Ok I need to sort out my porfile and make it for a couple as my partner has now said she would like to try the "scene" and would like some advice from the couples here she is not very confident and niether am I for that matter so how do I start profile what points should I make clear she has thought about another woman but is not sure if she is actually bi she has thought about another man but we have both agreed that we meet couples only. So different now that I we could end up swinging together it used to be just me when I was single.
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Congratulations on swinging together.
The best bit of advice i can give is to write exactly what you want. No point in not mentioning stuff that you really don't want and leaving out stuff that you really do want. Say it as it is. After all it is you that is requesting others to join you.
Hope it helps.
Good luck.
G x
The best bit of advice i can give is to write exactly what you want. No point in not mentioning stuff that you really don't want and leaving out stuff that you really do want. Say it as it is. After all it is you that is requesting others to join you.
Hope it helps.
Good luck.
G x
Welcome mrs OOTD, we are a fairly experienced cpl now, and we would be only too pleased to give any assistance we can.
PM us if you would like to have a chat or have any Q's.
We cant promise to give you the 'very' best advice, but it will be honest and based on our own experiences.
Good luck you two xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
PM us if you would like to have a chat or have any Q's.
We cant promise to give you the 'very' best advice, but it will be honest and based on our own experiences.
Good luck you two xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hiya
Well after nearly 12 years of swinging on my own, I too have finally found someone who is as keen on swinging as I am and we are now both going to clubs - well for the first time tonight!
I think the key to making it successful is talking about what you both expect from the experience and (I suppose it could be catagorised as soft swing???) maybe set out boundaries/rules for the first few times you go - what you would be comfortable seeing her do, and what she would be comfortable seeing you do - and obviously don't push it if she is as nervous as she is likely to be.
Another good tip is a few sherberts down both of your necks to relax you both before you go!
Good luck anyway, and hope you both have a good time!
Well after nearly 12 years of swinging on my own, I too have finally found someone who is as keen on swinging as I am and we are now both going to clubs - well for the first time tonight!
I think the key to making it successful is talking about what you both expect from the experience and (I suppose it could be catagorised as soft swing???) maybe set out boundaries/rules for the first few times you go - what you would be comfortable seeing her do, and what she would be comfortable seeing you do - and obviously don't push it if she is as nervous as she is likely to be.
Another good tip is a few sherberts down both of your necks to relax you both before you go!
Good luck anyway, and hope you both have a good time!
anyway we need to sort out pics at some point and to update profile for us both