In real life and on here, we are both honest about our ages. In my opinion, you cannot tell the difference between a person who is 39 and one who is 42 purely on their physical appearance. I am nearly 38 but have been told I look 50, and Bex is 35 and has been told she looks 16 (although she was told that on here, so it is clearly a lie and a poor attempt at a chat-up line).
I think lying about your age is only a cardinal sin if you are 50 but trying to pass yourself off as 25 or something similarly outrageous - so unless you are going to distance your actual age from your profile age by at least a decade and a half then it is not really worth doing and will only serve to highlight the errant individual as a liar and a little bit sad when the time comes for a meet/cam/social or similar.
I'm 43, on here and in real life. Its what my passport says :thumbup:
I think the issues are lower down the ranges. We have met some people who whilst still attractive certainly were not 24 as their profile suggested. Do you compare with Facebook? I find the people on swinging sites who are around my age alway look older than my school friends on facebook whos ages I know to be correct.
I`m 45 and I tell people I`m 45, even tho they say I only look 35 :grin: ( if only)
Despite what my username says, I am actually 40.
39 is the most popular age for female swingers lol...i cant understand why lol...its not as if anyone tells lies on here is it?
Sometimes I confuse my mental age with my actual age.......:doh:
