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My First Bi Experience

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Strange as it may seem to everyone who knows me, in the four years we have been swinging, I've never been drawn to other women and have made a point of telling all couples that I am 100% straight!
Then, last saturday at La Chambre, we met a young couple with an attractive bi woman, who I couldn't keep my hands off. I kissed and played with her all night and had an incredible time! Hubby was as surprised as me that hidden inside me had been some latent lesbian tendancies waiting to be discovered!
How can someone so adamently straight as me, turn like this??!
Bring on my next girl!
when we first started off in the swinging scene jane never showed any bi tendencies and to my knowledge (and hers) she had never given it a it happens we were playing with a cpl many yrs ago and the lady of the cpl joined her husband in touching my wife and to my surprise she responded by copying the lady before having a full on bi experience sillyhwoar: with never looked back since then and is always up for some more bi fun with the cpls we meet
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How can someone so adamently straight as me, turn like this??!

It is an attraction thing. You never met a woman you were that attracted to before.
Does this beg the question that we are all bi, we just don't realise it 'cos we haven't met that person of the same sex (or in my case - opposite sex) who has attracted us? dunno
Glad you had a great time wink
aRSexx :color:
Taking this Bi thing the other way
I have been straight for 42 years and then from somewhere
ended up laying on a bed with another male, playing with each other
Its only gone that far at present but inside i feel i want some more fun
but where did it come from after all this time
i have no idea
Ooo SheffieldFun sounds good (jealous!).
As a pernickity aside, I've have walways wondered why women describe it as a 'bi experience' when they play with another woman. How can playing with a woman be 'bi' - surely it's a same-sex experience... Sorry don't want to spoil the fun, it's just never made sense to me smile
Everyone has a little bi in them. It is just most people will not admit it to them selves. I am glad you have had to chance to explore another woman and you enjoyed it. Did hubby enjoy it and would you do it again?
i always said i was 100% straight.
until i met a couple with bi fem.
she was so sexy and funny, i was so relaxed.
that one thing led to another.
it was so good i went back for more and more biggrin :D :D
I have always believed that everyone has the ability"fluid" about sexuality, but that it's a question of keeping an open mind and finding the people that "click"
For some of us we discover it, and act on it, early in life, and for others it doesn't happen until much later. I love being fluid and am happy when other people discover their own potential in a safe, fun, no pressure experience.
yay!!!
xxx
ms. ocky (realizing that yes, she sounded like a new-age twit)
I used to think that I'd never find another woman sexually attractive.....untill I saw Liv Tyler washing her car in 'One Night at Mc Cools' and since I've met my current (swinging) partner I've come to realise its more about the person than what sex they happen to be(sounds really weak!!). passionkiss
There's nothing like you're first experience especially if it has come as a surprise as it did to me............whatever way it happens is irrelevant as long as you enjoyed it, it's nice to realise you don't wake up in the morning a lesbian,,,,,,,, lol
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Taking this Bi thing the other way
I have been straight for 42 years and then from somewhere
ended up laying on a bed with another male, playing with each other
Its only gone that far at present but inside i feel i want some more fun
but where did it come from after all this time
i have no idea

but are you going the other way?? Surely this shows that male / female we all underneath human and can in the right circumstances connect with someone else and want to share ourselves with them. The physical shape or sex of them wont matter unless we make it matter?
Then again that spark needs to be 2 way and some people only seem to get it with a type of person, but there can always be the bolt from the blue, be you gay or streight that may send you bi for a while. You cant force it, you can't predict it, just go where your concience takes you, what else can we do...
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Surely this shows that male / female we all underneath human and can in the right circumstances connect with someone else and want to share ourselves with them. The physical shape or sex of them wont matter unless we make it matter?
Then again that spark needs to be 2 way and some people only seem to get it with a type of person, but there can always be the bolt from the blue, be you gay or streight that may send you bi for a while. You cant force it, you can't predict it, just go where your concience takes you, what else can we do...

:thumbup: TNH - my thoughts exactly! And maybe one day the world will accept that!
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I used to think that I'd never find another woman sexually attractive.....untill I saw Liv Tyler washing her car in 'One Night at Mc Cools' and since I've met my current (swinging) partner I've come to realise its more about the person than what sex they happen to be(sounds really weak!!). passionkiss

I'm watching the lord of the rings on channel four right now and I've got this fantasy threesum thing going on in my mind. Me, Viggo Mortensen and Liv Tyler...mmmmmmmmmmmm
I haven't had a 'bi-experience' as yet but if I ever meet a Liv Tyler kinda girl then I'm sure it'll be the best ever 69position :smoke:
I think we all have bi tendencies. Some of us have a lot, some have a little. It also probably fluctuates throughout our life.