Once you have had a shot I want them all next :twisted: :twisted:
xx
Del
I often wonder about the after effects of 'gang bang' activities. My ex used to get quite sore after a single session,(just with me) it would be rare for her to manage twice a night without discomfort. Admitedly she had not led a very active sex life before but does that really have any bearing on her ability to have sex over a longer perion without getting sore. I should add that there were no lubrication problems
mary why dont you get the ones that you want then invite them to meet up in say...club f sunderland they run greedy girl nights on wednesday nights there will couples and single fems and you have the security of the ppl on the door and ppl who are looking for the same thing.
why would anyone think less of you??? it they are that shallow you are better off not knowing them hunny......
if that is what you want to do then go for it... i would echo what everyone else has said about only doing it with people you trust.......
have fun and be safe...
sean xxxxxxxxxxx
I was discussing this recently with a friend, and the subject of control came up. She has tried MMF a few times with her long term partner, and loved it. Part of her liked the security of knowing her partner would be 100% looking after her welfare, and that helped her relax and enjoy it.
However she also said that she's fantasised about doing this with two complete strangers, and part of what excites her is giving up control over the situation. A club might well be the best place to fulfill this fantasy, purely from the safety aspect.
So ask yourself this question Marya. Could you only feel comfortable being a greedy girl if your personal minder gives you that level of control over proceedings, or is part of your fantasy handing control over to others?
I should imagine that most men would be more than willing to help satisfy this craving of yours Marya. You know who you trust and respect the most, invite those along and they will be able to help control the situation, should the need arise.
You will probably find though that everything will be perfect, or nearly lol
Hi Marya
I can well understand your concerns, as men in a group can behave in an unpleasant,
possibly aggressive manner, especially when the atmosphere is so sexually charged.
I've enjoyed a few GBs, but they have always taken place in clubs, and there has
ALWAYS been a male partner to look after the lady, as well as make sure that she
is getting the most out of it. I agree with everyone else who has commented on the
utility of using a swingers club, as things are very unlikely to get out of hand.
It seems to me that women who indulge in GG events do enjoy the sense of
abandonment, and being intimate with a range of men that they might not normally
be intimate with (due to appearance, age, etc). The sense of being in control / not
in control is a real buzz (for the male participants too!).
You are right to err on the side of caution. By my reckoning, the best GG events
are unplanned but happen spontaneously, with a woman deciding she wants to
take centre stage. I've never attended a planned GG night, but I imagine them to be
more staid affairs, and I suppose there is no guarantee of fellow women being
around for company, just an army of men (although that's also true of a normal
night at a swingers club).
Perhaps the best option would be to meet a single guy, go to a couples only
night and then indulge your fantasy, as at least there'd be lots of people to keep
an eye out for your safety, and you could go as far as you felt comfortable.
Whatever you do, be careful
Ash
Marya.
You've gotta go with your instinct babe.
but i would advice you have someone there. who is not involved with the event. but someone you can call up on if you need to.
I know for a fact i would not think anything less of you. if there was such thing as a Greedy bloke type think (then again does it excist..... i'm off to lets meet up after this thread is finished!) i'm sure every bloke would love it to be done to them.
Your an intellinget woman. and i know for a fact that you'll pick the right decission. and i hope you have fun either way...
xxxx
Jonathan xx
One of my best friends is one of the few ladies I know that wholeheartedly loves Greedy Girl scenarios. She's only ever done them in the company of a close and trusted male though (mutual friend and also a swinger).
My own limited experience in group situations that involved several men with one lady (who was clubbing with me) was that I felt that, as her friend and companion for the evening, I had some (mutually understood) duty to keep an eye on things and make sure everything went a) safely and b) at the speed she was comfortable with. The men were very considerate and gentle, but we had never met them before, and a stranger might not pick up on signals as quickly as someone you know. As Bluexxx said, you have also to be sure the men will get on with each other, and an experienced male friend you know can help as a sort of 'choreographer'.
I have spoken to one or two swingers where the lady in the couple has had a solitary experience (very unusual) where she didn't feel in control and wanted to be, and one couple said to us that it was the reason they wouldn't go into a room without the other one (her husband) being there.
Marya if your looking for someone to 'look after you' does it have to be a man :rascal:
Dawn :silly:
....................well definitely me anyway 
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:P
