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If I put an advert in the appropriate section offering to provide any kind of sexual service to ladies or couples, No one gives it a second thought ...
Even if I ask for similar favours in return....
But if i get my kicks from taking pictures of naked ladies or couples and ask for absolutely nothing in return, the moderators and admin drop on me from a great height..
I am not a pro photographer, just pretty good..
I enjoy taking adult pictures in the same way that someone else might enjoy cross dressing, or wearing rubber....so why is what I do regarded by the people who run this site as something that is too terrible to mention.
I am not advertising a business and I dont ask to be paid in cash or favours..
In fact I would not be surprised if they regard this posting as an advert and I doubt if they will even let the members discuss the topic ???
The moderators are simply checking your not offering your services as a photographer in exchange for cash...
That is not permitted on this site.....
Quote by NikonPro
If I put an advert in the appropriate section offering to provide any kind of sexual service to ladies or couples, No one gives it a second thought ...
Even if I ask for similar favours in return....
But if i get my kicks from taking pictures of naked ladies or couples and ask for absolutely nothing in return, the moderators and admin drop on me from a great height..
I am not a pro photographer, just pretty good..
I enjoy taking adult pictures in the same way that someone else might enjoy cross dressing, or wearing rubber....so why is what I do regarded by the people who run this site as something that is too terrible to mention.
I am not advertising a business and I dont ask to be paid in cash or favours..
In fact I would not be surprised if they regard this posting as an advert and I doubt if they will even let the members discuss the topic ???

Whinge away. You will see that currently we do allow photographers as long as they don't charge.
Mal
wink
Oh and Merry Christmas! lol
I've just checked what exactly you were whinging about and it wasn't that you were advertising photography, but you were advertising it as a fetish, which it isn't. Your subjects might be, but that doesn't make photography a fetish.
hope that clarifies things for you.
Mal
Oh and Merry Christmas lol
So, you are saying I can advertise to photograph people
as long as I make it clear that no payment is expected or asked..
This is not the first time I have been hassled about photography
and I have always made it 100% clear I am doing it just for fun..
The reason I tried my luck in the fetish section is because when i put it in
another section last year you deleted it and claimed i was advertising a business..
ps, why is it when someone criticises the moderators, they are whingeing..??
Ps Yo Ho Ho lol
pps
Oxford dictionary : fetish
a course of action to which one has an excessive and irrational commitment.
that can be taking pictures cant it ??
Quote by NikonPro
pps
Oxford dictionary : fetish
a course of action to which one has an excessive and irrational commitment.
that can be taking pictures cant it ??

Errr it might be redface
Now.... Talk dirty to me and tell me what gear you have :rascal:
Shireen (Canon user but lusts after a Nikon D3s)
Quote by Shireen
pps
Oxford dictionary : fetish
a course of action to which one has an excessive and irrational commitment.
that can be taking pictures cant it ??

Errr it might be redface
Now.... Talk dirty to me and tell me what gear you have :rascal:
Shireen (Canon user but lusts after a Nikon D3s)
D700
D700 eh?? Mmmmm now talk even dirtier and tell me what lenses you have *fans self*
I was a bit cross to find the credit i gave Nikon was deleted from my profile with no option of an explanation from the mods - people are always asking who took my photos so thought I would let them know - can't see the harm in it!
Hi ChooChoo,
I cant understand their attitude at all.. It seems as if the moderators are
working independently of each other...and interpreting the rules in their own way..
In this very thread, Mal, a moderator says .........
currently we do allow photographers as long as they don't charge.
why dont you drop a line to admin and ask for their logic behind there action in removing my name ?
I was under the impression that it was US, the members who are the paying customers here??
Quote by Shireen
D700 eh?? Mmmmm now talk even dirtier and tell me what lenses you have *fans self*

Hello again Shireen,
well you asked, so here it is... Hope I dont bore you lol
I am an old fart with more money than good sense and too much time on my hands..
plus a passion for taking pictures....pictures of absolutely anything.
I have the Nikon D700 plus Nikon lenses...14-24mm...24-70mm...70-200
85mm ( 1.4 ) 105mm makro .. I also have some portable studio gear,
Calumet strobes which I have used to photograph a few ladies on this website.
Hope that got your juices flowing.. drop me a pm and tell me about your photography
Quote by NikonPro
D700 eh?? Mmmmm now talk even dirtier and tell me what lenses you have *fans self*

Hello again Shireen,
well you asked, so here it is... Hope I dont bore you lol
I am an old fart with more money than good sense and too much time on my hands..
plus a passion for taking pictures....pictures of absolutely anything.
I have the Nikon D700 plus Nikon lenses...14-24mm...24-70mm...70-200
85mm ( 1.4 ) 105mm makro .. I also have some portable studio gear,
Calumet strobes which I have used to photograph a few ladies on this website.
Hope that got your juices flowing.. drop me a pm and tell me about your photography
KRUSTY you dirty dawg!!!! Shireen - seriously Nikon did my photos and a fabulous job he did too!!
Quote by Choochie
I was a bit cross to find the credit i gave Nikon was deleted from my profile with no option of an explanation from the mods - people are always asking who took my photos so thought I would let them know - can't see the harm in it!

It will be because we don't really allow advertising - if you post a pic with a photographers details on it (usually some sort of company detail or watermark) it is advertising their services.
AUP:
Non Acceptable Behaviour.
* Commercial posts, spamming, offering of a service, or the mention of financial involvement.

However in the future this may change.
Usually a Mod will pop a message to you to explain why a pic has been deleted - it must have been an oversight.
Great pics though! wink
Thanks for the reasoned reply Nola, better than calling your customers whingers...
I am not running any kind of commercial enterprise and I seek no payment or reward
like everyone on this site I am doing what I do for the fun of it...
we all get our pleasure in different ways... If I offer to come round and pee in your ear that is acceptable, if i offer to take your picture then I am doing wrong..
buggered if I can understand the logic behind it ??
Quote by NikonPro
Thanks for the reasoned reply Nola, better than calling your customers whingers...
I am not running any kind of commercial enterprise and I seek no payment or reward
like everyone on this site I am doing what I do for the fun of it...
we all get our pleasure in different ways... If I offer to come round and pee in your ear that is acceptable, if i offer to take your picture then I am doing wrong..
buggered if I can understand the logic behind it ??

You're welcome.
The thing is, we know now that you are not charging etc and that is cool. However we do get lots of photos that appear to be a way of advertising various businesses (not just photographers) so we have to make sure things stick within the AUP as it stands. So if someone uploaded photos with company logos or photographers details they would have been taken off. A thread in Let's Meet Up or an advert from you offering a free service would not be subject to same rules as long as you make the no-charge aspect explicit.
As for the pissing in ears... no thanks!
lol
I'm a photographer and I've got a couple of ads running here for my photography - However my ads aren't offering a professional service - I like doing it for my portfolio.
Of course, I do it for money too, but this is the last place I'd come looking for pro work. lol
You lot are sao bloddy clicky rolleyes
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You lot are sao bloddy clicky rolleyes
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:laughabove:
I have some ideas for foto's that I can't take myself... however, they may err a little on the depraved side.
lp
Quote by NikonPro
Hi ChooChoo,
I cant understand their attitude at all.. It seems as if the moderators are
working independently of each other...and interpreting the rules in their own way..
In this very thread, Mal, a moderator says .........
currently we do allow photographers as long as they don't charge.
why dont you drop a line to admin and ask for their logic behind there action in removing my name ?
I was under the impression that it was US, the members who are the paying customers here??

I know Mal and Nola have already answered you but the other thing to remember is discretion, which is of paramount importance to all members of this site (and throughout the lifestyle).
We cannot allow members to name other members in any public areas of their account - period! Yes, we understand that members meet in real life, and we know they do naughty things together, but we have to make sure that they don't go round name dropping in case the other person objects.
Because we don't have the time (or the inclination) to check out each and every case for mutual consent, record that consent for future reference, or monitor it for continued validity, it's far better to simply restrict it.
The best advice I can offer in cases like this, or for advice on any site policy, is to PM one of us Mods or Ops for guidance. We do all talk to each other so if one of us doesn't have a definitive answer we will get consensus from the others (or Admin) before we respond.
Work with us guys - we do what we do for the benefit of the site, but our primary concern is the protection of the user community. :thumbup:
Quote by NikonPro
Hello again Shireen,
well you asked, so here it is... Hope I dont bore you lol
I am an old fart with more money than good sense and too much time on my hands..
plus a passion for taking pictures....pictures of absolutely anything.
I have the Nikon D700 plus Nikon lenses...14-24mm...24-70mm...70-200
85mm ( 1.4 ) 105mm makro .. I also have some portable studio gear,
Calumet strobes which I have used to photograph a few ladies on this website.
Hope that got your juices flowing.. drop me a pm and tell me about your photography

Oooohhhh photography porn :rascal: Not to mention gear envy :giggle:
Choochie he did you proud with those photo's kiss
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I have some ideas for foto's that I can't take myself... however, they may err a little on the depraved side.
lp

*Waves hand and jumps about* Me me me I can help :giggle: