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My Dilemma.......

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Bassman
Master of Sex
I’ve thought long and hard about whether I continue posting on this site. Mainly because the one person I don’t want to piss off is Hayleyw2 who is a very dear and true friend to me.
I happen to know that Hayley is very passionate about this site and what it means to her, and the people that she has met and befriended through the site.
Everyone has their own reasons for being on SH. As for me, I enjoy reading the posts and I would like to make and meet new friends, socially or sexually.
If you have read my Swaffham post in the dogging section some of you may have thought it was contrived. There were some that thought me and Hayley were one and the same person.
The truth is that yes me and H do know each other, and yes Swaffham did happen.
I enjoyed it so much that I wanted to share the experience. The fact that we know each other is neither here nor there. We are individuals with our own separate lives and for the most part we do our own thing.
Well that’s all I wanted to say.
By the way, if anyone happens to see a red MG midget out and about dogging in Norfolk, it’s only me – say hello.
cool
Serendipity
Sex God
OK, I'm quite newish here so maybe I've missed something of major importance (I'm easily distracted wink ).....but if Hayley is your dear and true friend, how will your presence here p*** her off?
And I thought you met her for the first time very recently when you were both out dogging (Swaffham thread) .... or did I misunderstand? (again, easily distracted redface )
Bassman
Master of Sex
The thread I posted does give the impression that that was our first time meeting, but it was actually our first dogging session. We are both newcomers to the dogging scene.
I just felt I had to write about it because I enjoyed it so much. wink :wink:
5exy1
Warming the Bed
i,m completly lost as well i,ll have a vodka and coke biggrin :D
bedsman
Warming the Bed
Serendipity june tv and all others, H was quite embarassed and upset judging by the pm i got, she felt although she has lied to a lot of people who she has got to know and met. If you read the hospital thread started by her then you should find in there the bits you have missed.
Out of respect to both H and Bassman69 I will not put the reasoning on, up to you guys to read it and draw your own conclusions.
Bassman69, hope H and you are ok, I pm'd her back telling her not to worry. Personally, don't think you should go or stop posting EITHER of you. Just keep smiling smile :) :)
Sarah
Sex God
Quote by JudyTV
I know I'm blonde sometimes but I am completely lost here. It will no doubt all become clear after a few Vodka and Cokes???????????? dunno :confused:.
Judy

I must be having a blond moment as well, so Judy, I'll join you for several vodka's and cokes until it becomes clear, is that ok??
Jags
Sex God
Think I've got the gist - two people lied to everyone else - got found out and now are embarassed about it?
Ice_Pie
Sex God
Dunno, I just saw the vodka part and thought, oh I like this thread. biggrin drinkies
Jags
Sex God
Quote by JudyTV
Think I've got the gist - two people lied to everyone else - got found out and now are embarassed about it?

Ahhhhhhhhh.... The mist clears. There is an old and valid phrase that springs to mind that starts..."Least said........ etc"
Judy........(wiser via Jags)
My pleasure Judy lol x xx
bluexxx
Sex God
Yeah, but you have to admit, it was a good story :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Jags
Sex God
Quote by bluexxx
Yeah, but you have to admit, it was a good story :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

NOT as good as Office Mendacity Blue!!! lol :lol:
Bassman
Master of Sex
Jags / Bluexx whilst i respect the job you do as moderators of the site you haven't got a f***ing clue as to what me and H are about. Read the post again and tell me where the lie is. the only thing I omitted is the fact that myself and H are known to each other. She is a hot chick by the way. evil
t__t1
Casanova
Oh dear :shock:
Cassiopeia
Sex God
Quote by Ice Pie
Dunno, I just saw the vodka part and thought, oh I like this thread. biggrin drinkies

Was just gonna say make mine a double, but after what Ive been drinking all weekend, better make it cuppa tea please :shock: coffee
SilkandBigG
Sex God
I smell madness , insanity , madness and delusional nutterhood beyond belief .
Surely there have been deactivations for way less .
Bassman
Master of Sex
Quote by JudyTV
. As for me, I enjoy reading the posts and I would like to make and meet new friends, socially or sexually.
cool

It doesn't help to-wards achieving the above if you piss people off with abusive posts ..... especially the board moderators.
However good luck in your quest.
Judy
Don't mean to be abusive - not in my nature. the tone doesn't match the text. Happy just to get on with the good life. biggrin :D :D
:cheers:
Unknown User
Did someone mention Office Mendacity? biggrin
Now, this story I did read on one of my few forays into dogging section.
Someone tell me if this is what happened:
Bassman and H know each other, and arranged to go dogging together for the first time.
Bassman posted a story which either by innocent chance, design, or artistic licence, left everyone thinking that they did NOT know each other, and the dogging meeting was a chance encounter.
Many people cast doubt upon the story, and went as far as to say bassman and H were the same person, the whole thing was contrived, frauds, hiss, boo run them out of town.
I seem to remember that there were a number of people who also spoke up in support of them and said that they had met H, (although not sure about bassman?)
I thinkwhat bassman is now saying, is that H is not going to post again, and will be pissed off with him because if he continues to post here after the way the reaction to the story made her feel, she would feel 'let down?' confused :? - However, I did not read the bits in the hospital post refering to this, so could be completely wrong.
Serendipity june tv and all others, H was quite embarassed and upset judging by the pm i got, she felt although she has lied to a lot of people who she has got to know and met. If you read the hospital thread started by her then you should find in there the bits you have missed.
I don't understand this bit though! :? Which is probably the bit that has got everyone confused, and the bit Jags picked up on. I also think there is a typing error in there.
I reckon it was a bit of over excitement that went all pear shaped in the story telling phase!
lhk
JonJon
Orgasminator
Quote by JudyTV
It will no doubt all become clear after a few Vodka and Cokes????????????

So much for no drug references :shock: ;)
Elissamay
Sexpert
Please can someone direct me to the dogging thread? Can't find it anywhere...
Thanks!
Mxxx