no thanks to meeting them again.
I have also had bad meets with white guys but the percentage of bad meets with asian guys is far higher !
When at Chams i have often found similar problems and now i wouldnt meet an asian guy for that reason, sad but no point in meeting men who dont want to give me some pleasure aswell as having theirs
I was worried about posting this as some people may think i am being racist or whatever but its all true.
I also met another lovely asian guy who was fun and a really nice guy who offered me a room when i was having problems with finding some where to live at one time, really nice guy and i wish we still had contact just for a catch up.
However all my other meetings with asian guys have been awful and i found all those other guys were rude, not interested in giving me any pleasure and just wanted a quick bj or fuck to give them pleasure, then they took offence when i said no thanks to meeting them again.
I have also had bad meets with white guys but the percentage of bad meets with asian guys is far higher !
When at Chams i have often found similar problems and now i wouldnt meet an asian guy for that reason, sad but no point in meeting men who dont want to give me some pleasure aswell as having theirs
I was worried about posting this as some people may think i am being racist or whatever but its all true.
